I m good, he s not motivated. I m afraid he ll feel shameless

I think it's you who thinks about your boyfriend very much, but I advise you not to think too much about him and go your own way. Your boyfriend is not self-motivated, what is the use of being careful, be happy when you should be happy at work, you have to motivate him to be self-motivated and better than girls. You can't protect him.

If he loves you, he will love everything about you, he will accept everything about you, and he will leave his son to learn from your capable girlfriend. There is nothing in love with each other. Personally, I think I'm proud to have a girlfriend like you, and I'm strict with myself to be self-motivated, or no worse than you.

I would be more demanding of myself because I have a girlfriend like you.

Yes, you should leave him alone.

If life is not settled, it will stimulate his fighting spirit, such as being poor and hungry for a few days.

You know the cruelty of reality, the jungle eats the strong.

As a man, of course you will lose face without a career, if you are a strong woman, if you really love him, then you should try to leave, because it will become an obstacle between you, find someone stronger than you.

Why should you look for someone who doesn't want to be motivated.

The fact that you are better than him is here, if he cares, you don't say anything or do anything, it's useless, and having a person like you by your side is a shameless thing in itself.

Unless you are willing to give up what you have for him, and do worse than him.

If I were him, I'd feel proud, proud, not faceless.

If he loves you, he won't feel faceless because of this, because you are his future wife, and with an excellent wife like you, people who feel faceless are definitely sick.

Maybe it's just your one-sided idea.

If it were me, I would be happy.

Like you and he will like everything about you.

You should be very good, so help him (secretly).

See through but don't say through. Many things, as long as you know them in your heart, there is no need to say them.

Be polite and courteous, neither humble nor arrogant;

It's hard to say, but it doesn't feel difficult.

It's okay for someone else to make a little joke.

It's not good if it's too much.

Hehe, everyone has a little bit of a "psychological barrier" that you talk about, and this is because there are some things that you haven't understood yet.

Boys have to be strong, especially when they are young, if they appear strong in front of girls, they will win the love of girls, which is the nature of children. But in reality, it is a fact that many girls are better than boys, you have to know whether you are bowing to girls, or are you not better than him? I don't think any girl will be so bored that she wants you to bow her head for no reason!

So that's the second question, can't you accept that girls are better than you? Why? Why can't girls be better than boys?

Who sets the rules! If you think about this, you won't be troubled!

It's that you're thinking too much.,Actually, it's really nothing.。。。 You just think this is a man's demeanor.

Machismo is a must.

It depends on how bold you are.

Bow down at his feet, not you bow your head, but your respect for him.

Dress yourself up beautifully and noblely, be a wife's duty, care more about your boyfriend, be a landlord if you have a treat, and be reserved if others have a treat, that's what my wife does, hehe.

Shit, dress up beautifully. This way your boyfriend and friends will think you're more casual. You don't have to deliberately pursue these, it's just how you usually say how to play, just what, there's no need to pursue face, if your boyfriend really likes you, he will tell you something before eating in advance, if you don't say it, there's no need to make it so troublesome.

If you want your boyfriend to have a good face, of course, you have to dress up beautifully, **, just be easy-going when you are together, and there is no need to deliberately behave like this.

Then you can be generous and let go, you can say that you are a little restrained when you meet them for the first time, in fact, you don't have to care about so many superficial phenomena, as long as you behave generously and decently, and have a dessert, your boyfriend will feel very face-saving and satisfy his vanity.

Yes, I think it's best to talk to his friends about topics that interest them, ask more questions, and talk less about himself.

It's good to talk to him (her) directly, if you don't feel it, say it as soon as possible, and there is no need to seek the so-called perfect solution, otherwise it will become more and more chaotic.

You don't have feelings for him, what more courage do you need, if you don't say it, the consequences may be worse.

Before he confessed, he consulted with another boy and said that he had feelings for that person.

I don't have a job either, don't worry.

I'm in a similar situation to you now, and I'm the same way, even if others don't say it, I feel very anxious.

I'm also afraid of being asked about work 、、、

It's okay, we can find a job slowly.

The days to come are still long, but now it's only temporary.

We need to be confident, you know?

We're not at work right now, so we can do what we can.

May you be happy.

Then you go and look for it, there will be no pie in the sky. Don't envy others, you will do well with your own efforts, so let's take action!

It's nothing, it means that you are happier than them, you don't have to work, you don't have to take it to heart at all, and it's not difficult to have a job.

When they chat, they say they envy you.

Tell him what you think, if he really loves you and really cares about you, he will work hard for you, but if he can't do it, and you are reluctant to give up, then it is up to you to work hard to maintain this relationship Honestly, I hope you had better not give up, as the saying goes, "easy to get priceless treasures, rare to have a lover" You try to communicate with him more, I believe that there will always be a place to turn around

So in this case, since you know that he is not motivated and is a chicken rib, it means that he is only suitable to be a friend, and cannot be relied on for life!

