How to maintain a good friendship with a girl

I'm a woman, and I have a guy next to me who has a good friendship with me, and it can even cause an affair (digression......）

I think that the man's temper must be better, be able to make the girl joke casually, be generous, try to meet the girl's requirements if you can meet the girl's requirements, tell her more jokes, talk about psychological things, etc., it is better to let the girl treat you as a woman (purely personal opinion, don't get me wrong), give her more help, be a little more upright with her.

There is a difference between a girlfriend and a female friend! Don't get confused)

Let these girls have a crush on you.

And then you keep your distance from them forever.

Then your relationship will always be in a very delicate situation.

It turns out that I always thought that to be a lover, to be a friend first. As a result, friends have been friends for a long time.,I found that lovers are boring.。。 A good group of female friends. It will make you unable to hold the drop.

It turns out that I always thought that to be a lover, to be a friend first. As a result, friends have been friends for a long time.,I found that lovers are boring.。。 A good group of female friends. It will make you unable to hold the drop.

People are girls, boys naturally want to provoke girls less, get closer to her more intentionally or unintentionally, and don't tell her any information about you, girls are curious, she will naturally come to pay attention to you, and the relationship will naturally be very good!

Treat her as your buddy, but don't be rude to her, she wants you to help as much as you can, and make jokes ......

Just treat your brother like you're a brother.

Keep a certain distance from him, and sometimes you can pretend that you don't know what he's doing.

Actually, you have to have a certain sense of distance, don't get too close, dear.

You still have to grasp that degree, pretend to be stupid when necessary, and be sincere.

Be good to her, care about each other, and keep in touch more.

When men and women get along, it is easy to have different feelings, and it is easy to cross the dividing line of friendship, so it is wisest to keep a certain distance between the two people if they can keep friendship from degenerating.

1. Do not have intimate physical contact and ambiguous relationships with girls.

In the friendship of the opposite sex, if a man and a woman want to maintain a real friendship, then, do not have intimate physical contact with each other, because, once there is intimate physical contact with Zheng, the relationship between the two people becomes impure, if two people really want to be real friends with each other, then, there is no difference between each other, therefore, between the opposite sex, if you want to maintain a real friendship, you must keep a certain distance from each other and put an end to intimate physical contact.

2. Keep the frequency of meetings and keep your distance.

If you want to maintain a good relationship with good friends for a long time, you can't get too close to each other in the first place. It's not a big problem to make an appointment for a dinner party, but the frequency of this meeting should not be too high. Some things that are only done between couples, such as watching movies, are best avoided between ordinary friends.

When your friend of the opposite sex has a partner, then you need to automatically and spontaneously keep your distance from this friend of the opposite sex.

Especially some daily care, these things no longer need you to do, people have their own objects will do these things! You should retreat to the position of a friend, even if it is just a general person who nods the head, and don't interfere in the daily life between other couples.

It's all about whether you have a crush on her. It is still more difficult for men and women with normal sexual orientation to maintain pure friendship, but if you are classmates or ordinary people in the workplace, it is better to maintain friendship, and everyone will usually meet every day to enhance their relationship. The important place to pay attention to is the sense of proportion, treat each other as good friends, help each other, and never cross the line.

If you are a non-classmate or colleague, you don't need to contact WeChat often in your daily life, but you can also have fun and talk about it when you meet offline, and at the same time improve yourself, help your friends in time when they are in trouble, and remember each other's birthdays is a good plus point.

Getting along for a long time and often being together will produce some unnecessary troubles, and there will be some contradictions, so keep a distance that is not far away. Don't have expectations between the sexes, get along with girls like buddies, and brotherly feelings must get along to keep this friendship alive, if you have a different idea about girls, this friendship can't remain simple. Do the following:

First, men and women are friends who grew up together, and they share the same values and worldview, and men and women can cherish each other. The interaction between people, whether they are of the same sex or the opposite sex, in order to maintain a long-term and stable relationship between each other, must be the result of the joint efforts of both parties.

Second, friends should know how to understand each other. Everyone is this independent, friends usually because of their own living conditions, can not often contact each other, busy, not even have time to reply to each other's messages, when the other party is sad, can not be with each other's side, a friend must know how to understand each other, don't rely too much on each other.

Third, to maintain a long-term friendship between friends of the opposite sex, the most important thing is to grasp the distance and scale of getting along. In the friendship between boyfriend and girlfriend, you must figure out your own emotions, that is, whether you have more feelings for each other than between friends. Men and women can become good friends, both sides must appreciate each other, this appreciation once invested in other emotions, then, this friendship is no longer so simple as friends, both of you are likely to come together, if you have no object on both sides, the probability of celebrating the sedan chair will be higher.

Therefore, if a boy wants to maintain a long-term friendship with a girl, he must keep a distance from the other party after recognizing his feelings, and don't let the other party have unnecessary misunderstandings. To a certain extent, since they are good friends, there is no expectation and idea of saying that there is a opposite sex, just like the relationship between good brothers is relatively simple.