Now it s getting more and more unreasonable with my girlfriend

He also cares about you because he loves you and is afraid that you will go to those places.

You have to tell her that this is something that needs to be communicated.

If you think about each other from each other's point of view, the problem will be easily solved.

She's a bit vexatious, though.

Don't be angry, take your time.

Don't break up, you love each other, and you are now, but you've been together for a long time, so you'll have a quarrel, it's normal, but if you break up, you'll definitely regret it.

You can say this, call your friend home, so that she is not afraid that you will go out with him to fool around, and can ease the conflict, if you really care about her so much, talk to her patiently about your psychology! It's not good to be too face-saving with your own woman, and it's useless to regret it in the end!

If you've been with her for so many years, and she doesn't trust you, there's basically nothing to say.

But from another point of view, it's also for your good, but are you willing to look at it from this perspective for the rest of your life?

After all, it's a three-year relationship, and it doesn't matter who is right or wrong, there is no trouble, no husband and wife. Unless you want to let go of the relationship.

You two

If it doesn't work, divide it, and if you still feel it, you can continue to say that nothing else is useless

You're going to let her go!

Generally speaking, it depends on your actual problems, and if you feel that it is indeed inappropriate for you to be with the other party, then you should be rationally separated at this time. Avoid causing unnecessary troubles and misunderstandings, and if you are indeed happy with each other, then there is no need to listen to the opinions of others at this time, so you should stick to your own choices and think about problems from the following aspects.

1. For us, we should be more based on our actual situation, if we are indeed happy with our girlfriends, then we should firmly believe in our own choices at this time.

In fact, I am the first at this time, so it is precisely because of such a friend's opinion that it is just a suggestion, so there is no need to think so much. If you do feel that you are more suitable with your girlfriend, then this is the best choice, so there is no need to listen to other people's opinions.

2. If you have found that you and your girlfriend are really inappropriate, then you should think rationally about whether to leave each other at this time.

In fact, I have to say that it is more important to choose in combination with these circumstances. If you say that you and the other party are really inappropriate, then you should take into account your actual situation at this time, choose to leave, and be able to start a new life better, so you can do it according to your actual situation.

3. For us, only we know whether we are suitable or not, so because of this, we must understand whether we like each other or not.

In fact, I have to say that this love is indeed my own business, and it is precisely because of this that I have absolute control. If you really like each other, then you should stick to your choice at this time, and if you really hesitate or say that you don't like each other, then you should separate rationally at this time.

For us, we should make choices based on our actual situation at any time, don't care about the opinions of friends, and learn to respect our own ideas.

Don't have no backbone, whatever others say, people want to live with your girlfriend for the rest of their lives, whether it's good or not, whether it's suitable or not, you don't know, like this kind of person who has no backbone, if you get married in the future, you won't be happy, because what others say, you think about falling with the wind, this is not good.

True love is not something that can be expressed in words, it comes from the heart, falling in love with one.

Your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), hopefully.

Every minute counts.

to see him (her), not to see. Target.

Since so many people are prompting you, it's up to you to really scrutinize and evaluate your girlfriend. Let's see if it's true.

It's up to you to feel it, and only you know if it's good or not.

Why can't you do it, can't you look good?

About lies. Lies are divided into white lies and black lies: black refers to ill-intentioned, purposeful words, which are generally used for disguise and false exaggeration. The white lie is in the other party's considerations. The original intention of the girlfriend not to tell the truth is the focus of consideration.

It's about trust. Friends get along slowly, and friendship is mutual. There are often people who say "he's not very good, why should I do it", only if you keep paying for each other without expecting anything in return, and give a certain amount of time for the other party to find out how to adapt, the relationship can become a two-way street.

Time is an important test of people, give the other party a lasting heart, trust will naturally have, and you will be honest.

About willingness. Some people are paranoid and sensitive. With dignity and a high bottom line, it seems that it has become very difficult to confide. So, be considerate of other people's personalities, give them enough space, and go with the flow.

If you want to talk about it, if you don't want to talk about it, you won't have any troubles.

Finally, the ancients had a saying: the Tao is different, and it is not conspiratory. The same is true for feelings, the Tao is different and does not talk about feelings, because once you talk, there will inevitably be quarrels. If you don't tell the truth, maybe because you value you and don't want to lose you, you will settle for your own actions.

The above factors are all negative, please analyze them specifically.

It seems that I used to tell the truth, but now I don't tell the truth for a reason. Finding the cause is the only way to fix the problem.

As for the question of girlfriends, I believe that everyone will meet a few more or less.

We both used to be the kind of big spenders. Just after I graduated. The two of them can earn more than 10,000 yuan a month. But it's almost all spent every month.

In the end, I feel that I am earning less. I resigned. When we were both unemployed.

The habit of spending lavishly in the past is still continuing. Later we got a lot of credit cards in our class. I couldn't replace my credit card after I was overdrawn, and that's when I realized the seriousness of the problem.

It's not too late. I took her down the street. There are a lot of roadside dinners here in Xi'an, and I said that the two of us are okay now.

There is the ability to make money, but if we get married and have children by then, he is so young, if we are responsible. If he can't afford to raise him, will he be like these people who are begging for food here.

After that, he didn't talk to me for a few days, and finally he figured it out. The two of us slowly got rid of this habit.

The two of you are not suitable and do not belong to the same type of people. She lives freely, and you live realistically.

Another way to communicate, because he didn't think about it for a while, and many times he didn't think too much, that is to say, this girl is not very mature, a mature girl will consider the consequences before doing things, this is not something that can be changed overnight, and after a long time, he will change.

You two are not the same kind of people. She lives freely, and you live realistically. She is drunk three days today, and drunk today.

If you love her and like her, you have to do everything you can to adapt to today's society. For example, communicate with her calmly. She can also do her ideological work through her family's relatives and friends.

Gradually adapt her to today's society. If you can't get the harvest down, think about the work. You live together like this.

IMHO: life will not be happy either! How offensive!

Thank you for your understanding! One.

Divide it, I'm 17 years old, I'm working, I have a life plan, I have thought about what I want to do in the future, I want to work hard, buy a house and a car, she is not self-motivated, even if she gets married, she can only be a vase at home and can't do laundry and cooking.

Calm does not mean a cold war, and a quarrel shows that there are problems between the two sides, and if there are problems that need to be solved, once the cold war occurs, it may cause even worse consequences. Even if there is a cold war, it should not take too long, and it is better to solve the problem in a short time. After resolving the conflict, go and love her well, and keep giving love.

In fact, there is no more detailed solution to the Cold War to keep my girlfriend from getting angry. Just one, unconditionally and the same as what she said, recognition, praise is enough, appropriate encouragement.

It was only through her family and good friends that she was slowly convinced.

I feel that the two of you don't have the same views, so let's break up!

The three views are different, being together is torturing each other, and long pain is better than short pain.

Lack of communication It's good to have something to say.

If it doesn't make sense, you have to say it, move it with emotion, know it with reason!

Let's enlighten slowly, it should be fine after a long time.