What should I do if I don t dare to get close to someone I like?

Hehe, I guess we're about the same age. I was the same at first.

But you can take your time, first of all, tell yourself not to be afraid to see him. Be brave in your face.

You say in your heart, "He's not fighting tigers, what are you afraid of him doing?"

Then you can try to say hello to him and talk to him. Know him better.

Then you can occasionally play with him, and you want to get his QQ.

I think it's fine. Try to talk a little coquettish.。。 Hee-hee.

I think that's cuter!

I'm about the same as you, it's even more embarrassing to meet someone you like and can't say it (I'm a man) The best way is to tell someone else and then let that person undoubtedly tell you the person you like and then see that his match If you succeed and win it It won't lose face if you don't succeed I'm like this As a result, she said that she also liked me for a long time As a result, she caught up in 3 days.

That's good, that's what I want right now. I have that too

I'm a man. I'm not confident. Anyway, in the end, it didn't end well. Didn't catch up, hehe

What a cute girl, come and step on!

My husband is what I chased back Now the relationship is very good It can be said that he loves me more I am average-looking He is very handsome but the relationship needs to be managed We are about to get married I wish you happiness.

My sister tried to get close to it once, not just talking, and not thinking too much, it would be easier after having the first relationship. There is also the fact that you don't say it, you metaphorically say that you meet and greet him, if there is anything to help, you can tell him, communicate more, just like usual, and carve it out if your heart is firm. Your first love symptoms are quite normal, take your time.

Oh, how can I have a symptom, but I'm a man, and the woman should be better, and then when he stares at you, you look at him for a while and then turn your head, showing a state of ignorance, control yourself, don't let him know that you like him, or he will feel like you're in the palm of his hand, the most important thing is not to be too anxious, don't listen to people's babbling, I just listen to my brother's words, and rushed over to confess to the girl I like, and it turned out to blow, that girl likes me I know, So I still think it's best to keep that kind of relationship above friends and under lovers.

If you like it, you have to pay the price, and if you don't take the initiative at all, how can you let him know that you exist?

I haven't had a boyfriend before, and if I have more friends, I'll get used to it.

Go with the flow, maybe he's just a passerby in your life

Don't care about it for now, ask him for a **!

I shouldn't be so nervous when I look at it every day...

And you can hint in your heart...

For example, he doesn't know I like him, he doesn't know I like him!

Just be like the other girls!

Or·· Be sure to get in touch with him!! I want him to notice me... I want him to like me too1!

Force yourself to get close to him, and when you get closer, you won't feel anything!!

It's that hurdle, it's easy in the past, work hard!!

Hehe, I'm just a boy.

How old are you? Is he worthy of you?

You're not confident, in fact, I'm the same as you, and I just made a post that is essentially similar to you.

You may be more introverted and others don't know you very well.

Get in touch with others and open your heart.

Give people roses, and there is a lingering fragrance in your hands.

You have to be clear about whether others are afraid to approach you or unwilling to approach you.

If others are afraid to approach you, it means that you may be short-tempered and moody.

If others are reluctant to approach you, you may be self-confident and introverted.

There is a big difference between the two.

Let me talk about a few possibilities.

The first is that you may be too cold, that is, you are not very enthusiastic about the things around you, and you will give others the feeling that you are not close to others.

The second is that you may be too good, and others will feel that they are not worthy of you, and then they will be ashamed of themselves.

The third is that you may have some personality problems that cause others to not want to get along with you, but you can't be presumptuous, and you have to communicate with the people around you to find out.

The more I like it, the more I dare not approach, why is this happening? In real life, when many people meet someone they like, they will always be afraid to approach because they like it more, in fact, there is a reason for this.

1.Hormonal halo effect. In the eyes of lovers, Shih Tzu is not unfounded.

At first glance, the result is a sharp change in hormones in the body. Because of the heartbeat of a feature, you'll extend that heartbeat to the overall optimization. In other words, when you have a crush on someone because of certain characteristics of him (such as appearance, personality, and even actions), you will still have positive fantasies about him in other ways, such as the typical love house and Wu.

