What should I do if I lose my best friend s important things and she can t get out?

Then this thing must be very important to him, or have some kind of commemorative significance. I think as a good friend, he must actually want to forgive you very much, but because the loss of this thing is irretrievable, he feels very sorry, and there will be a pimple in his heart.

I can't solve it.

At this time, the only way to do this is to use the power of time. You just have to be by his side and share all his joys, sorrows, and sorrows. After a long time, that regret will be slowly diluted.

This shows that your actions have really hurt your good friend. All you can do is try your best to make amends, see if there is a chance to remedy the situation, and at the same time express your apologies and sincerely express your apologies to him. During this time, spend more time with him, treat him to a meal, as the saying goes, there is nothing that cannot be solved by a meal, do everything you can.

If you lose your best friend's important things, she must be very sad and can't get out for a while, which is normal. It's better for you to go out with her for a walk, and give her another piece of compensation for this most important thing. If you really can't compensate for it, just take something similar to compensate her.

If the most important thing is a love, and you lose it, and you probably can't get it back, then find her a new soulful lover. If this important thing is a gift, then ask the person who gave her the gift to give her another one. I believe that as long as you do your best, your friend should understand and she will forgive you.

If I lose my best friend's very important thing and she can't get out, I will be very guilty and anxious, because this thing must be of great significance to my friend, and I will do my best to make up for it and sincerely apologize, and look for this thing or see if there is any way to make up for it!

She can't blame you for her best friend, so she must feel very uncomfortable, and you have to constantly comfort her.

Buy her a gift she likes, divert her attention and compensate her.

Promise her one condition, any condition, and you will still be good friends when she comes out.

First of all, I will express my guilt to my friend, because this is the most important thing for a friend, and it means a lot to her.

Secondly, I will try to make up for it, and if the object is a concrete object, then I will see if I can buy something similar in appearance. If it's something that has a deep meaning, such as a peace charm to pray for, then I'll go back and pray with her again.

In such a situation, a good friend will definitely be very angry and sad, knowledge hindered by the friend's feelings are sometimes not good, can only bear it silently, in case it causes her to be very troubled, what should I do at this time?

1. Sincerely apologize to your good friends, whether you accept it or not, you must do so;

2. Hurry up and go to the places you have walked to find them, and try everything possible and hard;

3. Make up for what you have lost, for example, if it is a souvenir sent by someone, then contact this person and let him enlighten, if it is valuable, then you can only buy an identical or similar one to compensate for acrobatics, so as to minimize the loss to your good friend!

When we encounter this situation, we must remain calm, otherwise it will only be a mess.

1. Go to the places you have walked to look for them, and maybe you will find the things you lost.

2. Comfort and comfort friends, don't care too much about this gift, since it's gone, don't be sad, regulate your emotions, and live your future life well.

3. We can also find a friend who gives him a gift, and let him enlighten him, maybe the effect is better than himself.

Friendship and love are the same as hunger, the feelings in love, the feelings towards the best friends, will make people fall into it. Relationship problems are really a problem that everyone will encounter. I love you not only for love, but also for friendship.

There is no banquet in the world that will not be dissolved, no matter how sweet love is, there will be a day when the friendship in the iron will encounter friction, encounter the bumps in the road of time, and the boat that will continue to be friendly after the pass, but sometimes the small bed will be overturned because of a huge wave. Losing your best friend feels no less than losing the man you love deeply, the same pain, the same helplessness, as if half the sky is about to fall, and the world is against you.

People have the most comfortable distance, it is said to be 45 centimeters. Around this distance, a more ideal distance and balance can be found. The same goes for friends.

Things like friends, it is difficult to communicate without paying, and every conflict, a good grasp can make you understand each other better. When you both figure out each other's comfort zone, then you will be comfortable and happy together. Don't blindly feel why you have paid so much, the other party may not feel it at all, first know what the other party wants.

A victim like you will scare your friends away. Moreover, your efforts may be a burden to your friends.

Distinguishing between others and oneself is the foundation of life. If you don't understand this, any friendship will be ruined. Even close friends must keep a certain distance.

As the so-called gentleman's friendship is as light as water. Have you seen the rivers and lakes, the so-called bosom friends, they don't need to be together every day, it is enough to be able to get together and play and sing a song.

From the subject himself: Is your concern really a concern? In other words, this is Dan's concern, and it is a concern for return.

In fact, the subject's kindness is subconsciously reciprocated, and this return is emotional. Therefore, the main question is to understand that for friends, kindness should be moderate, and it should be within the scope of others' "bearing".

On the other hand, understand that kindness does not necessarily pay off. Kindness regardless of reciprocation will make it a lot easier for both parties. A friend is a friend, don't think of yourself as his parent, don't always think about correcting other people's behavior, don't look for the feeling that you are great, if you say in the name of true love that his parents will only tell him, I guarantee that your friendship will be over.

In a word, agree more, support more, be happy together if you can be happy, and don't raise the bar together if you can. My advice is to try to make some other friends and you will find yourself naturally distracted from this person. You and your best friend will still be good friends, but your distance will be adjusted to a position that is comfortable for both of you.

