The direction of life How to decide the responsibility, life is in your own hands, and the direction

I don't know how to do business. Even if you work at night, it's not good for your health, and you will be flushed and your physical strength will decrease when you work at night. Your job is so stable now, I don't think it's going to be very tiring and tiring.

And you are still doing ** business, and you have something to do with your sister. Therefore, it is not recommended that you go to a small factory, you may have a good idea now, but the job is stable and easy and the salary is not high. I can clearly say that the small factory is chaotic, tired, and over time, it will inevitably lack energy, how can you be as energetic as you are now to go to other businesses.

Personal advice, improve your skills, more easily competent for your current job, so that you need less effort to go to work and more to get off work. Continue to be your ** after work, or help your sister, but help your sister either learn things or get money, there must be one of the two, or both are the best. It also depends on your character, like and do a good business, just focus on the first, work performance is average, keep the fixed income of the job, technology is your trump card, you can advance or retreat.

In the state of sufficient energy, we must not give up the retreat of technology. Then after the work is easy and competent, go to work to occupy time, then use it, learn technology or recharge, write notes, exercise, etc., depending on your hobbies and personal development status. It's not a shortage of money or don't exchange your body for money, everything about people is limited, what you pay here is more, and there are fewer people in the other place, and some people are naturally strong and can bear the heavy pressure of all parties, but if you don't have to do it, don't do it, steady and steady, you can advance or retreat, it is my criterion.

Making money is one thing, life is also one thing, and besides, the young man doesn't have a girlfriend, so shouldn't he leave some time to solve his personal problems? Haha, seeing that your situation is somewhat similar to mine, I will share my methods with you, and if you have good ideas, you can also tell me, so that I can also learn and learn.

How do you think and how to do it, but you must carefully consider every step Build more contacts Failure is not terrible What is terrible is that you yourself are defeated by failure The most important heart must be right Don't be greedy and cheap There is nothing wrong with making money But there is no good thing in this world that can easily make a lot of money I hope it can help you If there are troubles that bother you, please continue to ask.

**No? Humanity is the way of the world.

Life is in your own hands, and the direction is determined by yourself, so how to compare life:

Life is like a small boat on the ocean, if you want to go to **, you have to take the helm yourself!

No one lives in the past, and no one lives in the future, and the present is the only form in which life does possess. - Schopenhauer.

Man is free only because he is responsible. This is the true meaning of life. - Kafka, how many floors do you live in? - Life has three floors: the first is the material life, the second is the spiritual life, and the third is the soul life. —Feng Zikai.

Life has its ups and downs, everyone should learn to endure their own share of sadness in life, only in this way, can you appreciate what success is. - Li Ka-shing.

A person's life is like a trip, to which attraction to go, the steering wheel is in your own hands.

Life is like sailing against the current, although the wind and rain are shaking, but the rudder has always been in my hands!

Go your own way and let others say go.

Life is a piece of plasticine, all with your hands.

In fact, I don't think it means that a decision can be made, maybe it takes time to settle down.

I don't know where I'm headed now, so I'm confused.

Hope it helps.

Character determines life. Now you ask this question, it means that you really want to do a career, but you are still in the confusion period, if you decide to do something, you should plan well, it is best to learn to make a project book and the like, to see your strength and shortcomings.

Set a goal. What to do in a year. What to do in half a year, what to do in a month, and what to do every day.

Set your own goals. I've been looking at the Law of Attraction lately. I think it's good.

What you want, you think about it every day, think about that feeling when you get it, and then work hard. The whole world will help you whenever you want. Always keep a positive mindset.

The direction determines the future, and the road determines the destiny.

Decide whether to go down or not.

Follow your heart! Look at those who love themselves, we have a responsibility to live for them, to fulfill some of their wishes, to see them happy because of you you you will be happy too; Look at your heart, what kind of person you want to be, what you want to accomplish at what time, what hobbies and ideals, and achieve it. Life is a process, a journey, but the outcome is not important...

