I m a hard looking person who is actually quite timid, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    When one day, your lover or relative or true friend needs you to stand up for something, the consequences may be serious, and you retreat, it can be called cowardice.

    Experience more things, face a few things alone that require courage to face, maybe it will be better, if something happens, don't rely on others first, tell yourself, I'm a man, I can do it, what am I afraid of? What's so scary? Think about the People's Liberation Army that is now rushing to the front line, that's the man.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Be a real person

    Otherwise, the consequences will be serious.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You're still afraid of your family, right? I'm still worried about my family's feelings. Since you want to be like a man.

    Use this as a reason to convince yourself and go back and face it. You remember, if you don't go back and solve this problem, you won't be human. I've encountered this before, and I can't hide from it.

    That's what happened in the past. Nothing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't dare to face it because I don't know how to solve it, so I start with simple things.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There are many faces.

    I'm not afraid... Chen Haonan was not born so fierce...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't you dare in your heart, don't you do such a useful thing?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Those who are bold have either died violently or been sentenced, and you should be lucky for your prudence!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It doesn't matter, you think you've found your reason, so you try to change yourself and let yourself face it bravely

    Let's go home first.

    Let's try to go home and make it clear

    I think I can.

    Go, young lad, what are you afraid of?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Force yourself to face it every time, and it's okay to take your time. If you really want to change yourself, you won't get anything without being ruthless and taking action.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Not to be timid, there are some things to be cautious about.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There are many reasons for this timidity.

    It has to do with your personal experience, your upbringing, and your original personality traits.

    And timidity also depends on the occasion and situation, maybe some occasions are particularly timid, and some occasions will not.

    Although it cannot be said that timidity is bad, if you want to get rid of timidity, you can target certain occasions and situations.

    Go for exercise and strengthen yourself. For example, in more formal and crowded occasions, if you are particularly timid, then participate in more social activities, strengthen your interpersonal skills, communicate with others more, get along with others, and overcome your easy nervousness and fear. It is also very important to participate in more activities, exercise more, make yourself lively and cheerful, and maintain a positive attitude.

    A lot of things can be changed, so if you want to, you have to let go a little bit and try to act.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This has nothing to do with being timid or not.

    When it comes to this kind of thing, the way you deal with it is the way most people would choose. Because if you remind the person who cuts the queue, she may quarrel with you, and she may end up not working, which will not only delay your time, but also affect your mood, and it will be more expensive to do so.

    Of course, I think it's still advisable to stop cutting in line in person. If you do so, it is your legitimate interest and should be protected. If everyone doesn't mention it, it will encourage the behavior of cutting in line.

    You can ask the staff for help, after all, this is also their profession, and the staff is to ensure that the workplace is in order.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, everyone has the strongest side.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This has nothing to do with guts, encountering this kind of thing. Qi is definitely there, but there is no need to fight to win or lose, human beings, as a high-IQ race, are polite and will control their emotions and behaviors. However, that person is unreasonable, and you go and argue with him.

    It's nothing more than people and animals arguing. You win, you lose, is it useful? So, when you encounter this kind of thing, you can't get angry

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't understand if someone else is in your team, or are you a salesperson inside? But this kind of thing that has no quality, you can't point it out, there is indeed a point of timidity, but for today's society, this kind of timidity is also for your own protection, because you don't know, if you stand up and let him go to the queue, will there be someone else who will join you to stop this phenomenon of cutting in line, and you don't know, if you stop it, will this woman go back and call someone to come and beat you up? Because in this society, things like this are not nothing, you stand up to stop it, this is called your bravery, you don't stop it, this is also your protection of yourself, in fact, you don't need to dwell on such things anymore, you are thinking about whether this is your own cowardice?

    In fact, you yourself are very aware that cutting in line is very unqualified, and you also know that you should stand up to stop this matter, although this sentence seems to make you a coward, but in this society, if you want to be a hero, you must first protect yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, because people have the responsibility and printing that they should enter in life, and some things can't afford to lose, and they don't dare to gamble, so it's not that they are timid, they just want to live a stable life!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's not a matter of timidity, it's a matter of quality, it's not easy for everyone to come out to work, and we have to be considerate of each other.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You are too weak. It's going to be a loss. You're a man and a woman.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No, politeness is a virtue.

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