Do you prefer forbearance or rebellion? Why?

I appreciate the spirit of forbearance more, as if I am gathering strength and waiting for the right moment to explode.

You can endure the little things when they don't touch your bottom line, after all, there will definitely be friction and stumbling between people, and it will be over for each other, but when you touch the bottom line, you feel particularly uncomfortable, and even again and again you can fight back appropriately, of course, this counterattack should not be too strong, don't hurt others and hurt yourself, you can choose to leave the people you don't like and hurt yourself, you can also give warnings to people who hurt yourself, and you can also lose your temper appropriately to let them know that you are not easy to mess with, That's my bottom line.

I appreciate rebellion more. Because forbearance people will only give in to anything they encounter, so the most painful thing is themselves, and they can't do justice for themselves. Resistance is the only way to stop those who hurt and to punish those who hurt themselves. The more you endure others, the more you will gain an inch.

Forbearance, especially when you can take revenge after forbearance, I feel that the whole person can be extremely excited.

Don't put forbearance and resistance on the opposite side, the real ninja has never given up resistance, and in the face of the phenomenon of discord with his own ideas, he or let himself compromise and agree with the ideas that he did not agree with before; Either change it. If there is a compromise, it is not called forbearance, it is called obedience. If you want to change it, then you have to go through a certain way and method, some things are very complicated, you can't do it overnight, you have to eat one bite at a time, so you have to be patient, on the one hand, judge the situation, do things little by little, and on the other hand, wait for the opportunity.

The ninja has an uncompromising character and a firm view of things. Resistance is a kind of spirit, and forbearance is a kind of wisdom. Of course, there are also some things that need to be directly stated, which needs to be said separately.

I appreciate it, but I really need to talk about things. When I was a child, my father always instilled a point of view that it is okay to eat it in the open, but it is not okay to have a secret arrow. I'm doing this right now, and when people take me for a fool, they will inevitably let him continue to be a fool.

If it's a very difficult arrow, then I'm sorry and I have to pull it out.

Those who know the times are handsome, and those who should forbear are forbearance. Rebel when it's time to rebel! Move depending on the situation!

When the other party has the strength to absolutely crush you, it is useless to resist, and the green mountains left at this time are here, not afraid of no firewood! When there is a silver lining to resistance, of course it is necessary to resist! The key is to be sober-minded and have a correct judgment of the situation!

It doesn't matter whether you appreciate it or not, survival, development, and growth are the first things! The word appreciation is not appropriate here! Enjoy movies, views, cooking, and more!

It is not suitable for mental use! The premise of any so-called spiritual is wisdom, not blind appreciation!

When you don't touch the bottom line and the price paid for counterattacking is too great, you need to be patient; When you touch your own boundaries, don't hesitate to fight back. So, what's your bottom line? That's all that matters!

Everyone has their own rules and bottom line, once someone touches it, they should fight back, and if there is a threat to their dignity, family or good friends, they should take certain measures. As long as the rest is not excessive, jokes should be tolerated and forbearing.

Forbearance and resistance, it depends on the situation. To be honest, I am a twin, and it is a unique twin. In my world, I only forbear for my lover. Most of the others are mainly rebellious.

Forbearance is a kind of generosity and humility. The Tao Te Ching has not cracked the clouds: "A gentleman is as good as water, and water is good for all things without fighting" Forbearance is not only a kind of cultivation in itself, but also a kind of demeanor in interpersonal communication.

When encountering contradictions, digesting them within a tolerable range is not only more conducive to the elimination of contradictions, but also to gain the respect of the other party and establish a better interpersonal relationship. If someone steps on you in public, is it a frank and straightforward statement of "why are you like this" or a forbearant sentence of "It's okay, it doesn't matter" can better eliminate the existing contradictions? Second, forbearance allows one or both parties to have plenty of time to think about the problem, as the saying goes

Impulse is the devil" may be more direct and efficient than forbearance, but it is not necessarily better to eliminate existing contradictions. If in the contradictions between the two sides, bluntly point out the shortcomings of the other party, first, the hurt is withered and the feelings are closed, and the other party's heart falls into a pimple, and second