Don't be motivated, just in your mind! Sometimes you don't see Ba in the efforts of others, choose him you may regret it for two years, but if you give up on him you will regret it for the rest of your life! Take advantage of it, how difficult it is to meet a person who is good to yourself, I hope you will work together to create your beautiful and happy tomorrow!

It depends on whether you love him or not, if you really love him, you have to pay for him, change him, and make him motivated. If he loves you too, he will become self-motivated for you and be the ideal person in your mind.

If you are not a self-motivated person, it is recommended that you be ordinary friends with him.

It depends on how much you love him, and if you love him and you can get rid of the bread, you follow him.

Install filtering software and tell him that the computer is poisoned.

Sometimes the so-called unhealthy movies of parents are not necessarily really unhealthy, but if it is really a Japanese romantic action movie, then don't say it is very ugly, don't worry. I think when a boy develops to a certain point, he is curious about certain physiological changes, uneasy, will bring him confusion, you have to guide him, tell him what some physiological changes in his body are going on, that kind of ** can be seen, but there must be a degree, to let him know that kind of ** is the most useful. (There are many children who watch too many unhealthy movies and think that they are going to do stupid things if they don't enjoy it.)

And be sure to tell the child that he will be criminally responsible for 8 crimes from the age of 14, and some mistakes cannot be made) It is not easy to be a mother, especially if you are still a boy's mother, it is even harder.

How old is a child?

Go to the Chinese Museum of Natural History and take the opportunity to supplement the knowledge of human physiology and hygiene.

I remember that there were ** from fertilization to birth, as well as human anatomy.

Watching this kind of movie, there is generally a physiological need, it seems that your son is not too young, you have to take care of his psychology, you can't say it directly. You can help him correct his concept of physiological needs at ordinary times, tell him that it is not a shameful thing, it is very normal, (as for how to say, there are various ways, the important thing is that he can accept it) guides him to think in the direction and imperceptibly. In this way, children's dialectical thinking gradually matures, and they will self-regulate.

Cut his movie onto your computer. It dawned on him.

How old is it, it's actually better to turn a blind eye to this thing, who doesn't have a few computers, and you ask him if there are any unhealthy movies for you to see, and he should have a number in his heart.

A boyfriend who can hit people, don't do it, and moreover, it costs your money, (or you want to) but you can't ask for it, 24 years old, and you don't make money. Can't you raise him for the rest of your life?

First of all, I want to ask, what kind of education does he have, since he is 24 years old, how can he not understand a lot of things? At this age, his outlook on life and values have been formed, and he should have some plans for his future life. It doesn't matter if your family is poor, there is a good saying, people are not poor!

You must love him a lot, right? Right? Because he loves you very much and is very dedicated to you, you are reluctant to leave him, but he is not angry, and you should be a very smart girl.

So only you can help him, you, as his girlfriend, should teach him, one day when you both have time, you ask him out to find a quiet place in the park, have a good talk, and then the time will depend on you, I believe you can definitely change him. It's hard to find a boy who is really good to you now, I suggest you think about it carefully! Wishing you all a bright future!

Love is a very realistic thing, sometimes it can't be solved by two people who love each other, just like how much you love him, will you go to ask him for food, and live an unstable life for the rest of your life? If he really loves you, you should persuade him to make him think about your future, how to support you in your life, instead of being unmotivated, he should struggle, if he is still like that, you should think about it, ps, no matter how angry a man is, he can't hit a woman.

Say too much. The landlord didn't listen either. Unless you take your time to bring it up yourself.

I suggest you take a look at Snail House.

Society is realistic. I have to believe it.

Women's voices.

To be a woman, you have to be kind to yourself, you have to eat well, drink well, and play well. Once an accident happens, other women can spend the money we have saved, live in the house we have saved, sleep with our husband, and beat our distressed baby.

Mrs. Song Siming said to her close friend.

If a man really loves a woman, first take a stack of tickets, and then offer a house, even if there is no man in the future, your body will still be settled.

Haiping felt disappointed and angry after her husband did not seek progress.

When a woman lives to my age, she should have understood that men are all the same. When you are young, you need stepping stones, when you are middle-aged, you need a booster, and when you are old, you need to hold on to crutches. I deserved to be a stepping stone myself.

Becky said to his girlfriend Seaweed.

Milk powder should be imported, and diapers should be brand-named. You have to pay for entry and exit, and you charge for the whole thing in both directions, which is more ruthless than communication charges!

Wish I had posted so much.

The landlord can figure it out.

I hope you are happy, too

Think about it carefully, see if he can give you happiness, emotional things and reality will be very passive and difficult to give up, finally: love, please love deeply, don't love, please thoroughly.

Don't say I'm too realistic. Now social bread is more important than love.

As long as he loves you, you can be with him if you don't spend a lot of time drinking... You can give him a little time, and if he still doesn't improve, you can go...

If it were me, I would be like that.

Actually, if I were you, I would be with him. Because you love him very much, the ancients said: If you eat and cry, you will become a master.

If such a man is with him, he will hurt you for the rest of your life, and if you are not motivated, you will use women's money and despise it.