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Landlord: You yourself said that if the foundation of your relationship is based on money, do you think it is solid???
If it's solid, then you're right
If you don't have to be down-to-earth!
Then go for that true feeling
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Now it's inevitable to go out on dates, and you can AA when you eat and buy clothes, but you also have to have money to pay for your share
Plus, it's too ugly to be aa every time, at least you have to prepare a budget when pursuing.
Also, the girl you choose is also very important, a good girl will AA with you or help you pay if you don't have money, and the bad ones will help you turn on the faucet and make your wallet empty.
In a word, it's difficult to have no money and want to pick up girls
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It's not best not to talk about it, first of all, you will be very sad psychologically, others can buy brand-name clothes and cosmetics for your girlfriend, etc., you can't buy it, even if she doesn't say it, will you feel inferior in your heart, of course, it doesn't mean that you need to be rich, but at least it's in the past.
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Yes, but you are equal when you are in love, if he knows that you don't have any money, I think she will take the initiative, it's nothing, it's all in love! Because I love you without distinction between you and me.
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And that's true of the year now.
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The first floor is the right solution, and this solution will be hot.
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The riskiest investment is pickling girls.
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It's no wonder that you don't spend money to find a girlfriend.
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Boys don't want to fall in love because they don't have money, when they reach the age of love, every boy wants to fall in love, even if they don't have money, they also hope to find a girl she loves, this is the boy's feeling of love and hope for the process of emotional run-in, and it is the most intense stage, this process can be very sweet, bitter will be very bitter.
I don't know what stage your relationship is in, if it's just been together for a few months, no matter how you look at love.
How open is the view of marriage, I don't recommend you to live together.
At this time, your relationship may not be able to go through this stage, and you think that living together is to let two people have more time to be together and more time to be sweet. However, true cohabitation is nothing more than exposing all the shortcomings in front of the other person, and all the living habits go through a stage of integration.
When you first started your relationship, you see each other's eyes are bright, and you spend a lot of time dressing up when you go out on a date every day, and the image of the other party in your heart is not very real. There is really no need to let cohabitation speed up the process of the relationship and enjoy the current period of love.
That's it. Choosing to live together during the love period may shatter all the expectations in your heart.
If your relationship is already stable, and two people want to take their relationship further by living together, this is understandable. At this time, they already have a certain understanding of each other, and the decisions they make are no longer carried away by a wave of love. You may feel that the other person is the person you want and can't wait to get involved in the other person's life as soon as possible.
Whatever the purpose, you should make a decision based on the whole thing.
My boyfriend and I chose to live together after five months together, and I didn't think much about it at the time, I just wanted to be with each other every day.
From the beginning of the stir-fry of how many chili peppers to put in the quarrel, now he can accompany me to eat extra spicy, I can also accompany him to eat slightly spicy.
However, today I realized that I could not accept the practice of cohabitation, and my perception did not keep up with my behavior. I think I've done something wrong, so I'm tormented from time to time.
Living together made me love him more and more, but my mental burden also became heavier.
If you want to live with your boyfriend, you have to figure it out for yourself.
Can you afford to take the risk of cohabitation? Is this what you want for yourself?
If you don't have any doubts, just do whatever you want.
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Of course, for men, they will feel that they have no money and no capital, and they can't give the girl they like a good life, they will have low self-esteem, and they don't want to delay the girl.
And now in this society, boys are also under a lot of pressure, and they need bride price money to get married, not only that, but they also have to have a car and a house, dare to ask a young man in his early twenties who dares to get married? Even if their parents have money, it is not their own, so most boys will choose to make good money first and then fall in love.
With money, you have the ability to give your family a good life, so everyone has to work hard to make money!
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Personally, I think it will be, first of all, boys have no money, can't do anything, can't go out on dates, go out to eat, and their hearts are very humble. The second is that I feel that I have no money, and my life security cannot be guaranteed, if I fall in love, what will I use to ensure the foundation of my future life, so with such an inferiority complex, I will not dare to fall in love. As a boy, you should better improve your ability and fall in love when you have a certain economic foundation, so that you will have a good guarantee for the future and make yourself more confident.
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Of course it will, I'm such a typical person, what can I do if I don't have money to fall in love? What if you go out for a meal and don't have any money? What if you go out to watch a movie together and don't have money?
As the old saying goes, money is not everything, but no money is absolutely impossible, this society is like this, no matter what you do, you need money?
