Why do I feel happiest when I am most painful Could it be that I am Ah Shura

Time will make you understand love, time can prove love, and it can also overthrow love. There is no kind of grief that cannot be alleviated by time. If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost?

How nice would it be if all the sorrow, the pain, the failures were fake? It's a pity that there are a lot of false feelings and false meanings in the world, and their own pain, failure, and sorrow are always true...

Is it already numb?? Maybe there's no strength in the pain anymore!

First of all, let's talk about the level of human needs, these five levels are arranged in order from low to high, Maslow's theory divides needs into: physiological needs, safety needs, social needs, respect needs and self-realization needs In addition to physiological needs and part of safety needs, other needs produce feelings and perceptions because all your feelings are your perception and feelings of the whole world, and the reason why people are happy and sad is because you are a faithful materialist, but, Is materialism necessarily correct?

No, the reason why people have all kinds of emotions is because you live in a world that you have built up by yourself, it is a subjective world, and it is difficult for you to explain what it is, if the things in reality are lower than your expectations at the conscious level, then there will be sadness, if it is higher, it will produce happiness, so there are many feelings that come from the gap between your ideal state of consciousness and the actual state!

As for survival needs and safety needs, animals also have them.

When you are happy, you will secrete sex hormones, and when you are in pain, you will also secrete sex hormones; If you don't believe you, try it.

When happiness is over, sadness is sad, and when sadness ends, there is happiness.

Life is like this, we can't avoid unhappiness and pain, so how can we make ourselves happy after experiencing these sadness and pain? I think true happiness comes from the understanding of pain, because life without pain can not feel happiness, we can only face it correctly, rationally analyze it, affirm that it should be affirmed to negate what should be denied, only in this way can we learn to give up, to know how to cherish, to remember what should be remembered, to forget what should be forgotten, to analyze the pain in life, to make it a kind of wealth, an experience, a memory, a realization instead of pain in your life, so that we can calmly look at the past, Open life, happy life, no regrets life, life is truly happy, not to escape and cover up, not to force joy. Because I believe that life is for us to face, not to escape, we can be sad but we must not indulge and escape.

Do what you like to do, listen to **, go out for a walk, and look at the sky outside, in fact, it is also full of comfort. It's fun to hang out with friends and talk to each other. People just think a lot.

In fact, there are not many things, and a lot of things will be thought of, so you have to do more things and keep yourself busy, so that you don't think about it. It's impossible to be happy all the time, there are always ups and downs in life, so it's fun!

Sadness is the price of happiness. Life is colorful, life has a lot of smoke since ancient times, please be more happy, less trouble. Maybe everyone has their own worries, and the so-called happiness is not because you have more, but because you care less! Happy every day!

There is no clear boundary between happiness and sadness, and its criteria vary from person to person; It's up to you when to be happy and when to be sad! Be optimistic about each day, and the joy will never end!

Sadness comes home and happiness comes, happiness does not come home when it is sad, happiness may come home when it is sad, sadness never goes out when it is happy.

Now that the sadness is over, what does it matter if it's happy or not?

I think from the moment you open your eyes every day, you have to say to yourself that today is a good day, no matter what happened yesterday, after all, yesterday is the past, it can't be changed, don't let yesterday's troubles affect today's good mood, everything starts now!

When you are working, no matter how busy the task is and how stressful it is, don't complain about your work, like your work, don't start the day with resentment, and you will have a sense of accomplishment to complete your work step by step!

Don't compare with others, so that you will live very easily, people's biggest enemy is yourself, I think you should have heard this sentence, so, it is not interesting to compare with others, only compare with yourself, you can always have a goal, don't measure yourself by other people's standards!

When you encounter unfair comments from others, let others talk about them as long as they don't hurt your personal dignity. After all, no one is perfect, no one is perfect, and no gold is enough! What others say is serious to you, and what you say is wrong You just sing as him, don't take it to heart, there are so many boring people in this world, if you all worry about them, how can you have a good mood!

The most important thing is that no matter how busy you are at work, make time to do what you love to do, such as listening to music, doing sports, etc.

Hope you are happy every day! Good mood every day!

As long as you let go, you will be in a good mood for everything!

What's wrong with you? Is there a problem encountered? If you don't mind, can you tell me?

Don't stay still, be active, don't think about things.

Those who like Su Youpeng must have heard of cherishing, this sentence is to say that when you are with the person you love, you are always more sad than happy, but when you part, you will definitely cherish everything in the past, whether it is happy or unhappy.

Calm your mind. A faint feeling, a quiet life, and an understanding of the beauty of the quiet place of life. Relax your attitude to see everything, face it with a peaceful mind, so that your soul can be sublimated and detached, forget when the flowers fall, and be happy when the flowers bloom.

There is a quiet and serene sky. If you can't have it, then let go of your hand, calm down and listen to the wind blowing, watch the clouds drift, and feel relaxed.

After you lost her, you realized that she cherished me so much, and I never cared about her...

It would be better to be apart for a while. Don't get divorced at every turn.

Why do you want to get married in pain? What if divorce is more painful? Turn? Remarry?

If you have the energy, give it a try and make it a life experience.