What should I do if my boyfriend makes me feel uneasy? My boyfriend is always worried about me, what

Updated on parenting 2024-05-16
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Maybe it's because I came to you too often before, and you feel unaccustomed to this period of time, and feel as if he has no love for you.

    In fact, everything has a transition period.

    After the love is over, it will develop steadily.

    You should also give each other a little more personal space, sticking together all day long will only make each other tired and less mysterious! ~

    Occasional contact will be more cherished! ~

    It's destined that you can't run away, and if he wants to change his mind, it's useless for you to bother!

    Why not be yourself and have a clear conscience!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Change one. There is no grass at the end of the world.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It depends on your feelings, if you are still at the beginning, then evacuate quickly, there is no need for such insecure emotions to go down, if you have loved for a few years, then it is possible that you have no freshness for that man. If you want to continue, you have to change yourself and let him taste the new you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You go out and do it too.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I thought he would take the initiative to call him.

    I think you have to communicate well and explain the problem clearly.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your boyfriend doesn't trust you, so I think you should try a few things:

    1. Correct the mentality and communicate well The attitude often affects a person's mood, and the negative, negative, and extreme attitude will only make him more disgusted with you, so you need to change and become a positive, sunny, and positive attitude to help save love. Language is the bridge of human communication, and the quality of communication directly affects the quality of the relationship between the two people. Let's take a look at how many couples break up in real life due to poor communication, I believe this proportion must be not a few.

    2. Keep a little space Everyone wants to have their own private space, and they don't want their privacy to be known by others, and the same is true between boyfriends and girlfriends, in fact, he just wants to have his own private space, if you think about it from your boyfriend's standpoint, maybe you won't have such thoughts anymore.

    3. What men and women in love need most is mutual understanding and mutual trust, but it is also very important to be honest with each other. Honesty will not make both parties suspicious, can better maintain the relationship, men are the most disgusted women are vexatious, both sides put their thoughts face to face, rational solution to the problem is the best way to get along, it is best to confess when it is time to confess, do not be silent when it should be explained, so that after a long time will be misunderstood by the other party.

    4. Self-controlAfter you are clear about your own problems, you must try to make the other party forget your own bad points. Self-construction includes internal and external life circles, and after these have changed to a certain extent, the other party will feel that you are very different the next time they meet you, so that the other party thinks that your life is very exciting, and gives the other party a really happy feeling with you. A woman cannot lack attractiveness, and life must be lived to the fullest.

    Your image is also an important focus, you have to learn if you don't know how to dress and match, and your figure does not necessarily require graceful, but at least it must look healthy and feel fresh and not disgusting. Words and deeds should be generous and decent, reflecting dignified and elegant. You can also participate in more hobby activities to improve your temperament.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In this way, your boyfriend is really a vinegar jar, a little cautious, maybe he cares about you too much, he loves you too much, cares about you too much, so he will always suffer from gains and losses, and manage you to death, for fear that if he is not careful, you will be snatched away by others, for this relationship, you had better experience it with your heart, to feel, communicate well with him, be more patient and care for each other, understand and tolerate more, and cherish each other, cherish each other, cherish the fate between you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When you first fall in love, you can call a few** that is called caring, and after a long time, you can call a few** that is not at ease. Tell him he wants to wear a hat and you don't.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's possible that his ex-girlfriend broke up for one of these reasons, so he was afraid of losing you, and you may not give him a sense of security, he didn't let you contact your ex, and didn't let you chat with netizens of the opposite sex, but he didn't care about the opposite sex in his life, this is a normal idea of a man who loves you normally, but some men don't say it, he calls you ** You are talking to someone else, or you didn't answer, he asked who to talk to, or why don't you answer this It's also normal, maybe you are not too much than him, It's just that he is very good to you in addition to this matter, if you love him, you will empathize, if he contacts his ex, chats with netizens of the opposite sex, you give him a point** He doesn't answer or is on the phone, can you not care, only your own feet know if the shoes are not suitable, if you are uncomfortable to wear, why do you have to wear them, can the feet of the road not hurt for a lifetime, for reference.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This shows that your boyfriend loves you very much, so he is not at ease with you and is afraid that someone else will snatch you away. You should tell him that you love him and make him feel at ease with you and trust you. When you usually go shopping, take him with you.

