It s been almost 1 year with him, but I broke up yesterday

Updated on psychology 2024-05-18
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Time can forget everything, you think now, when you think about him, just think about it to your heart's content.

    Cry when you want to. After a while, you will suddenly find that your feelings for him have gradually faded.

    So, for now, just wait for the time to pass.

    You'll be fine.

    Go out with your friends more.

    Watch more TV series on the Internet. Read a book. Chat with other people.

    Don't waste your time by staying all day.

    It's not that you can't live without him.

    You still have family, friends.

    They're the ones in the world who will never leave you.

    So, take what you used to do with him, now apply it to your family and friends.

    Work hard.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When a man says he loves you, he really loves you, and when he says he doesn't love you, he really doesn't love you.

    Give it up and delete all his information. I've been in pain before, and maybe you'll wash your face with tears in the days to come. But you have to tell yourself that you have to be strong.

    I believe that this memory will not be forgotten, so let it be a beautiful memory

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Men are actually the same, and married men are not more hurtful when they engage in extramarital affairs.

    Let's look at the point, this is the way it is in today's society, there is no strong love.

    My husband and I have been in love since middle school, and it's been almost ten years now, and we've only been married for less than three years, and he's been unfaithful to me.

    Women have to learn to protect themselves!Don't be too attached to men, we also take them as the spice of our lives? Without them, we would still be living a wonderful life!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Sadness is for sure, people really grow up like this.

    Leave it to time to be sad, learn to be strong!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Sleep for a week and wake up and start again.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't wait until you lose it to know how to cherish it! Let's go back! If you can't put it down, don't put it down! It's really not easy to find someone who loves you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Dear, time, only time can save you, after a long time, it will fade. Just breaking up is painful.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Another poor woman!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There's nothing you're still young!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Eat a trench and grow a wisdom, don't pay easily.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Forget it, the past is gone, and if you still like it, try to try to see it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Falling out of love is painful, but it's also an opportunity to grow up.

    You're still young, don't be sad. I believe you will find a better one, time is the best healing medicine, and gradually forget him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's not a big deal, my girlfriend and I have also split up for 7 years!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. Dear [than heart], hello, I'm honored to ask you this question, I am Dabang Emotional Xinfujia, a national registered first-level emotional counselor, a family relationship counselor (teacher), a second-level psychological counselor, good at: emotional repair and recovery, marital crisis management, psychological healing, love troubles, emotional management, Your question, I am sorting out the answer for you, if you have more information, you can continue to express, I can better answer for you.

    It's been half a year since we broke up, and he contacted me, what should I do.

    Dear [than heart], hello, I'm honored to ask you this question, I am Dabang Emotional Xinfujia, a national registered first-level emotional counselor, a family relationship counselor (teacher), a second-level psychological counselor, good at: emotional repair and recovery, marital crisis management, psychological healing, love troubles, emotional management, Your question, I am sorting out the answer for you, if you have more information, you can continue to express, I can better answer for you. ~

    First of all, you have to ask yourself, whether you are still in love, whether you are single, just follow your heart. If you still love, what if you break up? Is he worthy of your renewed relationship?

    Because you can't let go, you can't forget, you can't erase those memories related to you. It's easy to forget someone, but it's too hard to delete that good memory.

    It's been half a year since I broke up with my boyfriend, and my boyfriend has finally talked to me again, and he has a new love now, so should I contact him?

    It's been half a year since I broke up with my boyfriend, and my boyfriend has finally talked to me again, and he has a new love now, so should I contact him?

    Half a year later, I still love him very much in my heart<>

    He shouldn't love me anymore, he's very good with his new love.

    If the reason for the breakup is not resolved, don't look back; If he is sincere and you still have him in your heart, give each other another chance.

    Thank you, teacher<>

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while We have been broken up for a long time, but this man contacts me every once in a while, what does he mean.

    Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while Hello After the breakup, I still contact you occasionally It means that he still can't let you go Occasionally I think of you So why don't you just say it, why contact it every once in a while.

    How slow. He can be patient with his emotions After all, you have broken up, occasionally contact to explain that occasionally he can't help but want to contact you.

    If you also have the intention of reconciliation, you can directly explain it to the other party, if he really forgets you, he will not contact you occasionally, don't miss a good relationship.

    I'm only talking to him as a friend now, and I'm going to reply to his messages.

