What to do if my girlfriend s ex boyfriend shows up after just a week of dating

First of all, you have to determine your girlfriend's position, if she avoids her ex-boyfriend and asks you for help, then you need to show your manly side, do everything you can do, such as avoiding her ex-boyfriend's entanglement or providing shelter for your girlfriend, etc., of course, if her ex-boyfriend really messes around, you must also be calm, you can try to solve it through dialogue without doing anything, you can't figure it out and ask your classmates to help, just scare and scare him, after all, it is better to settle the dispute. Secondly, you have to determine the purpose of his ex-boyfriend's appearance, and if it is only by chance, you can ignore it. If he is trying to save his feelings, refer to the previous article.

If he apologizes to your girlfriend for what happened before, then you can be generous, let him say it, and don't interfere, as long as your girlfriend apologizes to him and has no negative emotions, you'd better not intervene, otherwise refer to the previous article. Hope it helps

His appearance has nothing to do with you. And there is also a situation in which it is divided. Some things are stubborn, and some are separated by misunderstandings, and now there may be a situation that meets the requirements.

In fact, the most important thing is to look at your girlfriend herself! Give her trust but not blindly, give her time but not indefinitely.

She may not have dealt with the matter with her ex yet, give her time, and if she completely dissolves her relationship with her ex-boyfriend, then you should ( ...)

If she chooses an ex-boyfriend, you don't have to be pessimistic, she's not your thing! Your presence could be a transitional period for her emotionally! At least be friends!

If you're not willing, go for it!

And then wait for the other people you love to show up!

Make it clear to her ex-boyfriend that she will have a good talk and ask him not to show up again.

Assuming your girlfriend still has feelings for her, let's break it up.

It's not okay to break the thread

Don't panic, it's time to test her. If she loves you enough, then she won't leave you, she won't let you down, if she doesn't love you enough, then wouldn't it be good for her to leave you.

What does it have to do with you when he shows up? Do your part, if your girlfriend doesn't care about your kindness and is in line with your ex-boyfriend, don't do it

This thing is normal, because you have broken up, there is no relationship, and it is reasonable for her to talk to someone else, so you don't have to worry about it anymore and find your own real happy life as soon as possible.

Surely you are not normal. It seems that he had the latter to break up with you. A girl like this, there is nothing to be nostalgic about?

It's not normal, unless she doesn't like you for a long time.

There is nothing abnormal in society now, because only by meeting new friends will you forget your old friends.

Specific problems are analyzed on a case-by-case basis. I think your ex-girlfriend may be a scumbag who chooses to start a new relationship.

Or keep trying. But there will be a loss of dignity. Either lose something for dignity. Is this a suggestion? As for how you choose, it's up to you.

Even if she is already an ex-girlfriend, she either blesses her or she doesn't cherish it, so she can only cry by herself for a while.

In fact, now I have the same trouble, and I don't understand what to do, I think it's probably my unwillingness, so I make myself so sad, think about the original breakup, probably I was unwilling to make a lot of trouble, so that now it's irreparable, some people say that they can't forget the ex is not good enough for the current one, and some people say that it's because they don't have the heart to feel the current good for you, I probably have two reasons. I don't want the current one, because I am sad now, and I make him sad, I can only try to adjust my mentality to love him more attentively and feel the warmth he brings him, and I don't want my ex to happen again. If you can't forget it, then try to think about the relationship with the current one, and think about it later.

You will find that there are also many good memories, good present, and very good future.

We are all nostalgic for the past, and we only know how to cherish when we lose His heart has been given to you, but you don't care, and now you are not married, and there is no responsibility, so there is nothing wrong with you looking for him now, but you say that you don't want to hurt, then be silent until the end.

Since you chose to leave at that time, you should think about this situation, the choice you made, don't you take a step back and say, you are together again, maybe there will be no estrangement, some things can only be missed, some people can only miss.

At this point, what else can I do, it doesn't matter if I love or not, don't you, maybe he misses it too, he misses it, he also suppresses himself, but what can it be, don't you all have a new life, since you are reluctant to let go, why do you have to start a new life, can't you go back, isn't it?

The end is already doomed.

Love is deep, hate is deep. But since you have chosen to break up, I hope you don't have to worry about it anymore, I know it's cruel and difficult, but the past has to be passed after all, go and relax, calm yourself. Your heart is very kind, you didn't choose to hurt him, but chose not to hurt him, which also proves that he has a certain status in your heart, let time consume your feelings!

I wish you a speedy way out of the emotional pain...

It's really hard to forget a relationship, the only way is a new love and time, if you can't forget it, the new love is not good enough and not long enough.

You obviously still love your ex, the current one is probably a band-aid on your wound after you broke up, you didn't really feel him with your heart, love him, he is just your spiritual boyfriend, in fact, I have the same experience as you, I think if you still love him, he still loves you, just confess to him, be together!