As a result, the person you love may not be as good as you think. But you are sure that he is perfect, not like ordinary people. Of course, you don't dare approach him.

2.When facing someone you like, your eyes are also deceiving you. There is a physiological common sense:

When humans are confronted with someone or something they like, their pupils dilate. This is basically caused by adrenaline in the body. However, as a direct result, more optical fibers are projected onto the retina, which will affect the accuracy of our vision.

Therefore, images tend to be subjective and do not provide real visuals, just like yours eyes bring a layer of filter to the person you like So, you will find that in the face of the person you like, you always like more and more. Obviously he is ordinary in the eyes of others, but you can recognize him at a glance in the crowd. He looks good in everything he wears and sounds good in everything he says.

Your eyes help him "become perfect".

3.Positive illusions. Positive delusion is when you subconsciously find that your self-esteem is threatened by certain objective and negative information, you comfort yourself with idealized exaggerations and seriously make excuses for the other person to protect your self-esteem.

For example, another person may have exposed his flaws, but because you think you like him very much, you like him so much that he does not allow him to have flaws, so subconsciously, you can't control making excuses for him and giving the person you like a good reason to support. Frankly, a lot of times you are oil and salt can't get in because you don't want to "look at the wrong person".

This is because if you like someone, you will have an inferiority complex, and at the same time, you are afraid that getting close to the other person will cause the other person to be disgusted, so the more you like it, the less you dare to approach.

This is because treating the person you like will produce a feeling of inferiority, so the more you like it, the more you dare not approach, for fear of leaving a bad impression on the other person.

Because when you like someone, you become very timid, and you're afraid that the other party will be disgusted, so you don't dare to approach.

I like each other very much, but I don't dare to get close, what kind of psychology is this?

1. I am more fragile and afraid that the other party will reject me.

If you like someone, you have to say it boldly, this is a truth that many people know, only by saying it can you reap love. But sometimes I just want to like him silently and don't dare to approach him, the main reason is that my personality is more cowardly and fragile. I am afraid that after the other party rejects me, I will make myself very faceless and will make others laugh at me.

If you can't afford such a failure, you will eventually collapse and never dare to involve love again.

Second, I am very unconfident, so I just want to look at each other from a distance.

I am a particularly unconfident person, and I always feel that I am too ordinary to attract the attention of others, and I should not take the initiative to love others. He looks ordinary, and he is particularly inconspicuous in the crowd; The academic qualifications are average, and it is not a famous university, but an ordinary second-class college; Introverted, doesn't have good friends, and always goes alone......All this will make you unconfident, so when you see the boy you like, you just want to see him from afar, and this kind of beauty is enough in your heart, and there is nothing else to ask for.

Third, the other party is too good to feel that he can't climb high.

I like a boy, but I don't know how to open my mouth to him, in fact, because the boy is too good, and there are many girls who like him. He is not conspicuous and cannot attract the attention of boys, and the main thing is that such an excellent boy has a great sense of distance from himself. Even if they are really together, they will be under a lot of pressure, they will suffer from gains and losses, and they are afraid that he will slip away from them.

has such a mentality, I don't want to have too much to do with him, even if I know that if I just like it, but I don't express it, I will miss this relationship, but I won't take that step. In fact, if you want to have this relationship, you should overcome your psychology and make yourself confident.

This is a kind of cowardly psychology, always feel that you are inferior to the other party, afraid that you are not worthy of the other party, so you dare not tell each other to get closer, you have to be brave, the courage to attack in order to get love.

Inferiority complex. Although you like each other very much, if you get too close to each other, the other person will discover their shortcomings and stay away from you. Also, I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to give the other party a good future, so I didn't dare to approach the other party.

This is the psychology of inferiority, because you feel that you are not worthy of the other party, so you dare not approach the other person.

Because I was afraid that getting close to each other would scare them away, I would never see each other again.

Most people are like this, they will be so nervous that they can't speak in front of the person they like, and they don't dare to look at him directly or approach him. is so cautious and does not dare to approach because he is afraid that he will get closer, for fear that his true nature will be exposed. If you say the wrong thing or behave inappropriately, so that you leave a little bad impression on the other person, it will be completely useless.