    Let him accompany you shopping, and try to bring him with you when you go to events, so that he will trust you more. If he doesn't do this after getting married, he will be at ease with you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    He doesn't worry about you, how important you are in his heart, this is a careful and persistent person, someone loves the woman is the happiest person, you are the one, don't worry about him Everyone has a personal resume, just chat less with your male friends, no matter what and where you have to report it one by one in the future, it may also be the reason why he loves you too much and loves you, this is a normal good thing, I wish you happiness.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm trying to explain it to him. This situation is either that he loves you very much, or he doesn't love you anymore, and wants to find an excuse to break up with you, if the boy is very good, he won't doubt you much, you don't need to explain too much, the girl should have a little bit of her own temper, if he still doesn't believe you after the explanation, then just break up, otherwise there will be too many quarrels in the future, a person's life is so long, and he will definitely meet a lot of good people. All want a high quality of life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't want this kind of man! He is selfish, he thinks that if you talk to him about friends, you can't talk to other men more, what does he think, you are like getting along with other men, and now you are not married and jealous, I am sure that you will not have a good life in the future, either noisy, or beating, (I am such a person left), leave him, listen to me, hurry up and don't believe what I say, I am really good for you!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My boyfriend is always worried about me, what should I do? Your boyfriend is really a vinegar jar, saying that it is good is to care, and if it is not good, it is to be careful, two people get along with a minimum of trust, he does not trust you, and the other is that he himself has ideas in this regard, so he is always afraid of how you and the opposite sex, you have no basic trust, and you will not be happy in the future, and it is too tiring to get along with such a man. You will not be happy in the future, because his character cannot be changed.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's really not good, the boyfriend at home will give up, he's too careful, Mrs. That's ignoring you, you don't feel at ease, you don't worry, you know it's true, after getting married, he is even more here The women are not divorced, it's all you, I don't worry, people ask me, then if you wait until you get married, if you talk to friends, friends of the opposite sex or something, he is even more angry, that can shine on people. You don't deserve your deep friendship, she thinks she doesn't take you seriously, if he takes you seriously, he can understand what you do, he can rest assured, he doesn't understand this, he doesn't worry. A woman who drives with confidence is not worth your deep friendship.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Seeing your problem, I think your boyfriend is very possessive of you and does not allow you to contact the opposite sex, this is a kind of extremism and narrow-mindedness, your boyfriend is a selfish and narrow-minded person, such a person does not know how to respect his girlfriend, and his boyfriend's self-cultivation is not very good, I advise you to end this relationship! Although you are a little reluctant to give up the three-year relationship, the love your boyfriend gives you is only suffocation and pain, and it is better to end it early.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    He's the kind of person he is, he's very afraid of losing, sometimes paranoid, maybe a little extreme, and you have to feel it yourself. Such a person should not provoke him, maybe he will do something impulsively. If you don't like him doing this to you, you have to say it to him, and if he can't change it, and you don't like it either, there's no other way.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Your boyfriend is always worried about you, you feel like a burden, is it stressing you too much? Two people should be comfortable together, too depressed, feel that they can go on, then good, the two of them talk about their hearts, find the focus, improve together, have a good relationship, be comfortable and calm down, can't it? then break up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Your boyfriend's jealousy with a brochure shows that he loves you very much, and is a little careful to sleep, no one is perfect, and it is not easy to meet someone who loves him. In the future, you should try to reduce contact with the opposite sex, give him a sense of safety, and spend more time with him, and slowly he will not be at ease.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This kind of man is too possessive, on the surface he loves his girlfriend or wife too much, and is easy to be jealous, etc., but in fact, he is selfish, buried in his ability, and unconfident, for fear that he will be abandoned and embarrassed! If the possessiveness is too strong, it is easy to go to extremes and brew tragedy! So you should communicate with him more, enlighten him, care more about him, guide him to look at love correctly, and give each other personal space!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    After getting married, it must be like this, he can't change it, and it will even be even more powerful than now, it's a bit of a pity for your relationship, you have to be cautious and think about it, the family can't live with him for a lifetime, or you have lived with him for a lifetime, if you can not have contact with any man after you get married, then you can consider this relationship, and secondly, you may not be happy when you get married.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It seems that your boyfriend cares about you very much and loves you very much, however, he is not confident enough to pay the rent and is afraid of losing you, so he acts a little neurotic and does not like you to touch any man. If you really love him, don't care too much, this kind of mentality, a hole and a sign, after getting married, it will be fine, you really become his person, he will not be so sensitive, in front of such a husband, you have to be cautious, keep the woman's way, and live in harmony.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You don't think you can stand the concealment, do you? If you can't make trouble, you will divide it! Don't be so tired, feast to leave space and distance between each other!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The behavior of your boyfriend you said, although it means that he likes you very much and loves you very much, but even if you fight after marriage, you have to leave some space for each other to live easily, if the desire to control is so strong, there will be a lot of contradictions, and you are very tired, you have a good talk, and then look at his performance, if he still can't change. I think it's better for your regiment to be separated, because marriage is very important for men. After getting married, it is found that two people are not suitable, and then divorced, which hurts the woman the most.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Respect your truest feelings. From your description, it can be seen that your boyfriend is a very controlling person.

    If you don't receive something, you have to ask clearly when you go home, people have to work if you want to live, and it is impossible to hold ** in your hand all the time, which is enough to show that he is a person with a strong desire to control. The second is that he is a selfish person. You are not allowed to associate with any man, and any group of people has their own independent private space, and no one is an attachment to anyone, which shows that in his heart he controls you as if you were his personal belongings.

    Third, he doesn't trust you much. From your description, you can see that he is insecure and a sign that he does not trust you. In short, you have to respect your truest feelings in this matter, you may be tired, and you may also enjoy his selfishness.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    And he is always worried about you, because he loves you very much. You have to give him a good hail and a good release, so that he can rest assured. Don't blindly be with him and have conflicts. Because he doesn't worry about this, you just care about you. Be sure to understand each other.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    can only say that you are too good, it can be said that he has a sense of security, that is, the two of you. Whether it is your excellence or your beauty, he has a lot of gains and losses. So you need to communicate with each other for a long time.

    Communicate with each other and let him know how much you love him.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Generally speaking, this is a psychological problem, and the cause may be related to the environment in daily life and one's own personality and behavioral factors. It is necessary to pay attention to maintaining a good attitude and self-regulation and inhibition. If the symptoms are severe and cannot be relieved by self-regulation, it is recommended to consult a psychologist in person.

    I hope it helps you and I wish you good health!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Although he is excellent, he takes good care of you in all aspects. But the possessiveness is very strong, which means that you care about the opposite sex before you.

    He is like this to you, which means that he wants to enter the marriage hall with you, but it interferes with your life too much, and it makes you very tired. Love needs some distance and space to make each other's feelings better.

    You can talk to him and let him understand this, after all, there are not many people who can meet someone who is really good to him.

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