In the real society, talking about money hurts the most feelings, but you can't help but talk about money. Although money is not everything, no money is absolutely impossible. In today's world, you have to have money to fall in love, you have to have money to get married, everything is money.
In the eyes of most people, a man should have a job, be able to make money, and be able to support his family, such a man is a good man, and only when he marries such a man can he be practical. But is it just for a man to marry a woman? Isn't there a little emotion?
Now it is not the ancient fashion of male superiority and inferiority of women, women can only teach their husbands and children at home. Now that men and women have equal status, women can also go out to make money, and they can also support themselves, of course, as long as you have the ability, you can also live proudly. Don't always pin your hopes on men, learn to be self-reliant.
If a guy treats you well, takes care of you in every way, always thinks about you and doesn't make you angry, whatever you say is what you say. So will you leave a boy because he can't make money and can't afford it? If you are such a person, then I feel that your departure is worth it for him and not for you.
If a boy treats me well, I won't leave him for anything, unless he changes his mind, and not making money now doesn't mean that he won't be able to earn money in the future, as long as you work hard, you can still make money. If you don't have the ability and don't be afraid, you can slowly improve and learn slowly. None of this is a problem.
In the eyes of parents, they must hope that you will find a capable boy who can make money, because only in this way will they feel that you can be happy and they will feel at ease. But you have to know that life is built by both husband and wife, and no one stipulates that only boys are allowed to work to earn money, and girls can only sit at home and watch their children cook. How boring your life should be.
You can also get a job and live life to the fullest. If you love him, you won't leave him because of any money or ability. If you leave, it only means that you love money a little more than you love him.
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Of course, this phenomenon will happen, because without money, boys will feel inferior, even in front of girls, they can't show self-confidence, and there is no way to maintain a good relationship.
So in most cases, they will not choose to fall in love, even if they are in love, they will have scruples in their hearts, and they will also be very sensitive, and they always feel that some people or some things still need money to cultivate feelings, but they lack this.
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There will be. In the period of special age, women are not pursuing material, but more spiritual and companionship, your anxiety is purely normal, but the girl did not break up with you because of your background, and then you proposed to break up because of this matter, she did not agree, indicating that she loves you very much.
You have to know that in a few years, considering the issue of talking about marriage and offspring, you think that whether you can meet a better one on your terms is completely your own problem, someone is just with you because they like you, but you feel that you can't give her happiness, and now there is a saying that is very true, men sometimes don't know what women need.
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Yes, it's actually very simple to find a girlfriend, but it's not easy to maintain a relationship, and money plays a big role.
going out to eat, dozens and hundreds; I went shopping and saw something I liked, my girlfriend wanted it so much, but the man couldn't bear to buy it? a few hundred again; Have a girlfriend on holidays and still stay at home or in the dormitory? Don't travel?
Round-trip fares are several thousand, accommodation is hundreds, and eating, drinking and playing are hundreds; Girlfriend doesn't give a gift on her birthday? Hundreds and thousands; Even playing a game, ** inscription props and characters cost money. How can you fall in love without money, there is really no shortage of women with money.
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Most boys fall in love only when they have money, and they don't want to fall in love at all if they don't have money, mainly for three reasons.
The first thing is that falling in love with a girl is burning money, don't talk about it if you don't have money, and if you don't have money to fall in love, you can only let yourself be humiliated.
Today's girls are very realistic and snobbish, and they feel that if they fall in love with you, you will have to bear all her expenses, eating, drinking, and having fun, and all the living expenses will be borne by you.
When I go shopping, eat, buy clothes, shop, and spend my usual pocket money, I reach out and ask you for money, and you are also confident, you don't ask others for me. Girls still compare with each other, how much does my boyfriend give? How much did your boyfriend give? The social climate is too bad.
The second is that boys like to be a big wrongdoer, like to use money to please girls, go out without spending money, feel no sense of accomplishment, and have no face.
When I go out with girls, I like to spend money with girls, meet all the needs of girls, buy some daily necessities, and make girls happy. Sending red envelopes and transferring money during holidays makes girls very happy, and they feel that this is love?
This is the habitual thinking and love mode of many boys, especially weird, no way, most of them are like this.
In the end, if a boy has no money in hand during this time, he will not have confidence in his heart, and he will not dare to invite girls at all.
