The love that has been abandoned, do you have to hold on to it anymore?

At times like these, the most important thing you should do is to be calm. Like he said, give each other some time and let the relationship cool down. Don't pester him, isn't he dashing?

You have to be more chic than him. The more you hold him, the less nervous he will be, and you won't change his mind anyway, and he can give himself more time to think about whether he wants to be with you or not. Do you have any excuse to comfort yourself with such selfish thoughts?

Don't think about whether he's good for you. Even if it is, why does he think he thinks of himself? You know best what is best for you.

What's more,"For your good""For each other's good"It has long become an excuse for some kind of evasion, and it is not uncommon. You just have to see the reality: he left you in style, and you are now broken up.

It's not like you have to wait for him to give you a word before you can let go, why do you have to have a face like him? Does letting him get rid of you in person really change your mood? I still say that if love has been lost, don't give up your self-esteem again.

Self-esteem is a treasure to oneself, but it is worthless if you throw it at the feet of the other person.

Since you've missed it, then why keep it Missing the right person at the right time You are the one who didn't grasp happiness It's your own problem It's nothing to do with others You don't have to expect him to return to you because his heart is already scarred Even if he really returns to you, it may not be the same as before It's not a love without barriers Because it's hurt Even if you have to forget the pain But the wound is still there. So, since you love him, let him be free, maybe you will be very painful, but don't humbly beg for love to turn back, because that hurts yourself even more, and makes the other party very helpless, don't do things that hurt yourself, since you chose to give up, then let it go, don't be nostalgic for its taste, his feelings, which don't belong to you, so love him, let it pursue its own happiness, because it is you who let happiness slip away in your own hands.

"I have doubts about this unwritten rule, because when a boy and a girl appear on the same traits, romance must follow," Miyazaki said. Instead, I wanted to depict a slightly different kind of relationship, one that motivates each other's lives.

If I could, then maybe I would be closer to portraying the true expression of love. ”

I've become so obsessed with this that I can even let go of any other request and just ask for it, but it's not so easy to find in this day and age. I firmly believe that only in this state can there be a good intimacy.

I believe that you also think that my conclusion is very reasonable and very reasonable, and you will also feel that my request is very special, very rare, and our one-sidedness with each other is exposed here. I'm going to talk about how I let go of this obsession.

Lifelong learning and lifelong growth are of course great advantages, and in today's society, how many people pay attention to inner growth, which will still have a strong attraction to me, but I no longer have requirements for this.

I know that the probability of casualness is getting worse and worse, it's true, and it will eventually be distorted. At this time, it needs to be commanded by reason, and reason exists only to fulfill the needs of sensibility, because fundamentally human beings are emotional animals.

Life is mostly emotional, pure rational life is like a person without flesh and blood, and seeing flowers and trees are also full of carbon, hydrogen, oxygen, nitrogen and sulfur, I don't think we will like it.

Good intimacy is relaxed, uncompulsory, unconditional, and non-satisfying. The so-called these, like thorns, pierce into the flesh of the partner and end up destroying a relationship. Most of the dissatisfaction between couples is also the failure of the other party to do what we think we should do according to their own requirements.

Taking a step back, "what I think" isn't all that important, and it's not necessarily true.

Incomprehension, suspicion, and one's own psychological defects are all factors that destroy feelings. Although lifelong learning can solve this problem, it should not be a requirement, we have 10,000 reasons to trust our judgment, but it should never be imposed on the partner, she has her charm, her tenderness, her beauty, then we stimulate it, appreciate it, keep it good. All roads lead to Rome, so why bother with this road.

The change of concept is a matter of consciousness, and it is necessary to constantly observe oneself, deny oneself, and verify oneself. This is the foundation for my change, and it is also the source of continuous self-improvement, so that we can meet a better version of ourselves.

1. Take a break from your emotions and tell yourself it's only temporary.

2. Shift your attention - look your eyes around instead of being stuck in love.

3. Pause gears - deliberately stop your obsession.

4. Emotional anchor - find a place for your emotions.

5. Turn impulses into choices – When an impulsive thought occurs, stop and think about whether there are other options at that moment.

6. Get out of isolation and connect with family, friends, yourself, work and life.

7. Do what makes you happy.

I will give up everything I have for love. Love is happy, and it is very sweet, especially when we meet someone we like and can be with someone we like. It's a very happy and happy thing for every boy for us.

So we see that many people meet someone they like, then they want to be with each other very much, and they will take the initiative to care about each other and love each other. Because he hopes that through his care and love, he can let himself be with the person he likes, and eventually let them have a happy and beautiful love. We see that some people will give a lot for love, and even some people will sacrifice a lot for love, so some people just want to know that you will.

How far are you willing to sacrifice for love? We see that for some people, especially some girls now, they are very realistic in love. They will always have all kinds of very high demands on boys.

They require the boy to have a good job, a good family, and also require the boy to be able to care for and take care of him wholeheartedly in love. But for girls, they just want boys to give more, and they themselves are not willing to regret for love. But we see that for more people, they know that they want to be truly able to have love.

Then we should care for and love the person we like with our hearts in love. Even sometimes in love, we should pay for our wisdom and sacrifice. Because only in this way can we get along better with the people we like.

So each of us wants to be able to have love, because we all know that love is happy and very beautiful. Even we see that there are many people who work very hard to have love in order to be able to have love. Out will even be sacrificed, so some people just wonder how far you would be willing to sacrifice for love.