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I don't think you're untalkative, like me, a sign of lack of self-confidence! Because the real wooden people will not talk at any time (occasion). After all, you can still express yourself on your mobile phone or in a virtual environment, which means that you are not relaxed enough in reality, and you are typically not confident enough.
I don't think your verbal confidence depends on someone else's words to improve immediately and make her happy. Actually, in my opinion, since she chose you, it means that you have something she appreciates. If you can't express yourself verbally, you can do it in other ways--- such as seeing what she likes, leading her to sing, for example, making her feel happy with you.
Also, don't be addicted to games, so that a person's spirit will be more decadent in reality. Do more positive things, strive to build self-confidence, believe in your own abilities, think about your previous successful experience of even small things, and believe that you will be able to firmly grasp her in the palm of your hand. If you want to be confident, you don't just have to work hard in front of your girlfriend, you have to work hard in all aspects, and self-confidence doesn't necessarily depend entirely on your speech ability.
In view of this, you cherish yourself!
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Your experience is very similar to that of a friend of mine. It's also a hot chat on QQ, and I can't say anything when I meet.
I'll give you some of my opinions, so listen to them.
First, you have to keep the enthusiasm of chatting on QQ.
It's okay to send text messages and increase the emotional base, and the time spent together in the future has been added.
Take your time and take a gentle offensive, starting with a chat is the easiest ,。。
You can have a family with him... It's okay to talk about yourself and so on.
Having trouble finding topics?
It's big to work, state affairs, and life.
It's as small as home, scenery, etc., it's okay, or you're too cautious, too nervous.
Let go, it's nothing. It's okay to tell jokes.
Once the chat is resolved, you can start progressing.。。
Holding hands, hugging. It's okay to kiss the cheek.
It's up to you to take care of the kiss.
I have time to eat with my girlfriend, etc. It's okay to hang out with him.
Watch movies, eat snacks together, go shopping... It's a very effective method.,Your urgent thing is to slowly get closer to the relationship.。。
I bless you all.
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Then you and her also chat on the Internet Think of her as your netizen Maybe it will be much better if you talk about meeting less formally, and she understands that you are not such a boring person, and her impression of you will be much better
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Brother, you and I are in a similar situation.
Sometimes two people don't need to say anything when they are together, but if they are always together and have nothing to say, there will be problems in the relationship between two people. I'm also an introvert and it feels like sometimes my girlfriend and I are together a lot of the time it's, haha. Sometimes we argue for a long time about a small issue, although most of the time it's a matter of no conclusion.
When I was fine, I took my girlfriend shopping and bought some clothes for my girlfriend. Take your girlfriend out to have fun, maybe you've been to this place many times. I'm really bored to watch a movie with her, surprise her when I'm fine, and inadvertently give her a bouquet of flowers that day, or a small gift.
Hehe, that's definitely good, right?
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I have time to hang out with her more! Like an outing or something. In the morning, we can do morning exercises, climb mountains, or whatever.
I usually pay attention to her preferences when I go shopping with her, and occasionally send some intimate gifts unexpectedly, pick her up and take her home, etc. Especially when she wants to buy something but doesn't buy it for some reason, you notice that if you buy it for her in the future, she must be super surprised and happy!
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Try to take the initiative to contact more people in life, which can slowly turn into talkative, and learn more about all aspects of knowledge, so that you are not afraid of running out of topics.
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The main thing is to find some people you all like, food, things, places, and topics to talk about.
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Judging from the description, congratulations on your girlfriend has some understanding, to make a good friend you should start by understanding a person, loving someone can be changed for her, not to mention that you and your girlfriend must have a lot of tacit understanding, you can take her to the place you both like to play, try to communicate more in some places of interest, spend a romantic holiday together, give her some surprises under the premise of fully understanding your girlfriend's hobbies, and grasp some anniversaries (birthdays, major festivals. But these may feel tiring at first, but after a long time, you will all experience the fun and slowly become a habit. Try to do it!
I wish you all happiness!
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I have to admit that your life is really aggrieved, your hobbies can be more extensive, love emphasizes and needs tacit understanding and taste, two people ——— the precipitation of two personality values, two intersecting circles, in the space of the same smell, they are happy to indulge, and in other spaces, they are always used to use every second to explore each other's latent charm, while maintaining their consistent independence, dignity, and strive to create a multi-faceted self to maintain the long-term fun of both parties. Chasing wine and Bo also, laughing like a pearl, winning and winning, and losing has never come out. That's probably it.
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You can invite your friends over for a meal, so that she can easily become happy, try to finish the banquet a little better, and when the friends are gone, the separation between you will be much clearer.
Hope it helps.
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Take her out for a show, or kiss her. Hey. Suzhou Amusement Park or Suzhou Water Park, I've been to it n times, it's very fun. Whew.
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You take her out more often.
Well. Spend more time with her.
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Your girlfriend will be happy to know that you think this way.
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Tell her about an experience that you found interesting.
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You wouldn't, would you? Just take your time.
I love singing too! I think it's more than singing! It's the most straightforward! >>>More
There are many aspects: like you're not romantic enough or something. You should take her out to play more! Take a stroll through the park! Give her more favorite gifts! >>>More
The main thing is to see whether it is psychological and unappetizing, or physiological anoinia, if it is physiological, it is recommended to see a professional doctor, the main psychological is to regulate emotions, increase physical exercise, in the summer, do not eat too greasy food, and the cooking of food must be of high quality, can be done from the color, smell, and taste of the three aspects, which will naturally arouse people's appetite.
To be honest, it is really not recommended that you do this, if you do so, it is a virus, according to the law, the victim is protected by the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China, and has the right to file a lawsuit against you in the local people's court, and can sue to the maximum extent permitted by the law.
If you want to become calm, first of all, don't say too much, make yourself a little colder, a little colder, understand more when you encounter things, think more, and do it after you have figured it out.