What should I do if I am liked by my roommate? How can I be liked by my roommates?

Whether she's gay or not, you have to help her, even save her. You can't just free yourself and ignore her, because at the moment she believes in you and you are her medicine.

To tell if she's gay, you can take her to a group event to see if she feels for a guy, both in her eyes and in words. If she likes guys too, that's for the best. If she has never paid attention to boys, you can talk about boys, such as whether so-and-so is handsome or not, and so-and-so cares about you.

Wait a minute. If she can pick up on your topic, let's talk. If she avoids your topic, she may be in love with you.

When you find out that she is gay, you should help her find the reason like a good friend, when did you start liking women? Why do you think this way? How many other people around you know (including loved ones, etc.)?

In the end, you have to find out your position to her, and you can talk about the charm of men in your mind (like your father...). You can also talk about the warmth of a family of three, the excitement and so on. These are the ones you love and aspire to.

You respect her choice, and I hope she will respect your choice, and you will be good friends in the future and keep it a secret for her.

Digression: Take this question as a topic during your college years, or as an exercise for you to deal with interpersonal relationships, in school, what you learn is not only knowledge, but also a variety of comprehensive abilities, sister, women can like you, I believe you are the most attractive, look forward to good news, come on!!

I thought you could try my idea by pretending to be in a relationship with a friend of the opposite sex you trust, and talking about you in front of your roommates a lot"Boyfriend"How good or something, remember to be emotional and euphemistic, and see how she reflects. If you feel that she really likes you, then you can pretend not to know and tell her like a best friend and say that I will marry him in the future. Remember that you can't speak directly, and people with fragile hearts are likely to do stupid things.

So everything has to be tactful, tell her when it's time to tell her the truth, this will help her to a certain extent.

This is a difficult ......It also takes a lot of effort ......

I think you'd better take the time to figure it out with her......Settle quickly, find a place for the occasion, and you should have a heart-to-heart conversation, and slowly, tactfully, ask her what she means, if she really wants to be gay with you??? Or maybe you misunderstood, don't misunderstand people, don't ask people directly, what if she doesn't mean that??

Don't make the situation too stiff, after all, it's a classmate, and it's a dormitory, and you have to stay together for three years

Words to enlighten first, if it works, that's the best. It's still quite tricky...

Find a boyfriend and bring him to the dorm so he can see it.

You must restrain your little temper and don't rely on your own temperament for everything.

At home, you can have parents who are used to you, and you may blame your parents for a little disappointment, but everyone is equal at school, and no one will take care of you as well as your parents. Don't use the good or bad background of your parents as a weapon to suppress others, this is a behavior that only naïve children have.

2. Don't melt people who don't meet the first impression aura.

Thinking that trying to get in touch would improve the relationship, but that's all whimsical. Don't compromise yourself to hold on to the relationship. When encountering people with incompatible aura, the first reaction is to stay away.

3. If you have something to say, don't hold it in your heart.

Some people don't like to make sense, and they often suffer dumb losses. For example, if the other person does something that makes you unhappy, then you have to express your dissatisfaction. For example, if you don't like others to use your own things, you have to say it, otherwise others will not realize their mistakes and continue to do so.

At this time, you are angry, and others still say that you are inexplicable and not a loss.

4. Cultivate your own empathy.

Empathy is the ability to feel sad or happy when something happens to someone who is happy or sad. And some roommates usually don't care about your feelings at all. Only ask you to have empathy to help them when they are in trouble.

It's all whimsical, okay!

5. You can't ask others to do what you can't do.

If you want to ask others, it is better to do your own things well. I've met such roommates before, and every time I come back, I play games in the middle of the night, and I don't start washing up until after twelve o'clock. It's really speechless for this kind of person.

I've had experiences of being isolated. Encouraging harm to people, systematic, and insulting is extremely strong, because isolation, seriously threatens our social security and sense of belonging, which is our basic human need, being isolated for a long time, will destroy your values, outlook on life and interpersonal skills, if you are really unbearable, you can change the environment, because you will continue to self-doubt and self-blame in the process, and in the end it is you who will be hurt the most.

My heart is strong enough, I have my own circle of friends, even if my roommate isolates me, I haven't fallen, although in the end I got back together, the illusion of happiness, but my heart is stronger, I won't rely on what they give me, I know that you are very uncomfortable with interpersonal security, and even think about how to integrate with them, think about how to please them, and regain their enthusiasm for you, believe me, don't do this, because, the more careful you are afraid of saying the wrong thing, the harder you try to please them, The more they think you are a bully, the more they look down on you. Friends are not flattering, in exchange for making them clearly see that your firm personality and values are trying to save the plight of being isolated by pleasing you, only in exchange for more cruel isolation.

They isolated me for a while, often, a few people met to go to the dining hall to eat, but they didn't call me, I didn't take it to heart, sometimes I went to eat alone, sometimes I went to eat with my partners in the laboratory, I didn't deliberately greet them when I saw them on the road, there were activities they participated in, I would also participate generously, I let them see that no matter how you isolate me, my life should go on or on, you want to destroy me, I want to live a better life.