My boyfriend has a boring personality and I think life is boring, what should I do?

First of all, I want to hug you and feel sorry for you for three seconds (covering my face).

There are three questions you have to ask yourself. 1 is why you want to be with your boyfriend; 2. What do you like about him, or what qualities you admire about the other person; 3. Do you know that he is this kind of character, and you can accept it and live together for decades?

If you figure out these three questions, then you will find ways to improve the status quo instead of complaining that life is boring. Life itself is very boring and boring, but it is our thoughts and actions that give life a colorful life. Personality has begun to form slowly since childhood, and cannot be changed temporarily (unless there is an accident in the later stage and psychological trauma.)

Therefore, it is very difficult for us to change his personality, and we can only guide him to the channel we want.

My boyfriend is also a person with a boring personality, and he doesn't like to talk much in life, and he never says a word about what he can express with expressions and gestures. For example, when I finally have time to go for a walk together, I am very happy, I am the kind of person who will say a lot to the person I like, I will say a lot to him, but he will show no reaction at all, often make me feel that he is not listening to me at all or not understanding what I say, and after a while he will slowly nod his head to respond to me. Oh my God, what can I do, I'm also desperate (begging for the shadow area in my heart) This kind of slow half-beat response will make me feel like he doesn't care about me at all, doesn't love me, and without me in his heart, he will be so depressed in his heart, very distressed, and sometimes feel wronged.

In fact, he understands it in his heart, but his personality is like this, he is more boring, and he doesn't like to talk much. At first, I would hold it in my heart and not say it, but the other party didn't find out my inner drama at all, and when I found out that I didn't say it, I would be aggrieved and I would open it directly, and then he would say "What's wrong with you?" Wasn't it good just now?

Suddenly opened, I was happy, but I was always late and ...... was not guaranteed"When I meet such a boyfriend, I really want to hit myself on the head with an egg.........

Yes, that's right, it's just to open up, I found this method to be really effective, and the result of open scare is that it will collide with different sparks, and it will spew out a lot of very funny golden sentences. Seeing each other in the midst of the fight has caused a lot of interesting things between you.

In fact, in addition to finding a way to let two people interact, you can also leave more time for yourself to enrich your life is the last word. Increase your hobbies, instead of centering on your boyfriend and not have your own life. Make your own decisions about your own life, not be attached to others.

Hey, it's really boring for a woman to have a boring personality, but you can't blame them for this problem, because all of this is our own choice.

There will be a lot of people like this kind of boy, but when you say you don't like him, I have to ask, why are you with her, what were you thinking before you were with him, and now your life is boring.

I think if you think life is boring, it's definitely not because of one person, it's definitely because both people have problems, if one person is very playful. If you are very good at amusing others, then their lives will be very happy. <>

If you think he's boring, you can tease her often, make him happy, first of all, we should do more things they like, no matter how boring people will have their own favorite things.

So you can communicate with him more, get to know him, know what he likes. Then you often take him to do it, he does it for a long time, he is happy every day, he will naturally like to laugh, and he will also make himself or the people around him laugh.

So here's the reason why they're bored, they don't know the joy of being happy, they only know the life of a sad face every day, so they behave very boring.

There is also the fact that we have to come to their minds every day, they don't know that entertainment will definitely have other things to do, we should add some new fun to their lives, and we can't let them get stuck in their own boring lives every day.

Therefore, no matter what problems arise in the lives of two people, we must think of the right way to solve them. You can't give up when you encounter difficulties, you can make happiness if you are not happy.

Then transform his character, make him less dull, and make the life of the two of you more harmonious and loving, this is the best way, because you are a couple, you are lovers, you are a couple, you can carry out intimate actions, the closest person in this world except for your parents, so you can change each other, ask for each other, this is the way you run in with each other, and it is also the way you get along with each other, This is also the best way to keep the relationship between you going for a long time.

And between boyfriend and girlfriend, there should be almost nothing to say, there should be no estrangement between you, there should be no secrets between you, and in the same way, there should be no such differences. Because even if you really don't have the right personality and you're already together, you can change each other. You are his girlfriend and you have the right to go and ask him for this.

So what you like, you let your boyfriend also get in touch with what, I know there is a very interesting software, called the far right, is the mobile phone software, you can recommend it to your boyfriend, I believe he will be able to become interesting and cheerful after entering this software. Of course, you also have to enter this software, and you can exchange interesting information with your boyfriend from time to time, so that it will be a lot more fun and common language. The so-called boredom of life is nothing more than having no common language and no common hobbies.

You can also invite your boyfriend to hang out more, although he doesn't talk much, he doesn't talk much, but he goes out, and he will accompany you and spoil you, right? So as long as you go out and play more, then he has to talk to you, talk to you, share everything with you, and there will be more chats between you

Then you can only say that this boyfriend is not for you. If he can't give you enough happiness, or you can't give her enough happiness, then it means that you are not suitable for each other. Falling in love itself is also for a happy life, and if you both don't get along happily, then I don't understand what your original intention is to be together.