There are many things you can do to comfort others. But I can't convince myself that it's normal! I hope you calm down and think carefully about what your true love is bold to pursue and wish you happiness.

Love is such a thing as an indefinite thing, since you feel that you can't forget him, then you should fight for it.

How many times can you go crazy in your life? There is a saying: if we don't go crazy, we will be old.

If you still miss him, then contact him.

In fact, many people have the same experience as you, there is this situation, you can face it calmly, you can be a very good friend, if you don't think about him, it will fade for a while, there are good love memories, and your life is more colorful.

I've had something like that, and it was very uncomfortable at the time, and my ex-boyfriend didn't care about me anymore. So in fact, you are still in love with him, I think the best thing is to make your ex-boyfriend fall in love with you again, but maybe you will worry about your current boyfriend, don't think about breaking up first, maybe your ex-boyfriend will fall in love with you again and then break up, otherwise you will have nothing. Also, you have to feel that you miss your ex-boyfriend so much, I don't believe that he doesn't have any feelings for you in his heart, maybe his current girlfriend ** shows you just to deliberately anger you, which also shows that he still cares about you, you can remind him of the happy days together before, hinting to him that you still have feelings for him, and slowly you will definitely have a chance.

Affectionate people, cherish the people in front of you, let him pass the past, life is about grasping the present and letting go of yourself.

In fact, you are also affected by the recent doomsday complex, and I recommend you to watch a movie - Ang Lee's "Eating Men and Women".

You broke up because of the two of you're incompatible in the first place, and now if you want to be together again, there must be the same problem, in that case, let's let the past pass! Let's cherish the past yet! Come on, I'm sure you can!

Let the past pass, time will slowly dilute everything, cherish the one who is good to you now, and he will do it.

How can women be like this? My girlfriend is too. Every time I talk to her, she casually talks about her former boyfriend.

Why wait until you lose it to regret it, my girlfriend should be similar to you, I have always loved her, but she still chose to break up with me, she may have you one day, but I am always waiting for her to come back, I love her very much.

Normal human beings will always have memories I broke up with my girlfriend for two years and I still cry under the covers when I hear the songs we sang together We are too emotional.

I want to ask, are you together?

Now that they have broken up, there is no need to interfere in her life, and it can be seen between the lines that you are still a little reluctant to give up on this love, but after all, you are separated, I think you should also know your position with her, remember that you are already luckier than me, my ex-girlfriend is with someone else, we are separated, but this is complete, but you still haven't come out. Love is selfish, I think you don't have to care when she has another boyfriend, but be yourself, you have such emotions, it means that you are a long-term person, a good boy, since you have given up, you should go to find happiness that truly belongs to you, let go is let go, you should let go completely.

Don't think too much, it's not worth thinking about it, I wish you to find happiness.

There are four weeks in a month, seven days in a week, about 28-31 days in a month, and in such a long period of time, you will definitely like another one.

Maybe she just met the right person at the right time. So to be together, it's just a matter of heaven, and don't think she's a two-foot boat, if she's with you, if she's with another person. She didn't have to wait about a month before she was pulling with the man.

You're thinking too much! Besides, you have already divided, what are you doing in charge of others?

She may have her problems, but if she really loves you then she will always come back to you no matter what happens. But do you love her or not?

Ahem It turns out that this is the case, such a girl really makes people speechless, Russia still likes single-minded people. Everyone is selfish, so why call you selfish? Feelings are like this, if you say no, it's gone.

disappeared without a trace, listening to you say this, Russia also looks down on this kind of girl, don't think about it, think too much about hurting brain cells, don't waste your brain cells for the sake of what is not worth it, handsome guy. Christmas Eve, Merry Christmas!! I hope you will be happy for a long time. Hey.

Let it pass, that woman has nothing to do with you anymore. Don't worry about those meaningless things, plan for your future, that's what you should do. Right.

Let your mood relax and welcome your next relationship.

Hehe, we're still young. Isn't it?

Good luck!

Reluctance may be true, but you have to know that no one can live without anyone She wants to start a new relationship quickly, and it is nothing to start a new relationship quickly, of course, it is not excluded that she wants to do it for you to prove that she is still very attractive.

It's definitely not selfish, but if it were me, I would look down on her and think she was too casual about her feelings. Maybe she's trying to help herself forget about you with this new boyfriend.

In fact, the quickest way to forget one person is to fall in love with another.

You should still love her... If you love her, you will chase it back!!

A more appropriate way to say this is: in order to reduce the "complications" after the breakup, go to a depressed state as soon as possible. Bless her!

It may be because of your possessiveness, after all, you still have the shadow of the other person in your heart just after the breakup, so you can't accept the other party being with other people.

The main reason for this situation is that Wu Zhihui Neng is because he still cares about the other party very much in his heart, or he still cares very much about him quietly and doesn't want to break up with the other party, so he feels very painful in his heart.

It may be because you still feel in your heart that your ex-girlfriend will get back together with you, and you still treat your ex-girlfriend as your personal belongings.