Don't pay special attention to your friends, but also care about your own feelings, don't be too accommodating to each other when facing friends, but also put forward your own opinions and express your own ideas, so as not to lose yourself.

Re-examine your relationship, put your mindset right, no matter when or for what reason, you should not lose yourself, regain your bottom line, self-confidence, and adjust your state.

In such a situation, I think we should adjust our mentality, and at the same time, we should find ourselves, don't lose ourselves, we should think about ourselves, and then we should also put more time and energy on ourselves, divert our attention, and constantly improve our abilities to make ourselves better.

You can jump out of your comfort zone, cultivate your ability to make friends, cultivate your communication skills, expand your circle of friends, and develop your own personal relationships.

You should find your own direction, plan for yourself, expand your network, expand your range of friends, and break the previous way of making friends.

The reason why you can become friends is because you are your friend and you also fancy the uniqueness of yourself, so you are friends, if you lose yourself for the sake of friends, then it is not the real you, it also loses the meaning of you making friends, so you must insist on being yourself, don't change for anyone.

It's a good thing to value your friends too much, but you must not lose yourself, if you lose yourself, no matter what you do, you have to be very passive.

Now I value my friends too much, and I have lost too few of them. I don't think there's a good solution, is it just to learn knowledge?

Because it doesn't matter if those former good friends go to **. Growing up is a process of constantly swimming forward and losing friends. The wrong people will get separated sooner or later, and the right people will never leave.

Some people have a strong relationship, and they break off at the end, and most of them silently withdraw from the lives of others, just like supporting characters on the stage, there is no curtain call, and they quietly end the stage while the light is dim. Many people have had such a little sun, one day after it sets, it never rises, at first they will not be used to such darkness, and then comfort themselves that it doesn't matter, everyone has their own life, to be their own sun, isn't it? People often say, "She's my ex-wife." , he's my ex-boyfriend. It seems that the addition of the word "former" draws a clear line. But few people have heard it:

He's a former friend of mine. "This kind of relationship is not as natural as blood relations, but it gives people the illusion of once and for all: as long as they are friends, they will not expire, unless they can be deliberately destroyed, otherwise the reed rock is generally unshakable.

It's not that friends aren't precious, and it's not that we don't need to cherish them, it's just that we often mistake some people who are "close" in space for a "fit" in their hearts. Let all relationships go with the flow, let all encounters have a good feast, and don't care about tomorrow's end of the world and strange roads. In fact, no one has ever gotten anyone, let alone lost anyone.

It's a big deal that after many years, we get to know each other again.

In my memory, I remember when I was in high school, I had a good relationship with my table mates, and then because of something, it led to a cold war, and I felt that the cold war was a particularly bad thing, and neither of them would bow to the other, and finally led to the loss of their very good friends.

I have a friend Xiaoling who has been playing since I was a child, and our two families have lived opposite each other since we were children, so good that every weekend and holiday, we all stay together, and we don't want to go home, just like the two of us are twins.

It's a pity that my family changed later, after my father died, the family situation became worse and worse, and most of us chatted together, she comforted me, and the topic was a lot more sad, and there was nothing happy anymore.

Later, when I was admitted to school in another place, she failed the exam, and when she saw me again, she seemed to be inferior, and we talked less and less. After two years, she was admitted to the same school as me, but our relationship was not as good as before.

After work, we actually fell out of harmony and became strangers ......Thinking about the past, I think that maybe the two people are different in nature, plus their respective mothers are different education styles, so that she has a low self-esteem when she first came into contact with me, and she is very good with me on the surface, but she is hostile to me in the bones, after my father died, the family changed, I fell to the bottom, her life seemed to rise, our status changed, and the boat of friendship capsized.

I have a good buddy who is my neighbor, who grew up playing with mud together, walking together in school, fighting together, and contributing a lot of happiness to each other's childhood.

Now that we've grown up and become corpses in each other's address books, we can't remember the last time we were in touch.

It may be that we have all grown up and have our own life circles, plus we are far away from each other, and we forget to call each other a ** when we get busy, this ** will not want to play for a long time, and now, I am not sure if he can still play through the ** many years ago.

The reason for the drift away from good friends is that we have gone from seeing each other a few times a month at the beginning to seeing each other a few times a year now. From the beginning of nothing to talk about now, to the current polite greetings.

I remember when I just graduated from high school, we made an appointment to go to college, so we must keep in touch, and it is best to message each other every day.

But the days of college are so exciting, there are endless studies, there are wonderful activities, and I always forget to send her a message.

Over time, she felt that I had neglected her, so she didn't pay much attention to me. Later, she found a boyfriend, and the focus of her life was on her boyfriend, and the less we contacted him.

When I realized that I hadn't been in touch with her for a long time, I realized that I seemed to have lost her.

In about half a year or so, the relationship is a lot colder, but I will say hello in one or two months. And just like that, our relationship grew colder and colder.

In high school, I met a very good friend of mine, but after the college entrance examination, we rarely had contact, we applied for universities in different regions, the distance is that we have less and less contact, and the way we live and the circle of friends have changed a lot, we have less and less topics to talk about, and we are becoming more and more strangers to each other, knowing a high school reunion, I found out that he has become a stranger I don't know.