Because of my self respect, my boyfriend left me

I feel that you are doing the right thing, girls should be reserved, and now that you pay, it doesn't make the other party promise anything, maybe you will be bound by this responsibility, and now there are many who are good together, and in the end there is nothing good. I don't agree with his approach, is this the way he loves you, just use this method to prove, it's really boring, it's just an excuse, you should put down your baggage and find your own happiness, people will meet many people in their lives, some will give you illusions, maybe you are like this now, I hope you get rid of it as soon as possible, fighting!

Is it? I'm also a boy, and I don't realize that you are doing something wrong, although I also hope that my girlfriend will agree with me.

As you say, you are self-respecting. And it will be respected by others.

In fact, I don't want to express my position on your consent or refusal, whether it's right or wrong, but I think that even a man can't bear your "weight", what responsibility do you have to talk about and take on the family?

Emotional things are like this, maybe there really is no ending in the end, but, in fact, it's just as beautiful!!

You are a kind girl, and everyone will bless you.

In this also, I wish all lovers happiness. Those who are single are also happy.

You are right, if I really love a girl from the bottom of my heart, I am reluctant to do this. Besides, there are many uncertainties about the person who is responsible, although many people now say that they don't care...But there is no one who really doesn't care. Dead weight is very important...Forget your worries and be happy.

You're doing a good job There aren't many girls like you anymore Come on One day you'll meet someone you like Hehe, I really want to be friends with you But I already have a beloved girl

Rely on your own feelings, feelings, you think it's right, that's right.

Be happy.

A really good man will not always exist with this kind of goal, you are doing the right thing, do not do to others what you do not want to do to yourself, this is your point"Self-weight"People who can't stand it are really not worth relying on, and he still bears you first, it can be seen...

You're doing it right. And it's very good. Today's girls have to learn from you.

You will definitely be happy because you are a very self-loving woman.

You'll be happy, don't think too much.

You're doing very, very right! China needs people like you.

That is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation!

I feel like your boyfriend is doing something wrong. He doesn't love you enough. You say he's a responsible person.

I don't believe it! Is he responsible for you?

Must you be his girlfriend? I've been together for a long time, and I have feelings.

Can a girl like me find happiness of her own? OK!

You did the right thing, and I salute you.

You're doing it right. Girls should protect themselves! Although society is much more open now, some men say they don't care, but they still care a lot in their hearts.

There will definitely be your true love! Be patient! But don't be really stupid and wait, if you encounter a good one, you have to attack boldly, otherwise a good man will be condemned! Hehe.

Is it? My heart aches for you. Love is resentful.

You can believe it.

I'm on this too.

Oh, it's a normal relationshipRegret Le?

Did you give him the first time? If he leaves you after giving it to him, it means that he is tired of you: if you just promised to give it to him, but he didn't give it, but he left you, maybe because he had a heart, he thought you wouldn't give him the first time, he wanted to force you to quit by himself, but he didn't expect you to promise him, so he could only take the initiative to quit by himself!

I'm a person from the past, and the above is my personal analysis!

FYI!

Because he doesn't love you at all, ask yourself if you are blind and see the wrong person, don't think that you can get a good return if you pay The consequences of paying may be a lifetime of happiness, or you can only get a lesson

If you love the wrong person, you have to turn back in time, who is not at fault, just change it, be careful next time you look for a man, it doesn't matter if you hurt your body, if you hurt your heart, you will be in trouble! ～

As said on the 2nd floor, you fall in love with an irresponsible man, for some men, sex (or for the first time) is a responsibility, but for some men, sex is just enjoyment. It's a pity that you chose the latter, but luckily he left you, or you will regret it for the rest of your life. The last sentence:

Girls should know how to respect themselves! (Although I'm a boy).

Some men will have these 2 words of responsibility in their hearts Some do not A man with these 2 words will cherish his woman and cherish the love that the girl pays for him The latter only cares about himself After choosing a good man, give him your most precious thing This lesson is only 1 time, but I hope that in the future, you can meet a good man who cherishes and loves you!

In a word. You love him. He doesn't love you ...

That's why he doesn't value you so much ...

Let's be honest, though. This is just a manifestation of love. It doesn't mean you can tie up a man...

In fact, women can't talk about it for the first time! You give it to him, that's when you love him. He doesn't want you anymore, that's because he doesn't love you anymore.

Women need to protect themselves. But it really got to this point. Tell yourself that it's gone, it's over. You have to do something better than he does!

The ones on the upper floors all make sense, but ah, people, it's better to live realistically, the past is over, don't think about it anymore, do you understand, he's back? Even if he comes back, will you still be with him? People nowadays are fast-fooders.

Learn the lesson and stop being sad for that man It's not worth it.

Just look at the front, don't always look back, the past is all black and white images, and the front is a gorgeous scenery!!

Someone who truly loves you will not leave you just because you don't give him the first time.

In the same way, someone who doesn't love you won't stay because you gave him the first time.

I guess I'm emotionally exhausted! Ever heard of such a saying?

Feelings are very cheap, and the past is over.

The more you can't get it, the more you want to get it, and what you have already gotten, will you cherish it?

Forget it, look down, face the sea in spring, tomorrow is a sunny day!

You believe in him too much and love him too much.

Forget that he doesn't deserve your memory.

There are too many fakes.

A man is good to a woman, he doesn't necessarily have a dark purpose, but if he has a purpose, he will be good to a woman, and now that his purpose has been achieved, of course, he won't sleep with you anymore and wander around.

You're in love with someone you shouldn't love! And a hasty decision was made.

