People are born to understand the world, right? Why?

That's not right. Human beings are born without self-consciousness. For example, the "wolf child", he was born, but he has the ferocity of a wolf, and then he doesn't know what human feelings are, so the so-called human feelings are sophisticated because of the effect of the surrounding environment on you, different people have different experiences, and they will have different characteristics.

As a side note, not everyone is sophisticated.

No, people are in the process of growing up slowly, have a certain experience, happy or sad, and then learn a lot of knowledge, get a lot of lessons, and have their own unique insights, and then they will learn to appreciate the sophistication of the world. And those feelings that have not been experienced are short-lived and will disappear as you grow.

No, it's impossible to be born to understand.

How can a child understand Ni when he is just born?

People are only understood from the living environment, what they have seen and heard, and their own personal experience, do you say?

People may have some instinctive behaviors, but that's nature, I don't think it can be regarded as human sophistication, and I will grow up slowly in the future, and in the process of growing up, I will slowly understand human sophistication, contact more, integrate into this society, and I will know the sophistication of human feelings!

It's not counted, at the beginning of human beings, nature is good! Born pure and selfless, but does not understand anything, it can be said that it is innocent, acquired contact, and their own attitude determines everything!

I don't know how to be born to understand, these are all acquired, according to family background, education, and life circle. Academically speaking, it means that there is nothing right or wrong about the outlook on life, the world, and the values, as long as they do not violate the standards of law and morality.

No, a child is a blank piece of paper, and human feelings are a stain on a blank paper.

No, you have to go through some things to understand the truth slowly, eat a trench and grow wise, and the more you experience, the more experienced.

No, people don't understand anything at all.

Oh maybe, as a person, if there are no worries, it is impossible, but for newborn children, they may not understand what emotions are, even if they understand, they can't speak, as long as a person has his own thoughts, his own pursuits, and being his true self, I don't think there is anything to be deprived of.

No, people are sophisticated, you have to learn to learn well as an adult, and this is the way you will go in the future.

That's right. Because to be born as a human being.

No, because you grew up, you know what frustration and sadness are, do you remember what happened when you were a child?

No, it's mainly about the people and things you come into contact with when you grow up.

Yes, because that's what people are.

No, it's about the environment.

No, that's a matter of genius, we're mortal.

If you can't walk, you won't.

China is a country that pays great attention to affection and human feelings. Since childhood, we have lived in such a humane area, and every bit of it has been imprinted in our minds since childhood. The problem has always been that it is not difficult to understand the sophistication of human feelings, but it is difficult to really do it well.

From the parents, let us understand the sophistication of human feelings:

1. When you go to someone else's house for dinner, you must not go empty-handed, it is necessary to bring some gifts or buy some fruits. Although you carry something, others will say how to be so polite, in fact, you are still satisfied, you leave empty-handed, others are uncomfortable.

2.Don't have frequent contact between in-laws, long-term contact is not a good thing, there will only be more and more contradictions, and there will be more and more places that you are not used to. Keeping your distance is a sensible way to get along.

3.Under the roof, how can you not bow your head, and under the fence is the house where you live in everyone except your parents' house. It's okay for two or three days, but after a week, everyone will start to get bored, and if you want to trouble others under the fence, you will definitely be wronged.

4.Others gave you red envelopes when you were young, and when you grow up, you have to return the red envelopes to the other party's children. This is true among relatives, and the same is true for friends.

5.Relatives ask you to borrow money, and if you can, you won't borrow it. Otherwise, you are a good relative when you borrow money, and you are not a good person when you repay the money.

Growing up, we are out of work, and society has taught us sophistication:

1.In front of colleagues, don't say bad things about the leader following other colleagues, you never know, whether these words will reach the ears of the parties, and it is especially important to control your own mouth. The truth that trouble comes from the mouth must be understood.

2.Don't like to be in the limelight, giving up the limelight to others is not a shameful thing. When you enter middle age, you will know that the limelight and face are not worth mentioning.

3.If you can't do it, you must notify the other party a week in advance, let the other party make another preparation, don't wait for the day before to tell the other party, so what should others do temporarily?

4.In communication, try to use a suggestive tone rather than a command. Learn to respect each other and earn respect as well.

5.When people only say three points, they can't throw away all their hearts. In the world, do not talk deeply.

The world is full of knowledge, and the practice of human feelings is the article. Only by being well versed in the world can we be discerning, and have more insight into things in life and work, and then we will be able to build an iron wall, gain a foothold in society, and better survive in our own way.

1) See through but don't say through.

Sometimes you don't only have to save face for yourself, but also leave some for others, even if others are wrong, you can't keep talking about each other's pain points for a momentary refreshment, leave a point for everything, and see each other in the future. Sometimes people still need a little hazy feeling between people, and when it is broken, the relationship will change. Therefore, you should leave room for yourself and save face for others.

2) Repay virtue with virtue and return tooth for tooth.

Society is very complicated, some people are good to you, some people are not good to you, if someone is good to you, you still have to be affectionate and good to others. On the other hand, if you are hostile to yourself, then you must also return it fiercely, and blindly avoiding or enduring it will only condone the other party.

3) You can't go to the elders' house empty-handed.

Under normal circumstances, if the younger generation goes to the elder's house for the first time or after a long time, if they don't bring anything, it makes people feel very rude and don't know how to be proportionate. Although the elders may say that you are not polite, you don't need to bring anything, but bringing some fruit or small gifts can indeed express your concern for the elders.

4) Don't just make promises.

They are all adults, and they have to talk about it, and they can't say things like children for a lot of time. Speaking is responsible, and many things cannot be said casually and thinking that it will be fine after a while. When a person gets older and has a higher status, the more influential the promises will be, and many people will look at you, and if you don't keep them, it will have a great impact on your reputation.

So please don't make promises lightly.

5) It's always good to say more pleasant things.

Say more good things, and people will be more willing to contact you. We don't need to flatter, but we don't need to hurt people with bad words, and say something nice to make people happy. Speaking more words of praise, encouragement, comfort, and confidence in others is an act that conforms to people's hearts, makes people happy physically and mentally, and can also lead people to goodness, self-interest and altruism.

6) The compliments behind them work better.

Praise more behind your back and in front of a third party is a good way to have a harmonious interpersonal relationship. But I still want to remind everyone that it's best not to talk about others behind their backs, even good people may reverse right and wrong.

7) When others are frustrated, don't mention your own pride.

People who are frustrated are sensitive to everything, and even if you speak unintentionally, it may hurt the other person's self-esteem.

8) Be considerate of your conversation, and don't talk in depth.

Some people think that doing so can deepen friendships and strengthen relationships, but the consequences are often disappointing. Just know each other, give it to others, a bunch of it, people may think that this person has a hole in his brain!

9) Don't always talk about giving kindness to others.

Everyone wants to be a strong person who is affirmed and recognized by others, not a weak person who is sympathized with and needs help. We will be grateful to someone who helps us, but if we always remind "without my help, you would not be where you are today", if it were you, would you feel insulted? As a result, people are awkward, dissatisfied, bored, and even angry.

1.First of all, we must say something nice, and try not to say something that others don't like to hear. 2.

And in our daily life and work, we should not be the first birds. 3.And we must say at the right time, and if we get along with different people at the right time, we will have different ways of getting along, and this is what we need to learn.

Sometimes, when someone praises you and praises you, it doesn't necessarily mean that they are really praising you, maybe he is just reminding you not to be too public. If someone who is not very close to you says "next time", it is a rejection, and there may not be a next time at all.

Don't look down on anyone, don't belittle anyone, be fair and open, don't label people indiscriminately, and learn to help others.