    If you don't have the intention of reconciling, you can keep the relationship for the time being until the other party makes a clear request for reconciliation, and it's okay to be friends after a breakup.

    Ok thanks!

    You're welcome to look forward to your praise.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't know if you've ever heard of the concept of "prophetic dreams".

    The more deliberately we are concerned, the easier it is to fall into it, once I also felt that the loss of the person I loved, as if I had lost all the Mary Sue lines that I had scoffed at before, leaving her as if the world was black and white from now on What is the point of living without her, I will never meet my deep love again

    It's been 4 years since that breakup, and in retrospect, I don't think it's ridiculous, but I think that those are indeed beautiful, but they are only once.

    Dear, it's not that you can't forget, it's just obsession.

    When you meet the persistence that is worthy of your persistence, and find an existence that can make you full, full, and strong, you just have to wait.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think what happened after you, everything is a certainty, you see that although you were separated before, then there is still no key, sometimes the division is the union is the division, everything is thought out by people, because the heart has a thought, this thought has always existed, just like your best experience and you narrated, and then, you magnified the thought in your heart, thinking that because of her experience reminded me, otherwise I was calm before, and I will always see him, you will completely awaken the thought in your heart, in fact, everything has a fixed number, It's just that fate is not over yet, as for the result, it depends on how the heart works, don't be distressed, you have to go through it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Have you ever loved someone in your life to the core, and you are even willing to give your life for him, and you have never thought of separating from the very beginning of being together.

    But love is never smooth sailing, in the world of emotions, no one is a victorious general, we are addicted to emotional joy, and we are tormented by emotional trauma.

    Love is deep, hate is deep. When you encounter the betrayal of someone in your life who has given wholeheartedly, how will you come out of such emotional trauma?

    Is it hysteria, crying, or revenge, or is it in the shadows, and there is no way to get out?

    After experiencing emotional trauma, we can first sort out our own cognition.

    Many times, a setback is not a bad thing, it will make us clearly know what stage we are in now, recognize the people and things in front of us, and use a more tragic way to wake ourselves up completely.

    At this time, we need to look back on our emotional journey little by little, reorganize the gains and losses of this relationship, and try to get out of the hurt feelings.

    We can go on a trip to relax, we can communicate with friends and share our pain...After you've scolded, cried, drunk, gone crazy, and been in pain, wake up and it's a new day.

    Second, we need to shift our attention to ourselves.

    Love is a matter of two people, since we have chosen to separate, then we can use this rare single time to "replenish energy" for ourselves.

    In this process of falling in love, we have lost too much personal space and time, we have too many opportunities not to implement, think about it, how long have you not been alone? How long has it been since you've read a book carefully? Is there a little bit of progress between you now and your previous you?

    Think about your goals, your dreams, your plans, what your ideal relationship looks like, what your dream partner looks like, do you think you deserve to have such a dream or partner, and if not, do you deserve it after hard work? If you are worthy of the person who makes you sad, is that what you want right now?

    The energy in this world is conserved, and when you become good enough, there will naturally be better people to come to you.

    Finally, we need to reinvent our perceptions.

    Reshaping cognition is when we learn from our failures, and the sign of true maturity is not what you have experienced, but what you have learned from those experiences, which is your growth.

    Reinventing your emotional perception is the final step in truly getting out of emotional trauma, and it allows you to hold your head high, move forward gracefully, without any scruples.

    Some people don't have to care, and some things don't need to be pursued. People who have experienced major emotional suffering are very special people, and we should try to see ourselves, life, happiness, and suffering from a high and a distance.

    I hope you have gone through a lot of hardships and still believe in the existence of love.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Isn't love meant to be a strange thing? From the situation you described, it feels like you haven't completely let go of this guy yet. Love is when you don't see him, you have him in your head, and when you see him, you will be very happy.

    You ask yourself whether you should love him or not. If you still love him, I hope you can make it clear to him.

    Don't put yourself in such an awkward position. Even if he rejects you, it will make you completely dead, and this heart should not care about her anymore. If he thinks the same way as you, congratulations on being reconciled.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't love so humbly, if he really doesn't like you, there's no need to be obsessed with him anymore. There will definitely be better people coming out, and all you have to do now is make yourself better.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Look at this situation, you are just a spare tire in the eyes of others, quickly find someone who really loves you and enjoy the sweetness of love!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This is not surprising, it shows that you really loved at the beginning, and you can't forget your first love for a lifetime, let alone only a year.

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