Why is it so beautiful when you are in love, but when you get married, you go to the grave?

There is no doubt that aesthetic fatigue and the two have been together for a long time. Over time, they learned everything about each other, and their curiosity was taken away by time. The relationship has become very flat, and the two can't be together except for work and other factors on weekdays, and they are physically and mentally tired, so they can't take care of a lot.

In the end, the plain becomes a tombstone, and you and he are the grave behind the tombstone!

Wouldn't it be nice to coax her.

Because distance produces beauty!

This is different from person to person, if you find a husband who can tolerate you, love you, and have a good temper, then married life will be another happy beginning for you, marriage is to know how to manage, just like love, it also needs to be managed, don't be afraid of marriage, face it with full enthusiasm.

Because there is a difference between a lover and a lifelong partner, for example: Lin Daiyu can be Baoyu's lover, but if she finds a wife to marry, she may not be suitable for Baochai. What you said is only suitable for when the lover is not suitable for a partner, maybe you know how to be in love, but marriage is not and cannot be maintained by romance, you don't need two people to love each other at first sight, what you need is two people who have the same temper, get along with each other, and be in the same boat through thick and thin.

Also, after a long time, it's inevitable that you will get tired of something.

Because you are carried away by love when you are in love, how can you care about anything else, and at that time you each spent your own money, but marriage is equivalent to eating together, supporting the family, and coaxing the wife, the man's personality will change, after all, the pressure is great, at this time, if the wife still has to use the method when in love, it is useless, your husband will not accompany you every day, otherwise who earns the money, you can't wait for the whole family to starve to death, no matter how vigorous love is, it will be dull after marriage, otherwise you want to be in love like that every day to make a little temper and coquettish, It's not going to be a good day, is it?

Falling in love is a matter of two people, you don't have to think about it so much, just be happy together, and marriage is a matter of two families, and you need to be responsible for both parents, as well as your own family.

When we are in love, we can not consider other factors, as long as two people are happy together, we don't have to think too much about money when we are in love, we don't have to think too much about money, we just live in the moment, we are happy, we have fun when we have money, and the pressure of not having money is much less than that after marriage.

Compared with marriage, love can be said to not have too much sense of responsibility, it is completely by virtue of a good impression of each other, as long as you are happy, your own comfort is better than everything, and marriage is different, after marriage, each other must have a certain sense of responsibility, not like when you are in love.

Marriage can be seen as an upgraded version of love, but why do some people just choose to fall in love and are unwilling to get married, maybe the reason why they only choose to be in love and not want to get married is because they are unwilling to take responsibility, just to pursue the good feeling when they are in love, they pursue more feelings, and are not willing to pay more for this relationship, which is also the saying "Falling in love for the purpose of marriage is playing hooligan".

A marriage that can be built on the basis of love is a little better than a marriage that has no love foundation at all, after all, two people used to be familiar with each other, but they just need to abandon some of the more illusions and take on more responsibility. It can't be said that a marriage without a love foundation will not be happy, as long as two people have a common life goal with each other after marriage, they will also have feelings due to common struggle, which may be more stable than the feelings during the relationship, because this relationship is produced after two people continue to run in their lives together.

Hello! After getting married, I feel that your living conditions, so it is actually normal to smile in a respectful way, and love is originally like this, so it is also very normal to travel to the grave of love.

The difference between falling in love and getting married.

Differences in relationships:

1.Falling in love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families.

2. The difference in responsibility: If you are not satisfied with love, you can separate at any time, and if you get married, you must be responsible for the other party or even the other party's family, and you can't get out easily.

3. Sensory differences: Love focuses on wind and snow, and marriage focuses on firewood, rice, oil and salt.

4. Psychological difference: Falling in love is slowly taking the initiative to add points to each other, and marriage is slowly due to the influence of various factors of the other party.

1. Differences in relationships.

Falling in love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families. Love pays more attention to the mode of getting along with two people, and after marriage, in addition to taking care of the relationship between two people, it is also necessary to take into account the partner's family.

2. Differences in responsibility.

When you are in love, you may feel that as long as it doesn't feel right, just tell the other person to break up. If you enter into marriage, then you have the responsibility to be responsible for the other party, and even to the other party's family. Therefore, love can be as you like, but marriage is more about heart.

3. Sensory differences.

Love focuses on wind and snow, and marriage focuses on firewood, rice, oil and salt. Love is to share sweetness, romance, and beauty, and marriage is to share everything, including suffering, responsibility, and pain, it is an agreement, a commitment.

4. Psychological differences.

Falling in love is a slow plus, and getting married is a slow minus. When you fall in love, you have to have feelings for each other, so you won't be too serious in all aspects, and even take the initiative to find the shining points in the other party. But if you get married, you naturally have to accept everything about the other party in an all-round way, including the shortcomings of the other party, the other party's family, etc., and in the process, you may wear down your love for your partner.

Only by making such psychological preparations can you enter the palace of marriage.

Because when it comes to marriage, all kinds of trivial things in life will wear out love, so there is this saying.