A man's money is a man's guts, and a man without money has no self-confidence and no charm. When a man has money, he has a relationship with everyone, and when he has money, he has self-confidence, and he goes to fall in love and pursue girls.
Money is especially important for a boy, most boys have no money, don't want to, don't want to, and don't dare to fall in love.
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We often hear people say that if you don't have money, then you shouldn't be in a relationship.
The reason why many people say such things is very simple, because many girls nowadays are very realistic. Their requirements for boys are really high.
Only male students have good jobs and good families have more income. In this way, girls are willing to be with boys. Only I, the boy, can meet the girl's requirements, so that the girl wants to be with the boy.
But it is precisely because the requirements of girls are too high. A lot of boys can't beat the girls' requirements. This directly leads to the fact that there is no way between boys and girls, let alone falling in love.
So for a lot of boys, it's because they don't meet the requirements of girls. So they think that they really can't have money to be able to fall in love with girls. It is precisely because of this that there are more and more men and women left in society.
Although many girls are very materialistic and have a very high vision, there are also some girls who actually value the relationship with boys more in love. Because he understands. In love, although material conditions are also important.
But what is more important is the affection between two people.
Only when two people like each other. In this way, two people can cherish each other more, and it is precisely because of each other's cherishing and love that two people can understand each other more and support each other. In this way, the two scattered smiles and hidden individuals can work together to struggle.
It will also create a happier love for them.
So although many girls nowadays they are very, realistic. If a guy doesn't meet the girl's requirements, then he won't be friends with the guy. That's why many boys think that there is no way to fall in love without money.
But there are some girls who actually value the relationship with boys more.
As long as boys can care about girls and love girls. And in the daily process of communication, they can be more understanding and supportive, so that girls are willing to get along with boys.
It is the two of them who can understand and support each other, so that the two of them will be happier and happier when they get along, and they will be able to have a happier and sweeter love in the future.
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There's no money to fall in love.
1. You can have love without money, and many people say that the economic foundation determines the emotional building. Yes, no one will fall in love with you when hungry, because the first contradiction is survival, the need for food. Now that the social standard of living has met the needs of food and clothing, although we don't have a lot of money, we can have some money for love investment, go to a movie, buy an ice cream for our girlfriend to eat.
Although it is not rich, love is innocent and full, and this is true love.
2. If you don't have money, you can go to play together, go picnic, climb, and hike, which not only exercise your body, enhance your feelings, but also sharpen your will. Falling in love doesn't have to be centered on money, and luxurious love eventually has to return to the manuscript life of ordinary people. It's the same to play.,It's better to be happy than anything else.,In fact, not all girls like money.,They like you and don't care too much about these.,As long as you're good to her.,Give her warmth and you'll always follow you.。
3. Return to the life of a normal person, no matter how sweet love is, after all, it must return to the days of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and don't overindulge in luxurious enjoyment. If you like someone, you can boldly take her into your life, and you don't have to hide anything. Take her to eat your favorite street food, although it is not very high-end, but it is clean and hygienic and the taste is not inferior.
Take her to do what you love to do, go to an orphanage to see the kids, visit an old person you've always respected, and more.
4. She loves you and you love her Now many people say that they no longer believe in love, saying that there is no true love in the true sense of the word in this world. What I'm trying to say here is that if you don't believe in love, then it means that you haven't really let go of all utilitarianism to love well. When we are poor, we can use a spoon to drink soup as a family, but when we are rich, our dining table has become bigger and we have a lot of money, and we will only serve soup for ourselves with our own spoon, but in fact you have become more self-conscious.
Of course, it's true, it mainly depends on what you think, if you want to get married, make it clear to her, and if the other party doesn't mean to get married, break up as soon as possible (if you are a marriage partner).
Whether there is a future depends on whether you have a common hope for this relationship. If you are hoping for a future, then you should know more about each other, such as appearance, lifestyle, personality, etc., because communication on the Internet is always very one-sided, but true love is to live together and really live. I think it's a little strange if you haven't seen each other for so many years. >>>More
Don't worry too much about what you get, but ask yourself more about what you're giving. Waiting for itself is love, and it doesn't need any result.
Generally does not appear occasionally.
The more moneyless the boy thinks that money is omnipotent, and thinks that if he has money, he can find a wife, so he chooses to give up the opportunity to fall in love and concentrate on earning money. A good marriage has little to do with money.