My husband has a confidant girlfriend what am I going to do!!

If one person makes a mistake, and the other person uses the same mistake to retaliate and seek balance, then when the two mistakes are superimposed, it is impossible to live and break up, and at the same time, the mistakes of the two people are transferred to his own children at the same time, so that he cannot experience the sweet harmony and happiness of feelings, family, and marriage normally and correctly, and he cannot see how to correct the problem after encountering it, because what he can perceive is that his parents are making mistakes and leaving a shadow for his life.

If everyone can look at the long term and see the harm and pain that their mistakes made a few years ago will bring to a few years later, then people will not dare to make mistakes.

For your feelings, your lover has an ambiguous relationship with other women, in fact, such problems exist and exist in most marriages, because people's feelings will not be completely fixed because of marriage, morality and responsibility, although everyone wants to be fixed, and can also think and promise, but really in married life, in a long life, the relationship becomes static because of the negligence of both parties, and becomes tired, and no longer knows and understands what the other party thinks, does, and needs, Eventually, they drift away from marriage to seek emotional understanding and understanding that they lack.

There is such a problem in your marriage, because your marriage has reached a state of stop and exhaustion, your lover and her should not have the final passover now, and still stay in your marriage, but he will not immediately close his feelings because of your troubles and demands, and immediately do not contact, because people's feelings are beyond human control, just like I don't let you suffer now, I don't let you be at a loss, can you do it? You can't do the same.

So after encountering such a thing, you desperately collect evidence, desperately investigate, and now that's it, how should you deal with it, this is the most important thing, and you use divorce and demands to threaten, in fact, you can only maintain a surface, and can not restore your feelings, can not make you happy and safe, the only and best way to deal with such feelings is to start from your own marriage and your feelings, and your own lack of understanding of marriage and lovers, and then strengthen and deepen your internal feelings, Be patient step by step to patch the emotional loopholes that have appeared, and don't strongly ask to cut off contact at once, in fact, this is unrealistic, whether you divorce or not.

Happiness Bodhi Garden, the guide to happiness lost.

Or communicate more with your husband, and if you really love each other, you should also trust each other.

This problem is now prevalent!

What you should do is: calm down and analyze whether your husband still loves this family, does he love you, and does he love his children? If the answer you get is yes, then you can confess to your husband that you don't object to him having female friends, but this kind of ambiguous confidante makes you feel uneasy, and you are jealous!

I think your husband will think about it!

Is there a better confidant than a confidant with someone who lives in the same room every day?

It's that you don't know him well enough or you don't care enough.

Either you just have a common language with that woman, but you are too careful.

In fact, no one else can help with such a thing.

When a man has an ambiguity, he will love his wife more.

It depends on whether you think home is more important or love is more important. Because it's not like this all at once.

You find 2 confidant boyfriends.

You can look for it too, and if you can't find it, I can ...... it

Talk to him well, quarreling won't solve anything.

You let him face you and the child like a man. For your own sake and for your children, you can't let you bear the burden of several people alone. Divorce is the worst-case scenario, and there are too many extramarital affairs now.

You can give him a chance if you can't stand it. Only the worst can be made.

Hope you can fix it.

Is it a girlfriend or a bosom friend? If it is a bosom friend, then it depends on whether you love him and care about him;

If you really love him, don't debunk, everyone needs to have their own space, that's where he rests and doesn't want to be disturbed by some people, even the closest ones;

However, don't be a stupid woman, when necessary, you have to let him understand that you know that person, but you won't mind, you won't go to him, I hope that neither of you will exceed the bottom line, if that's the case, your so-called love will come to an end.

Be an intellectual and sensible woman, but not a stupid woman.

Don't do it, it's not good, you can do "you go and replace that, the girlfriend you know". Wouldn't it be better to make yourself a bosom friend of your husband? If you say it, you may make the situation out of control, and you have to ask, why am I not my husband's bosom friend? Aren't you communicating very much, rarely communicating.

Decide whether it's friendship or love first, and don't be too sensitive. If it's friendship, you can get to know her; If it's love, you first determine whose meaning it is, and if it's the woman, you can fix her well; It's your husband, negotiate with him; The two love each other, no need to talk!! Divorce.

Anyone will have a dead friend, and the opposite sex may also have it, but it should really be a simple friendship, maybe their feelings are deeper than yours, maybe when your husband chased you, his female friend also had an idea.

Tell him you know the man is there and tell him to be aware of the distance.

Find a confidant boyfriend and be angry with him.

This is really a good man, you can only put it in your heart if you like it, and each one has its own happiness,

He's telling you again that if you're willing to let him play for nothing, he's still willing, and if you want to make him responsible, don't talk about it.

He's telling you again that he won't be responsible for you, but he's not against something romantic that he doesn't have to be responsible for!

Stay away from him, I have a girlfriend and want to be a confidant with another woman, if he is with you and a confidant with another woman, can you stand it.

Good man. Very honest, there are two sides and three swords.

Such a man is not worth cherishing! Let him do what he should do.

It's best to confirm this yourself.

Liking doesn't have to be possession.