Premarital sex is not good for the woman. 1. Make the relationship unfavorable to the woman. 2. It is harmful to the woman's health. 3. Cause psychological pressure on the woman. 4. It is conducive to the man to say that he broke up.

This man is not a good thing, and an irresponsible man is not a man.

Don't give it to people lightly!!

Make sure he is genuine with you and that he should give it when he is due.

The water is natural, and the water is not there.

You're right! You're a good woman! Because it's 2009.

It seems that your boyfriend still wants to get your body, your idea is correct, you must stick to your bottom line, if your boyfriend really loves you, then he should respect you, understand you, and consider the problem from your point of view, instead of blindly asking, after all, you are not married, neither of you has the obligation to meet each other's needs, and as a girl, you must have self-esteem and self-love, and you can't give everything you have to each other because it is a hot love period, because after all, there is no guarantee of marriage. If your boyfriend changes his attitude towards you for this reason, then this kind of man is not worthy of your love for him, before getting married, two people should respect each other, and the other party should respect each other's choices if they disagree, instead of using words or actions to force the other party to agree to their unreasonable demands, he doesn't really love you, he just wants to get what he wants.

Do you feel guilty about the way he is angry? Do you feel sorry for him? If so, then his goal is getting closer and closer, I don't understand, you keep yourself until after marriage, why does he behave like this, you might as well ask him, if a woman is so casual, can he like it? Who can guarantee that now that you are together and give him everything, you will eventually get married? This kind of thing is justified by you, for the sake of your husband's good, if he is your future husband, then you will not force it.

For a normal man, it will indeed be uncomfortable to endure it for a long time, after all, it is normal to think about what you like every day in front of the person you like, but your idea is right, you can't hand yourself over so easily, and it makes more sense to get to the wedding night.

He was really uncomfortable.

Nowadays, many men can't stand not having sex before marriage.

It's good for girls to be reserved, but they can't be too conservative.

The two of you have different ideas, and you will break up because of this sooner rather than later.

It is recommended that you also find a conservative boyfriend.

You're doing it right.

The easier it is for a man to get it, the less he will cherish you.

However, it is recommended that you do targeted exercises.

Make him once you get it.

I will never be willing to leave you again.

In fact, your idea is right, even if you don't want to touch this bottom line, don't make physical contact, don't be so close, boys and girls are too close to each other, it's easy to happen, your boyfriend is not angry with you, you talk to him well, if he really loves you, you should respect you.

Good afternoon, this is a process that must be experienced between men and women!

One side insists on it, and the other side considers many aspects, so I am afraid of this happening for the time being.

Apparently he was angry. Such a guy has no sense of responsibility, and if he really likes you, he shouldn't make such a request.

Don't make too long remarks. A word to you, I'm sure you've heard of it too! Girl's purity is white! If you can keep the bottom line, you will keep your happiness in the future!

Everyone has their own bottom line, not to mention that you are right. Since the other party is disrespectful, why should you think that you have a problem, and don't wronged yourself to please others.

People who really love you can definitely understand this, and I advise you to think about it.

During the relationship between men and women, it is necessary not to do excessive intimate actions and maintain a rational attitude.

Leave your perfect self after marrying your partner.

It's true that this man is uncomfortable, and it's true that you're angry. But I hope you don't compromise, if he doesn't respect you and has to be intimate with you, you are dedicated, and the future may not have a good result. If he truly loves you, he should respect you!

Don't compromise for the sake of his desires! It's right to stick to your own principles.

This is normal, my girlfriend is like this, and we have a banquet, which means that we will live together after getting married. Girls still have to take care of themselves.

Your boyfriend doesn't love you enough, if you do, he will respect your choice, not force, and advise you not to agree as a girl, don't break up in the future and suffer from you,

You are right to do this, you have to protect yourself before you get married, especially a girl, if he doesn't respect you and can't stick to it, it means that he doesn't love you deeply and only talks to you if he needs it physically.

It's terrible when a man's sperm worm goes to the brain, most of the men, when he wants that, you reject him, most of them are directly unhappy, only a few people feel that they should respect you, and wait for you to talk about it when you want to.

It's not that he doesn't want to touch you, but he wants to touch you, but he can't. You can't eat braised pork in front of you, can you not be angry?

If your boyfriend loves you, he will definitely think about you. Respect you and love you. The discomfort is only temporary. If a woman gives herself over easily. Then he will not be worth much in the future. Men should wait until they are willing to give.

Don't be stupid, such a man is just playing, it's just that you let him go, and run faster when it's over, the man who doesn't love you only cares about whether your aunt is coming and going, and the man who loves you just wants to hold you tightly and be reluctant to let go, for fear of losing you, if it's a pity, it's a pity that it didn't come up...

No, you're too reserved, not the type that boys like, you shouldn't feel much regret!

No, if deep love would not have left in the first place.

I'll miss it at first, because after all, I have feelings, and then it will become lighter and lighter as time slowly washes away! Until there is a replacement!

Yes, a year or two ago, 60% of them would have hated that, and then they won't, and they will miss you slowly.

There is something better after a breakup, it's just that you're not used to the feeling yet, hold on.

Now that you've given it the first time, it's just using you as a device to vent your desires. I'll still break up with you after getting tired of playing, so it's better to break up early. Don't be ruined by a scumbag and ruin your life's happiness.

Dear, although you have been together for a long time, he has also said many times that he wants you, you didn't give it, I think, you are very self-respecting, you did the right thing, if you gave it to him, he may have broken up with you a long time ago! From your words, I feel that he does not really love you, and the past is like smoke, and you can recall that if he really loved you, kept his chastity with you, and left it for that day, he should be happy! Congratulations, so self-respecting, leaving a scumbag!