I should face this feeling and add 50 100 points

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You should understand each other's difficulties, but she should also be considerate of your difficulties, let's see.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Oh my God, you're so unworthy.

    She's so attentive, her love for you is not sure at all.

    If she loves you deeply, then she dares to tell the whole world that you are her boyfriend.

    There is also the affirmation that he can't bear to be lonely, and she wants someone to accompany her when you're not there, so she lies.

    But she's like this, I think it's better to divide it.

    Even if you don't divide it, you get married in the future, and you go out again, do you think?

    Her style is like that, it's hard to change.

    Having said all this, it ultimately depends on what you think, good luck. This is just for reference!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Why, why does his family ask you for money, this woman has nothing to want, don't be afraid of him crying, end it directly, don't be so obsessed.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let's talk to her again, if it goes on like this, I don't think you will have a good life, figure out whether she loves you or not, maybe she really loves you at the beginning, but the relationship will change over time, I think her past is not the point, the important thing is whether she really loves you, and wants to live a future life with you, if she doesn't want to waste time with her, why should she waste time with her, if you can't be sure of the relationship between you, then even if you get married, you won't have a solid life, Don't be soft-hearted because of how she is, this is a matter of your life, you must be cautious, it really doesn't work, let's find another one, a good girl is not nothing, maybe you can't bear the past feelings, but you also have to love each other, don't wronged yourself, don't make yourself so tired for love, real love is a kind of feeling that can make people happy, or find a friend you can trust to discuss, and make things clear, if you don't handle this thing well, it will become a lifetime of regrets....

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let's let it go.

    There are many good women.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Rationally, I think you should end the relationship, and it should be clean, or leave no way out. The end is the end. After all, your girlfriend is too selfish, even if money is not an issue, she can't have an affair with another man behind your back.

    I guess that's not tolerated by any self-respecting man. Right!

    Emotionally speaking, since you ask for help online, it means that you don't want to be separated from her at all, and there is still room in your heart.

    So, I suggest that you take a moment of separation for a while to see if you can stress yourself a little less. By the way, also test your girlfriend's feelings.

    Also, in such a situation, I think it is impossible to get married, so be rational.

    Finally, I hope you can solve it as soon as possible and work hard.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Shovel a slap. Then break up!

    Good morning!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If she really doesn't like you, it's better to make another plan sooner.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Put, what kind of woman???

    The last love is to let go of your hands.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The relationship between the two of you is best known only to you, go and love his family in a different way. Don't express it in money, so you will hurt even more, I am the same as you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's been three years, yes! It's been three years!

    Looking back, it was as if it had just happened, knowing that you cared about her and could even sacrifice everything for him!

    In fact, this often does not end well!

    What is too easy for a woman to get, she will not cherish it, you feel annoyed, I think it is normal, it is painful to have to bear such a burden without getting married!

    You feel helpless, I think it's normal, you're about to get married, and women have to find other men, which is depressing.

    You feel helpless, I think it's normal, feelings are fundamentally a matter of two people, only you have to bear the sadness in it!

    You feel confused, I don't think it's normal, first of all, your road ahead is a fork in the road, a "merge" in the same direction", the other leads to "leaving".

    Together, it means that you are married, it means that you have to bear the feelings that you think are right, and separation, which means that you are separated, which means that you already feel that such feelings are no longer suitable for you!

    Merge and Separate.

    Only when you face it yourself, don't force yourself! Just do what you think is the right way!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let's give up on her. Be ruthless.

    She just treats you as a tool for her service and money, and she doesn't admit your relationship to others, so will you be able to stand it?

    Your efforts are all in vain. She's so ungrateful, she's not worth your hard work and love.

    She doesn't understand you at all, and neither do your parents.

    You must be distressed.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    With such a person, you are too unlucky, forget it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    According to you, it seems like she's been using your money, and of course you love her, and you don't care about that, but it seems like it's the reason why she's using you, and it's really unreasonable to send messages to other men behind your back, and if you go on like this, you'll just be a slave to love

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    En · · I'm a little embarrassed...

    I'm a disabled person, polio, I don't look good when I was a child, I'm lame to put it bluntly, but I'm very cheerful and confident in myself, and I've gotten better after a few surgeries...

