Annoyance, lack of self confidence, lack of self confidence for whatever

I'm a businessman, and I also feel like I'm inferior to others. I don't think I'm having a higher IQ than someone my age. Sometimes, I even feel as if I don't know anything but eat and spend money.

For a long time, I chose to be richer than the people in the unit, and more stable than the people in society. And people who are completely in business than I have units. Hehe.

I'm still not confident, knowing that I'm richer than him and have more room for development than him. However, I just don't think I'm as good as anyone else. I don't know why.

However, I can only do things. I can't help it. Things have to be done. Nobody does. People have to go out and socialize. Later, I opened my own 4-star hotel. Opened a renovation company. In the unit, I got the most comfortable position in the whole unit.

Actually, I've always been still not confident, and I even feel that I don't have any money for people who don't get a salary. But it doesn't stop me from spending, and it doesn't prevent others from respecting me when I eat out every day.

Later, I figured it out, if you don't have confidence, you can't be confident, this thing can't be changed. As long as his stomach is full, he doesn't care what other things he does. To be a man, you have to make your own style.

When I'm not confident, I don't talk outside, and when I talk about business, I'm not confident, so I try to sit comfortably and have an indifferent attitude. Don't speak, sometimes they are deep when I am high. Ha ha. And with them.

Be confident, you're the best, I'm not as good as you!! Hehe.

If you want to open a little, you may not have more than others!

No one is born to be capable. Maybe when you praise others, others are also unconsciously admiring you! Everyone's most taboo is not self-confidence, don't grow the ambition of others to destroy their own prestige, you know?

Possible causes or influencing factors:

1. I like to think about the bad side of everything.

2. Not having a correct understanding of oneself, paying too much attention to one's own shortcomings and ignoring one's own strengths.

3. Lack of encouragement and affirmation from others, and inability to self-accept and self-identify 4. Lack of assertiveness and weak ability to think independently.

You don't know your strengths, what do you think you're best at, find your strengths, try different things, confidence needs to be built slowly, many successes can build your self-confidence, come on, you are unique.

In general, there are two reasons for lack of self-confidence, one is psychological and the other is physical. The psychological reason is relatively simple, which is often referred to as inferiority complex. Physiological reasons, such as being too short or too fat, cause ridicule from people around you, and in the long run, you will feel unconfident and feel that you are inferior to others in every way.

In fact, an appropriate sense of inferiority is a good thing, and only an appropriate sense of inferiority will make people motivated to constantly improve themselves and catch up with the pace of others. But if the inferiority complex is excessive, it will make people anxious and think that they are inferior to others in every way.

He laughs at you, and you try to make money to prove yourself to gag him. You don't have to complain about anyone, believe in yourself, as long as you don't give up, you can do something. I'm in a similar situation to you, and I'm just trying desperately to prove myself.

I grew up in the countryside since I was a child, maybe my parents were too strict and criticized too much since I was a child, and I grew up in denial, which led to me not daring to speak in front of others, and I never dared to say a word when others had requests.

In fact, Silly Nizi knows everything, and she also has a mirror in her heart about whether she is good or bad, but she can't express her thoughts in words, and she can't express it, and she doesn't dare to express her heart. Since I was a child, I was treated as a fool to help my relatives and friends work, although sometimes I was very unhappy, and I could only help silently to work, and I didn't have the courage to say a word. Always afraid of being told by others, always living in the eyes of others, these are what you should do for others.

Because human thoughts are too complicated, so don't give your kindness easily! Excessive kindness can only cause others to blackmail you even more!

The lack of self-confidence brought about by growing up in denial, I didn't even finish middle school, I didn't have the courage to finish what I was afraid I wouldn't be able to, I never believed that I could do it, and I was not confident and very inferior to anything I did. After getting married, because of the pressure and pressure of life, the mountain is stuffy and often makes trouble, so he will sulk and all kinds of depression after a long time. I always feel that I am very inferior in front of others, and I don't like to communicate with anyone, and I will feel difficult to communicate with others.

I hope that I can slowly come out of the lack of self-confidence, just like being a human being is like a flower, no matter whether anyone appreciates it or not, but you must bloom, you are not blooming for others, but blooming for yourself. Don't be someone else's reward, just do the most dazzling self-amusement and self-destruction! Remember to encourage yourself every day, I am the best cheer!