Indeed, if the boyfriend's personality is relatively dull, the atmosphere between the two people together is also relatively dull, and there is a serious smell in the air. In addition, if your personality is more quiet, then you are really a quiet combination together. Even if your personality is more cheerful, you are a girl after all, if you are often asked to drive your boyfriend's activity, you will feel very tired.

People live in this world to live happily, so why do you need to do something that makes you unhappy. Replace him happily, although sometimes he is more lonely alone, but there is also joy in a person, and there is no need to lose the fun because of an irrelevant person. To put it mildly, I don't think you will last long.

Because from an outsider's point of view, he doesn't like you as much as you think. There used to be a boy who liked me, so I understand that when a boy likes a girl, he will create a lot of conversations, and even he is a chatter, not to mention whether he will be like this in the later stage, at least he will be a chatter in the early stage, he will not make you feel bored, let alone make you feel bored in life, he has to create happiness for you, otherwise he is afraid that you will leave, and now he seems to be very confident in you, thinking that you will not leave him, so he slowly reveals his true colors, So you have to feel for yourself whether his heart is still with you!

If your boyfriend's personality is very dull, then there are only two simple ways, first, your boyfriend may not like it anymore, there is no common topic between the two people, then there is only a breakup, this is just my idea I may do this, I myself am a quiet girl, if he is silent, I think there is no more basic communication between the two of us, only to end the relationship, and the cheerful boy in my impression is diametrically opposite, If you want a boyfriend who can change you, it's not static, so it may not be suitable.

Second, if you love your boyfriend very much, although you feel bored but don't want to break up, you have to communicate with him well, and you must form your own independent behavior in your life, for example, when the two of you eat together, you must not play with your mobile phone, you can talk to each other about what happened to you today, what is happy or unhappy, you have to share it with him, to enhance the relationship with him, sometimes everyone does not speak, often snuggle together, talk to each other about the future in the future, You can also take advantage of the current plan to talk about how you feel after going out to eat or watching a movie, in fact, two people have been together for a long time, and they only need one look from each other to understand what it means. <>

At the beginning of a relationship, it is still based on the fact that the two like each other, but there is no initial freshness, this is an extremely wonderful feeling, you have to overcome it yourself, no couple does not go through the run-in period, when you find his shortcomings, you should learn to accept and live well.

Everyone has their own personality and sometimes we really can't change anything, but I really feel that my life is fought for and created by myself. If your boyfriend has a boring personality, there are many ways to make him change.

For example, you can go out for a walk together and see the scenery. This will not only make his personality change, but also add more fun to each other's lives. It's fun to go out and see the scenery, and it's something that can enrich your life.

I feel like two people can have more things to do together together and can have better each other. If your boyfriend has a boring personality, you can take him out to play, although he may be a little unhappy, but I think two people need to have time to go out together, and they also need to have time to enjoy the happiness of such a time.

In addition, I think if I am bored, I can find something I like to do, such as embroidery, raising flowers, or practicing yoga. I like it all, in fact, the life of two people needs two people to create together, and it takes two people to work together. If you have a lively and cheerful personality, you can completely drive your boyfriend to accompany him to go shopping, practice yoga with him, or watch movies together or something like that.

Let your personality also affect his character, make him more lively, not boring all the time, such a life will indeed be boring.

And I think you can go with him to see friends, go out to a party or something. Don't stay in your dorm all the time, or go out to play ball or something like that. Two people need to live together, no more than when they are alone, they can live how they want, two people should think about each other and think about each other when they are together.

Even more so as a boyfriend. It's always good to hang out together and get together with friends. I don't feel like life is getting boring.

You can find something else to do. You're not in a relationship to relieve boredom, right? If yes, then I have nothing more to say.

In that case, let's change my boyfriend. And if not. Then you can have some other fun, and you don't have to have a boyfriend with you.

There are still so many things to do in life.

In fact, the boy's personality is boring, which is really distressing. In ancient times, it was the type of relentless style. It's also tiring to associate with such people.

Because maybe you tell a joke in the past, and others are at a loss. Or maybe you're laughing and people are looking at you strangely. And say, what are you laughing at there?

And then I'm going to give you a set of theories to tell you that there's nothing funny about it. That's when you're embarrassed.

I have a friend who has a Master of Science. In our daily interactions, I feel that his thinking seems to be a little different from ours. When a group of us were talking and laughing together, he could always say something that he thought made sense, but it was very disturbing.

I can't help but wonder, are all highly intelligent people like this? So I know how difficult it is for such people to get along.

And your boyfriend seems to belong to this type. And with them, you never seem to know what he will say next. Or maybe you never know what's going on in his heart.

Sometimes you may feel that she doesn't understand you. He doesn't understand your humor. In fact, maybe that's just his character.

You can also not look for fun in him. Go do something that interests you. That way it won't feel so boring.