    I'm a very average-looking girl.,At best, it's cute (others say) Although the legs are like that.,But there's no shortage of suitors.,So I've been in love.,There's a boy.,I was very moved.。

    He is quite tall, about 175 (I am very short due to illness) I don't know that he likes me **, he has been chasing me for a long time, but he will not force me every time, just care about me silently by my side. Knowing that I didn't like the smell of smoke, he quit. Knowing that I don't like people who fight, he quits the gang (and don't fight badly for that).

    Knowing that I don't like people who speak foul language, he tries not to say it in front of me. I know that I despise people who use their parents' money to fall in love, and he works on his own to make money... Many, many because I changed himself.

    I was touched and moved, so we were together... The days with him are very happy, he is not a person who can speak, but he is very sincere, although there are few sweet words, but he has never cared less about me... But we broke up... The reason is very simple, I was only a freshman in high school at that time, not suitable for love, not suitable for age, not suitable for time, not suitable for location... These reasons added up to make me very irritable, and finally proposed to break up, he was very sad, but I said, I want to study, love will distract me, I have dreams, you can't give me dreams... He was hurt by me... Because he knew my dreams, which he couldn't do anything about... In desperation, he agreed...

    At first, we were both very miserable and didn't want to see each other, because I was afraid that my feelings for him would make us get together again, and he was afraid that it would affect me... Later, slowly, I slowly faded my feelings for him in my busy high school life. And he, too, is busy in a large company, and his feelings for me have faded...

    During my junior year of high school, we met as a friend, and we were very happy, but there was no throbbing, and the two of us talked a lot like old friends... Since then, we have been in constant contact with each other, and he has been with me when I am annoyed and listened to me... But we're just friends...

    Now that I have graduated and am about to enter college life, he calmly wished me happiness, saying that I was looking for someone I liked in college, and I also wished him to find a girlfriend as soon as possible.

    We're still in touch now, but we're all friends with each other, which makes me feel good...

    Hehe·· This is the love that I will remember for the rest of my life, well... Said a lot... I'm sorry... Huh...

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    We met in high school.

    Because I was going to Beijing, he chose to come to Beijing.

    After that, they lived together for four years.

    He was very good to me, he didn't smoke or drink, he took care of the housework, and the money he earned would be left to me at my disposal.

    He is an Aquarius and although he loves to play, he is still very family-oriented.

    I've had a great time in the past four years, and he's a lifelong commitment.

    Our attitude and approach is that we should be transparent with each other, respect each other, report something, as long as 99% agree with the report, 100% disagree with the non-report, and the capital punishment is to beat him up and cold him, and not let him touch it.

    Because after graduation, I went back to my hometown to develop first.

    He stayed in Beijing for the time being.

    Now in a different place, I really suffer from lovesickness.

    Then the problems at home appeared.

    Because he was born in a rural area with poor conditions, my mother strongly disagreed.

    Now my mom wishes we wouldn't see each other and fade.

    Before, the whole family really went out to persuade me to break up with him.

    My attitude was that it was impossible to break up, and there was no need to talk to me about it.

    I'm his first love, and I'm not going to make him sad.

    There are not many good men left, and if I hurt him, he will definitely lose faith in love in this vast sea of people, and I will never destroy this beauty.

    There must be true love in this world.

    I don't want to be in conflict with my family, time will tell.

    Finally, true love is invincible.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Male QQ Hall acquaintance.

    **Chat for about two months.

    It's a lot of fun, and I have to talk for at least 1 hour a day.

    And the last day of the New Year, I went to Foshan to find her, just met me and had a good impression of her, so I took her home.

    We've been together for almost three years, and we've been spending time in a noisy and noisy way, and we're so tired that we broke up on Friday this week.

    I love her very much, both of us are so strong, we will always think that it is your fault and will not give in to each other.

    It's best to be single, it's best not to fall in love, it's so tired.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I didn't rush here.

    I thank you for enjoying listening to me, even if not just from me.

    My current girlfriend, my fiancée and I met in our second year of college, to be exact. The reason for knowing is very weird: a buddy in my dormitory chases a woman in her dormitory, and my girlfriend always helps, so my buddy recognizes her as a sister, and when I talk at night, my buddy always tells me about the progress day by day.

    Over time, I found that the girl who helped was so good-hearted? I had a good feeling, so I wanted to come to QQ to attack, and in the end I succeeded, and unfortunately my buddy failed.

    It's kind of ironic.