Everyone's pursuit is different! Some people choose what is beneficial to themselves for the sake of a better life; Some people are for the better life of others, and such people generally do not follow the crowd!

According to your own situation, don't blindly be ambitious, do what you need to do in a down-to-earth manner, and then do what you want to do.

Directions change at the level of a grade level.

What is a good life? Hunger wants to have food and clothing, food and clothing want to be well-off, well-off wants to be rich, rich wants to be luxurious...

People will not be satisfied, as long as they are happy.

Life is an experience, an experience, an exploration, and a life, which contains ups and downs, successes and failures, ups and downs. The goal of life is a kind of self-setting, and the choice of what kind of experience, experience, exploration, and life is determined by it. Life can not only pursue small goals, but also have big goals, and it is the big goals, not the small goals, that make people successful.

If you only pursue small goals, you will find that in the end, you are wasting your youth and ultimately achieving nothing.

The greatest goal in life is action. As the inventor of the Chinese character laser phototypesetting system, Wang Xuan promoted the second revolution in Chinese printing technology, and is known as the "contemporary Bi Sheng". He once said in an exclusive interview with the reporter of "Chinese Youth":

When young people have their goals in mind, they should pursue them fanatically. He also said that the initial motivation of an accomplished scientist is never to win any awards, or to get any fame and fortune. The reason why they are fanatical in pursuit is because of their love and desire to explore the unknown.

Wang Xuan said that he began this pursuit since the development of the laser phototypesetting project. "For a long time, I had a feeling of going against the current, I gave up almost all my holidays, I was extremely stressed and tired, but I also got a pleasure that ordinary people can't enjoy. ”

People, when they come to this world, should have their own goals and pursuits in life. After setting a goal, it may not be achieved after a lifetime of struggle, but that does not mean that the value of setting a goal is lost. It is precisely because of the goal that people can make people move forward instead of backwards, maintain positive thoughts instead of negative attitudes, and make people move towards fulfillment instead of nothingness, which is the value of setting goals.

I admire Marx's "consistent goal" and never give up easily; I also admire Fan Jingyi, the former editor-in-chief of the People's **, for his "always upward and upward in twists and turns", showing a very tenacious pursuit of goals, and finally achieving something.

First of all, we must understand what philosophy is.

Follow the path of your ancestors and you will have a goal

We often say, "I don't know why I live, it's meaningless." ”

That's because my life is not "fulfilling" enough, so I can't feel the meaning of life, let alone the preciousness of life

Life has to be experienced by oneself to know its true meaning! ”

When you spend your life doing what you can't do, you will find out how precious life is When you do your ideal thing with hope, you will find the meaning of life The reason why you are not sure about the direction of life is because you have not laid a good foundation, and the things that are in front of you should be done, but you don't want to do them, and you understand that you are asking everyone now

If you start from this moment and do everything around you, slowly you will find out what you should and should not do, if you want to:"I'll do it tomorrow"

Then you'll be like that forever

In the eyes of people, the university is a beautiful and beautiful place, where dreams are created and hopes are planted. The future clouds and clouds will all come from that land of Jingjing, and you are confused, confused, and seem to have failed. Now, let me show you in the place of God that you are a piece of gold, and that you are ready to shine!

Okay? I remember writing an essay called "Butterfly Death". Written about a true story from my high school days.

In high school, when I couldn't adapt to the sudden change in my feelings and studies, I was as decadent as you are now, and that decadence fermented into loneliness and confusion like alcohol. Walking on campus, the wind is helpless, and the night is endless.

One afternoon, I was also wandering along the green alley in the backyard of the school. Savor the bitterness. I suddenly found a butterfly and what it did next changed my life!

The scene that appeared to me made my heart tremble. The butterfly lay motionless on a dead leaf, and it was actually laying eggs, that is, in a few seconds, it was tired to death, half of its wings were not disturbed by the wind, and it fell faintly, whirling, poignant, poignant? I'm stuck thinking...