I also encountered such a situation, we were about to get engaged, he had a confidante, we could be together because of this confidante in the middle to help, the confidante said that it was his family, I believed it, but then I knew that the confidante and he had no blood relationship at all, but they met on the Internet, and they have known each other for several years. I'm actually quite grateful to the confidante.,But I'm just very concerned about the confidante calling him.,There was a ** chat before that for more than an hour.,Nearly two hours.,I'm angry.。 Every time he says that they can't be, they are family relations, I think they are not related by blood after all, and recently they quarreled because of this, and my heart is a little messed up, and he says I'm too boring.

Am I being very careful?

It's certain that their relationship must be abnormal, but one thing can be reassured, he still loves you, his wife is still you, that woman is just a passerby, how long have they been in this state? If the time is short, it is estimated that it will continue, because each other's interest is not enough; Judging from their performance, it is estimated that it will take half a year before the enthusiasm can subside. If you insist on it and give them some time, your husband can also be a measured person, and he should know which woman will accompany him to old age.

Give him a little cruelty, this has obviously affected your relationship as husband and wife, you have to tell him clearly that you can't tolerate this relationship, he is your husband, there is no need to care about extra women, you tell him, if he thinks it is normal to do this, you can do it, and he has no right to control you in the future.

The problem is with your husband. You tell your husband to contact the woman again, and you also find a confidant. If he loves you, he will listen to you, if he doesn't listen, it can only mean that he doesn't love you, then divorce.

Capture your husband's interest, and you try to develop this interest so that you and your husband have the same topic, and I think you can get along with him better.

Two schemes:

1. Be friends with that woman and make her your mutual friend;

2. Find a friend of the opposite sex, keep frequent contact, but don't cross the line.

"He blamed me for not believing him, and every time he would scold me in very vicious language, saying that he had nothing to do with her. ”

This makes the thief cry out to catch the thief, and the heart is empty.

Let him pay attention to it, divorce if you don't change it, don't wait until you really see something to act, then it's really heartbreaking.

Difficult! Something's got to be right!

Don't be gentle! Use a little temper!

Tell your parents-in-law about this.

Don't feel bad! If your parents-in-law were good, they would say about his son!

I think you should leave your husband for a while, let him know to cherish, if you are usually good to him and tolerate him, he will become more and more presumptuous in saying that distance produces beauty, and being together every day may make him feel very unfresh and very tired, you try to hide from your mother's house for a month If he doesn't want to save you, you can file for divorce with him because he has completely changed his mind.

Trust me to give it a try.

Confidant, just analyze the problem when the other party has troubles, which is the most direct help. It doesn't matter if you see each other or not, it's the spiritual help that counts.

It's best to hold on to yourself and keep a little distance, lest your girlfriend find out and make trouble with you, that is, you will lose your wife and lose your soldiers.

No Kills Without Buying!!

Keep yourself clean, or don't have too much to do with her. Don't leave anything to chance, and don't let your compassion overflow. Cherish the happiness you have

You don't want to mix it up....I can't figure it out....

A confidant should be a confidant, which is different from a girlfriend.

Kindly remind you that this kind of woman's unhappiness is likely to be directly blamed on the man, and it seems that it is definitely not a woman from a good family It is a married woman looking for a spare tire. And I think the quality of this woman is not good, a really attractive woman will be very confident in herself, and her husband will be bad to herself, so she will walk away, and there is no need to follow suit. Personally, I think it's a bit shameless for her to tell you about her privacy.

Respect and stay away, respect and stay away

It's better to keep your distance!

Alas, is this kind of thing still asked?

There will be no true friendship between men and women. What do you think? If she really cared about you, she wouldn't keep in touch with him. Besides, that person likes him, which is the most dangerous. Personal opinion.

Maybe I like you, otherwise people with girlfriends won't meet you every day.

But what you said is a bit too simple, meet every night, what do you do when you meet, and maybe you are neighbors, and it is normal to see each other often.

Confidant, how can you say you like it! You've got to get this man! Conceived just before his girlfriend!

There is a woman who wants to be a confidant with me, and I also promise, it is best to go further, hehe!

Yes, men will say yes, as long as you're not particularly ugly.

Wouldn't it be nice if you just asked him?

Hello friend, that's to break up with your girlfriend, tell her, I'm sorry for you, I can't give you happiness anymore, and then go back to your confidant and take responsibility for her

Break up with your girlfriend, take good care of your female confidant, since she can give it to you, she also loves you, wants to be with you, work hard, and be responsible for your own affairs as a man.

deserves it, you have to be responsible for what you do, why let the family beat the child.

An above-ground lover and an underground lover.

Is it important to have a girlfriend or a son?

Marry her and have children, abandon one!

Let's get married, let the female ** give birth to the animal.

None of the good things were falsely accused.

Congratulations, you're going to be a dad.

Hello, you can have a good talk, if the fate is over, then it is good to get together and disperse!

Sincerely apologize to her, only then can you hope to win back her heart!

You have too much nonsense to act. Love her with all your heart.

Thick-skinned. Go to her and apologize.