My husband is a bit ambitious, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-04-12
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The husband is a bit ambitious, as a wife, she should remind in time that only by being down-to-earth and taking one step at a time can you get happiness in life.

    As a young man, ambitious, ambitious is a manifestation of self-motivation, but the unrealistic ideal is to daydream, the husband is so ambitious, from itself, is to eagerly and quickly achieve the longing for life, this is understandable, as a wife, first of all, to understand their husband, absolutely not a wooden stick to death, that can only be counterproductive, but also cause disharmony between husband and wife.

    The wife should follow the persuasion and make the husband understand that only by doing things within the scope of his ability and working in a down-to-earth manner can he truly get the life he wants, and he cannot become fat in one bite, nor can he immediately change the current state, and a happy life is a hard work, not a fantasy.

    The husband is so ambitious, the wife can also take a specific thing for him to work hard, his full support, once it cannot be achieved or fails, the husband will also understand that his approach is wrong or unrealistic, and the bell must be tied to the bell, and it will not hurt the feelings between the husband and wife.

    Therefore, the husband is so ambitious, the wife should be kind and persuasive, rational persuasion, so that the husband can accept the reality from the heart, only by starting from the small things around him, and accumulating a lot, can he live a good life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You better ask your husband to find something to do! Opening a processing plant is not that easy. The key is that you don't have any direction yet, so it's better to work first, and as for the processing plant, think about what kind of factory to open in the future, and then consider starting a business!

    Everyone has a dream of starting a business, but the reality is cruel. Not everyone can start a successful business. A friend of mine owned a restaurant.

    When it first opened, there were a lot of people and I made a little money. After a while, the business slowly faded. If you don't have a business, you can't even cover it.

    In the end, I kept losing money inside. Therefore, doing business is not as profitable as you think, and some seem to have a good business, but the profit is very low, and you may not be able to make money. Starting a business is risky, and it is advisable to invest cautiously.

    Judging from the problem, you and your husband don't have a goal yet, so let's find a job to do! Wait until you have an idea and a plan in the future before you consider starting a business. It's easy to fail when starting a business without a plan. So before starting a business, you should think about it carefully.

    At this moment, you might as well talk to your husband, plan your future, sit back and wait, no matter who you are, you will be confused. As for the relationship between you and your husband, it may be too familiar and become a family relationship, which is normal. It is still not recommended that you divorce, because life after marriage is the same, and after a long time, you will gradually feel no more.

    Just like his left and right hands, although there is no emotion, they cooperate with each other tacitly, and it is uncomfortable to lose anyone.

    In short, there are always times in life when you are confused, and you might as well be quiet when you are confused. Talk to the person you're holding hands with, plan for the future, and maybe you'll find your way back. As for starting a business, don't rush it for a while, you can take your time and start a business while working.

    You don't have to quit your job to start a business.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I have a few questions:

    One, what did your husband do before? Have you ever started your own business?

    Second, does he have his own unique ideas for his own entrepreneurship? How?

    Third, can he focus on completing the things he decides to do?

    Fourth, how did he deal with the dilemma? For example, other difficulties that have been experienced before.

    Fifth, what are his own shortcomings? For example, hard-working, dealing with people, or a specialty in a certain area?

    After thinking about these questions clearly, it's almost over, let him think about it for himself!

    Regarding your emotional problems, my personal opinion is that two people work together to find a way to add more wealth to their small family, and when the income level comes up and the standard of living improves, many problems are not a problem!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Trust Him and Help Him!

    See if there are any people around you who are doing it and inquire about the process!!

    Or head to the library to refer to some books!!

    You are his dearest person

    If he doesn't get your support for what he wants to do, it's the most disappointing thing!!

    And then there's as long as he's good to you!

    That's it

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you feel that your husband is a bit ambitious, you should let him boldly realize his wishes, and when he finds that the plan he has made is not boundary, he will be down-to-earth and realistic, and determine his own goals to achieve his ideals.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't be too nice to him, you'll listen to him if he likes it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Find a way to get rich while working.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, you have to make sure that your husband is really ambitious, and don't underestimate every man. After confirming that your opinion is true, don't scold your head and face, and take into account your husband's face, dignity and emotions, after all, after reading this Q&A, you still have to pass. Men, who doesn't want to rise to the top, so it's not a big deal, and a period of persuasion is solved.

    I see that netizens who pay attention to this Q&A suggest divorce, I don't think there is a need for this, why do you have to do everything with a man, you are not married to money but a person, cherish some, and then look for it will find a better one than now? Just a character like you......Women, don't just think about sitting back and enjoying it - "The Chef of the Flower Teapot" recommends taking a look.

    The authenticity of the lofty ambition must be determined clearly, otherwise it will outweigh the losses, everyone should know about the football superstar Ronaldo when he was a fledgling and a conversation with reporters, the reporter conducted a routine interview after a game, he asked the then unknown Ronaldo and several other athletes a question, he said: "Which football star do you admire the most?" "Some say it's Maradona, some say it's Zinedine Zidane, and there's Ronaldo.

    But Ronaldo replied: me (me). The result was laughter.

    But now we see that he is right.

    So, if your husband's lofty ambition is finally realized, will you still complain about him? Take action and make sure.

    Guidance is not something that can be done overnight, it can be discussed, but don't hurt the peace, when you are really sure that your husband's goal is a little unrealistic, don't get angry directly, this is also a bit of a gaffe, isn't it? You should be cautious and reasonable, after all, Rome was not built in a day. But don't keep repeating the whole thing.

    Occasionally invite your husband to have afternoon tea to help him succeed, instead of directly asking him to be pragmatic, in fact, what you say is to belittle him, this word should be used with caution. Remember, if a person is not a sage, he can do no wrong, and if he changes it, he will be very good.

    A good family depends on the maintenance of all members. Men and women who know how to manage will reap a lifetime of happiness. Go up, for the people you love the most.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You should let your husband realize her current situation. And let the husband learn to be down-to-earth, so that the husband can be pragmatic.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If the husband is too ambitious, he should make the husband realize that such behavior is very wrong, and he should let the husband correct his own fault in time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You really should let your husband be pragmatic, because this will make him better and make your quality of life better.

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