A butterfly has only a few days to live. And its mission is to find a mate and then have offspring. For this unswerving mission, it did not hesitate to give up its life.

In the face of death, he can have no hesitation. The short-lived beauty of death will not shock a decadent you. A person who is so hesitant that you will think of death.

At least I've changed.

Butterflies are like this, why are people?? Are we not even as good as a butterfly? Are we to be laughed at by it, at your ignorance, at your self-abandonment? Isn't there a famous saying? The sun is new every day, start over, what are we afraid of?

Friend, you say you don't know the taste of feelings, but in fact, you know love best. Because you know that it's not normal for you not to call your mom and dad and sister, and you know that you are just because you are not good at socializing since you were a child, which caused your personality to be withdrawn.

You know to consciously try to change this abnormal relationship.

This all shows that your heart is hot, full of love, but it is not released. What you need now is to open your heart and let the love that has been wronged for a long time be released. She's going to be dazzling and gorgeous. Please believe everything I say, not nonsense.

Hegel said that you are missing a pair of eyes. What kind of eyes, a pair of eyes that can find love, a pair of confident eyes, a pair of pure and impurity-free eyes.

You say you don't have love. Then listen to me, all you want now is to work hard to change your life status, only how to build a good future life, and only how to live a life that others will envy you. Well, by the time you get these, love has crept into you.

I don't want to say any more, I don't want to say what you should do and what you shouldn't do. Have the right mentality and work hard to do things steadfastly. The spirit is the dominant one. is the essence of the essence.

Finally, send a word to a friend, pursue a sunny mentality, and live like a fish in water.

A strange friend, looking forward to your return and looking forward to your success!

Speaking of which, you and I have similar personalities, but when I see a girl, I just laugh, I won't take the initiative to say it, and I also play games, but I don't think it's useful to study in college.

Your thoughts should belong to autism, caused by the Internet, introverted and detached from reality of online games will be serious, of course, the first thing to do at this time I feel is to learn to control their desires, back to reality is the first priority, it is recommended to go online once a week, online games stop Even if the idea is pessimistic, life is still realistic, it is still not good to fail the course, it is best to work hard to get a graduation certificate, degree certificate. After graduation, with the pressure of social life, I think you will be much better, and reality will teach you a lot of things.

I hope you will come out of the shadow in your heart as soon as possible

The road is not what you want.

You have to find out for yourself.

If life is meaningful, you must also find your own reason for existence In the process of discovering life, you must not bring in your desires, because the space created by desires is narrow, and if you have desires, your path is only to follow your own motives, and this path will not give people a real sense of life.

You experience life and broaden your horizons, instead of just staying in an internet café and forgetting yourself while you experience it. Whether it's a view or a feeling, so that you can discover the world. Such a keen awareness must also be a process of self-discovery.

This is a natural way.

Even if you live in the middle of nowhere, I don't need faith, I don't need worship. This is who you are, and you can accept it without being confused.

Speechless, I don't know what's wrong with young people now, I feel as if I've fallen into the evil spirit, and I'm as weak and decadent. Is life too comfortable, comfortable and cheap? Try living in a poor mountainous area for a few years

Or do you think that the realm of detachment and forgetting things and self is very great, then it is not bad to be a monk, you will not be burdened by the red dust, and your mind has not reached the level of seeing through the essence of life? It's almost at the level of an elder! What kind of college are you studying, you think that your parents were born to be your slaves, and you have spent money to raise an empty shell of cicadas for food and clothing, and the thoughts spent on you for more than 20 years have not been exchanged for a father and mother, and I really feel sad for your parents.

Do you want to do it in your junior year and let the job come to you? It's ridiculous, still playing games, are you full of games, and you can eat the computer with sauce another day. I also watch cartoons, as if I haven't heard that IQ is high enough to return to infancy.

To sum up, you are a word, cheap! Cheap! Cheap!