I m so unconfident, I m not confident why

Updated on psychology 2024-05-10
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You have to think about it, if you are really like what you say, why should your boyfriend be with you, you must have other charms that attract him. Looks are innate, but you can rely on others to make up for it, cultivate your own good character, although the inner beauty has been rarely mentioned in these years, but it doesn't mean that it is not practical, like my classmates say that they will not grow beautiful in the future, but only have a good character.

    In addition, you say that you are grounded, which is the best, and men also need a sense of security.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This unconfident sister

    I would like to say that a lot of the time we see it.

    Couples are like this, a little mismatched.

    It's more normal

    When two people are together, the most important thing is whether they feel happy and relaxed together.

    Appearance is just a second, it's better not to pay too much attention to other people's opinions, and happiness needs to be grasped well.

    You need to be confident...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You... If it were me, I would have thought it all made sense ...

    The counts that don't match on the street are all 、、、

    Why bother with this?

    You always have your strengths ... I believe that character makes people more beautiful...

    It's hard to find a good wife now, maybe your boyfriend will look at you like a wife...

    Be confident ... Look in the mirror ... There's always a pretty side. ~

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not good or bad.

    It's hard to find someone who matches you these days.

    It's okay. You have to be confident.

    As long as you two truly love each other, it's enough.

    Don't care what other people think.

    Your love belongs only to the two of you.

    No one else has the right to care about that much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You want so much dry hemp. Your boyfriend likes you, rightly so.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    How could he fall in love with you?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To borrow the words of the brother above.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There are many reasons for lack of self-confidence, which are nothing more than objective factors and subjective feelings

    Objective factors mainly include: the limitations of your own conditions, such as education, height, appearance, family background, professional environment to identify with you, etc., which may affect your self-judgment to a certain extent, thereby affecting your mental outlook, work ability, and the final result is to affect others' perception of you.

    Subjective feelings refer to the judgment of what happened to us and our evaluation of ourselves, of course, mainly including the evaluation of work ability, public relations, appearance and temperament, this evaluation is the evaluation of others about you, and you compare yourself with others.

    So it's important to keep a calm mind. You should understand yourself, evaluate your ability appropriately, adjust yourself according to the actual situation, and exercise yourself in ordinary life to improve your ability in all aspects.

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