I broke up with him, can t I be friends?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-13
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No matter how good things are, they will be lost one day. No matter how deep the memory is, there will be a day when it is forgotten. No matter how much you love, there will be a day when you will go away.

    No matter how beautiful the dream is, there will be a day when you wake up. What should be given up will not be retained. Never let go of what should be cherished, and you can't be friends after breaking up, because you have hurt each other!

    and not to be enemies, because they loved each other dearly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since the girl broke up, it means that you are not compatible, so why should you get too close? You are jealous because he is good, not jealous because you love him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You've just broken up, and it's a bit difficult to get him to be friends with you all at once, but you can take your time.

    You will be jealous and jealous, I think it is possible that you still have some feelings for him, after all, you are only separated!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This shows that you still like him, and most of the scores will not be able to be friends in the future. Personally, I think that no one likes anyone who can be friends after a breakup, or they all hate each other. Looking for a boyfriend and girlfriend just can't be found in the class, and it won't be easy to do after a breakup!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe you still like it, let it be, and after a long time, you may both let go and become friends again.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can still be friends after a breakup. Time will dilute everything.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe you still like him, so you can't be friends.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Are we still friends after a breakup? It's all an excuse.、Few people break up and can still be friends.,After all, we've loved each other deeply and hurt each other.、、、 then be the most familiar stranger.。。。

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

    A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

    But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

    The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

    The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

    Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

    Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

    Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

    But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

    If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    Just the most familiar strangers.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Dear landlord.

    Glad to analyze for you.

    I've had your problem before.

    Here's my own.

    Hope it can help the landlord.

    If two people are serious, they are really in love

    It is absolutely impossible to be friends after a breakup.

    If both of them are just having fun

    You may also be friends after the breakup

    You can't be friends because you've hurt each other, and you can't be enemies because you've loved each other!

    It is precisely because of the past vows that it can only be a stranger!

    Even if you are friends, you can't be a real friend anymore, and there is a separation in your heart...

    If two people have no feelings for each other because of time, maybe they can be friends in a superficial sense!

    If one party still has feelings, the party with feelings will want to continue to be friends, but in fact, even friends are spoiled

    And if couples break up due to contradictions, betrayals, etc., it will only be strangers!

    What if two people become friends?

    Look at the people you once loved

    And now you don't love each other anymore

    Once you are friends, how should you get along with each other, how should you deal with it, that may only remind you of your past.

    It only hurts more

    It's better to be a stranger

    Let time fade everything that once was

    Just let it be a rainbow in memory

    I wish you happiness

    The landlord is welcome to continue to ask.

    If my own.

    Please forgive me for any inaccuracies!

    Looking forward to your !

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