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Hello, because people have different levels of needs. We must first meet these needs of ourselves, especially at a lower level, before we can talk about thinking about others.
To put it bluntly, a rich man, he is qualified to say who I sponsor, a person who can't eat enough himself, he may not even have time to breed ideas. Therefore, the instinct of man is to pull others after he has spare strength.
It is not excluded that there are people who do not care about themselves to serve others and calculate others when they are doing well, but these two kinds of people are very few, and most people have to take care of themselves before they can think about others!
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Because man lives for himself, only he understands himself! Only you know how sad you are when you're sad, and only you know how happy you are when you're happy! Others never know their feelings, thoughts!
You can't feel for anyone else! Who doesn't live for himself? Only a handful of people live for the sake of others!
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This is a sign of selfishness, but not for everyone.
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One person feeds the whole family and is not hungry, and there is a wife and children, and the pressure is beaten.
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Because only when you exist can you have a basis for thinking about others!
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As the saying goes, "if people don't do it for themselves, heaven and earth will be destroyed", it is not unreasonable.
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This world is difficult, don't think about yourself, you still have the ability to worry about the country and the people.
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There is a saying that people will not be punished for themselves, although it is not advisable, but many people in society are like this, look at the point.
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If a person is not a saint, he can do no wrong.
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If people do not do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed.
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If it's not good for yourself, it's good for whom.
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People are inherently selfish, and if they are selfish in the face of righteousness, they are traitors.
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This fully shows that people are selfish.
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The judge turned to the defendant and asked, "Your wife said for sure that you were cruel to her and that she could not live with you. Do you have anything to defend yourself? ”
It was an excuse that she brought a goat into our bedroom and insisted on where the goat lived, as you can imagine, how smelly it was in the bedroom. I can't stand this. "Can't you just open the window?" The judge asked.
How's that going to work? So all my pigeons will fly away from the bedroom, right? ”
A lot of times, we always think about ourselves first. Blaming others for their shortcomings and turning a blind eye to their own mistakes.
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