In the face of the person he likes, he is always humble and unconfident. I feel that I am not good enough, and the gap between me and the one I like is too big to match him. It's all your own wishful thinking in your subconscious, so you just want to hide aside and don't dare to act rashly.

Being too close, for fear of revealing one's mind, will annoy the other person, or call it a burden for him. Therefore, looking at him from afar where he can't see may be the simplest happiness.

The farther away you are, the more secure you feel. You will rejoice with him and grieve with him, because in a man's world, you are qualified to think of a man with all your heart. That's why there is that sentence, I love you, and it has nothing to do with you.

Being able to like someone is already the greatest luck. When you see someone you like, the more nervous you are, the more restrained you become, and at this time, it is the time when the psychological defense line is the lowest and the most cowardly. It's a state of completely bad performance, and it's better to hide.

The more I like it, the more I care, the more afraid I am of making mistakes. In the face of the person they like, some people boldly confess, and some people will pay attention to that him (her) from afar. I didn't dare to approach because I cared too much, and when I saw her, I thought if I was beautiful enough?

Inappropriate words and deeds? If you accidentally say the wrong thing, you may regret it for a long time afterwards. These are all normal manifestations of liking a person, but because each person's personality is different, the way of showing it is different.

I don't dare to get close, it's not that I don't like it enough, but I like it too much for fear that the other party will be disappointed in me. Once this situation is formed, it will make the atmosphere awkward and disgusting with each other, and I am afraid that even friends will not be able to do it. So we are careful about the relationship between two people, and most of the time it is gradual.

We're always waiting, waiting for ourselves to be good enough to stand side by side with him, to turn our heads and say to him, I like you. But when you meet someone you really like, you must be bold to chase it, sometimes it may be a lifetime if you miss it.

Don't treat him as someone you like, just treat him as a friend, and approach him just to make friends, so that you don't have so much panic psychologically.

This is because you care too much about the other party, and you are afraid of ruining your image in the other party's mind, and when you encounter such a situation, you should usually pay attention to your own image, and you should pay more attention to the hobbies of the person you like, you can use this to have a common topic with him, and you must give yourself a hint.

You have to cheer yourself up, you have to give yourself positive psychological cues, tell yourself that you are the best, that you are the most beautiful.

The more you like someone, the more you seem to be discouraged. What are you worried about? What are you hesitating about? Take a look at the following points, how many have you won?

First of all, I am worried that I am not good enough and let the other person down.

I'm a girl, standing in the position of a girl, the more I like someone, the more I dare not get too close, and I am always afraid that I am not the type that the other party imagines. If you are too presumptuous and especially worried that it will be over before it starts, what type of friend is his friend, what is the personality of the girl he likes, including what is the dressing style of the girl he likes? I didn't have enough certainty to get too close.

Secondly, the other party has never hinted.

Although I like it very much in my heart, I still hope that the other party can take the initiative first. But when the other party doesn't respond, his heart is also up and down. Rather than this, it is better to be by his side, start with the "friend" relationship, and secretly understand him first, after all, when you are not sure that the other party also likes you, you are nervous in your heart, and you will subconsciously pretend that you don't care, and try to show that you are a little indifferent.

I deny myself a little, and I feel that the other party is too good.

I like someone and I want to be perfect in my life. Because of this, they will pay special attention to their every move and even dress up. But it's also because I care too much, and I'm afraid that the other party is too close, and when I see that the real self is not like this, I'm afraid that the other party will be disappointed, and I'm afraid that the other party won't accept it.

Even, I feel that the other party is good anywhere, but I am not good anywhere.

Hey, you're yourself, if you like it, try to say it, and it just so happens that the other party likes you too? If it is unfortunate that it is not the object of the other party's favor, maybe when you look back, there are people who like you and love you as your life! It's yours after all, it will be yours, if it shouldn't belong to you, no matter how careful you take care of it, you will still miss it!

Life is short, be brave, the scenery that belongs to you is because of the small step you take will get a big step!