    I wish you happiness.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    To put it bluntly, if you give me 10,000 points, I won't tell you my story, but tell you that it's really and wonderful Buried in your heart forever Do you know why, because I have my own duty to be a human being, ha.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I've chased N girls before and after, none of them succeeded, and there are countless crushes, and I still have my first kiss saved, I'm nineteen years old, and I'm too much of a failure!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'm a boy, and I just started dating her in the first half of high school. My classmates often say that we are very happy because I don't like to get angry very much. And she's also very virtuous.

    I like her eyes the most, they are very charming, the first time I saw her eyes, I was fascinated! Let's talk about the emotional experience. We are in love together.

    Until the first half of the sophomore year of high school. She has a friend, the very good kind. It's a pity that it's a boy, and then the man has feelings for her.

    I was angry that she was unfaithful to love. In a fit of anger, they broke up categorically. She and her also had no results, and in the blink of an eye it was the third year of high school.

    Somehow, I started contacting her again. Care for each other in learning and greet each other in life. And then there was a resurgence!

    Hee-hee....It's a lot of fun!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    We have been in love for four years, and during the winter vacation of the second year of high school, he and I broke up, saying that it was not because I was anti-family affection, I cried, and threatened him with my life, but he didn't love me, and finally we broke up. Now he came back to me and said he regretted it, and I asked him why he was divided in the first place, and he said it was because of a girl, and he felt really stupid, so stupid.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I came to see a "we were in love for four years and broke up in our sophomore year of high school"...This should be considered the most perfect emotional ending, think about my junior high school and high school, it was just pale, white, white

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    A love letter is all it takes, what do you tell me to write about a date kissing scene?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Are you bored and want to listen to stories? Go buy this story.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Actually, I'm interested in what's wrong with you, because it's boring, and the most important thing is to have a good time. My story is long. If I write it out in the future, you can read it if you want!

    I hope you don't think too much about pulling, even if everything passes, why make yourself so sad. Wishing you happiness! ·

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You read it in this version of Baidu.,It's full of love stories.。。。

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    What do you want to do with this, you ask? If you want to be the general manager, you can come to our company now, and our company is just short of people; If you want to be an actor, I have a friend who is a director, and I can also help you; You want to be the head of state, and my father is a senior civil servant who can also help you; As for you to be a prince, I'm sorry I can't help you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Sweat is of course a must. Just like you need sweat to get through the game. But life is time, and time should be cherished rather than being used efficiently. And cherishing refers to whether every minute and second is spent in a productive and happy mood.

    What you say is true.

    So can your brain come to a conclusion based on these facts? Unfortunately, no. If someone has given you an idea earlier, you can't change it automatically.

    So, you end up saying that your intuition is a mental disorder. Your fatigue is because you have clearly sensed that there is a deliberate thought (education is security**) that has been enslaving you. Unfortunately, what makes you realize this is another kind of mind that enslaves you.

    Every idea, when it is first discovered, is indeed alive if it is not maliciously misleading. But that only makes sense in a specific perspective and time. But with time and spread, this idea will be mechanized until even the stupidest people on earth know that the earth is round.

    At this point, the concept loses its significance for both the individual and the collective.

    However, the public consciously resists the more advanced ideas, until the ideas spread to a certain extent, and the ideas are suddenly quickly embraced by many people. At this time, people's opinions are suddenly renewed, because the perceptions of those around them are obviously changed through emotional contagion, new inventions and behaviors are created, and physical objects are more convinced. The average person is often only aware of the existence of this new idea at the end of its rapid spread, which is already quite mechanized and has been filtered, distorted and simplified through rumors or self-serving propaganda.

    This means that an ordinary person will always live at the end of the spread of various ideas, which also determines that the world he sees is always the late stage of the universe, the world has been formed, God has finished creating people, and there is nothing to do with them. This kind of world naturally makes them bored, boring and at their mercy at every turn. Worse still, this person will develop such a habit:

    It was the masses that shaped his behavior patterns, his life, and his psychology.

    So you'd better check yourself, every complaint you make, every time you pay attention, even along some inevitable trajectory. If you really want to pursue wealth or fame, you first have to make it clear whether you are relying on your intuition to come to this conclusion about the idea that someone is making you think the way you do. The difference between the two will be obvious.

    Because the former as a concept, at its core, is often an implicit motive of servitude, such as such a person will choose a certain way of life, ignore certain realities, or buy a certain product. The latter will enable you to find only a few of the tens of millions of ideas that can really achieve the goal.

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