What to do if you don t like to talk! What to do if you can t chat!

It's not a good thing to talk a lot, and it's not a bad thing to talk less. It's all about character, and it won't be about guts, for example, like me, I usually like to talk, but I'm very timid, I don't dare to go to the bathroom alone at night, I usually like to talk, and colleagues often say that you talk so much, can you shut up. If you feel like you don't have anything to say with someone, then you need to see who they are, whether they are in business or friends in your life circle.

How well you know each other? If you just got to know you, you are more introverted and don't like to talk, it's normal. If you have known each other for a long time, it depends on whether your friends are worth making and if they are worth befriending, you will definitely value them very much, and you will quickly find a common language in communication.

But now relationships are important and have a great impact on your life, if you really don't like to say it, give them a smile more, let them feel your inner enthusiasm, and you can do more for them, and over time they will understand you. That means a lot of things are based on the problem. The purpose of making friends is to be able to make close friends, to be able to extend a warm hand when it is difficult, and to enjoy happiness together.

If your friend has something to do, you can do your best to help, comfort and enlighten him when he is sad, and you will have it.

You will ask this question to indicate that you may be having some problems right now because you are not very talkative.

Speak up when you feel like it's time to speak, and don't force yourself to say it if there's nothing to say.

If you want to make some friends, I recommend expanding your interests For example, boys may like F1 and basketball; Girls may like movies, best-sellers, etc.

Don't feel like you have nothing to say to other people, maybe you think so.

Try to talk to others about some topics you like, even if you feel a little secret, it doesn't matter if others don't like it, and if you want to find like-minded friends, you are not afraid of being ridiculed

If you don't like to talk, you have to open your mouth more. Don't be afraid to be wrong. Who doesn't make a few mistakes. If you talk too much, it will be fine. Naturally.

I'm the same as you, I'm changing.

So I hope you change it too.

Let's work together!

I'm just like you.

But I think I have to say it when I need to.

Teach you a way to watch this kind of sketch TV if it's okay.

Talk to the people around you when you're okay and don't care if you like it or not.

Say it a long time, and you can feel that you're changing.

This is your character, you have nothing to say more to strangers, communicate more with others, and it will be fine! How old are you?

Maybe it's because you're too young.

You have to say it when you have to say it

In this society, communicating with people is a necessary rule of survival, so be sure to find opportunities to train yourself.

It's not your fault that you don't like to talk in the first place, it may have something to do with your personality. If you are an introvert, you may not be able to express your opinions well, which will cause misunderstanding to some extent. You may not have meant it, but the misunderstanding has arisen.

At this point, you may feel uncomfortable and you may blame yourself. If that's the case, please think about it. It is advisable to make some more outgoing friends who will allow you to change the situation gradually.

I don't have anything to say to others. Explain that you and they do not have a common language, and you also have different interests and hobbies. Try to find like-minded people. Then there will be a common language.

If you don't like to talk or don't want to talk, it's because you don't take it seriously when you talk to others, and you don't pay attention to the other person; Sometimes it's not a big deal for several people to chat together, just say what you want, don't be afraid of saying something wrong, or afraid of hurting others, and try to get rid of self-repression. If you don't want to talk, it can only be said that you are more introverted, and you will contact and chat with those extroverts more, and before you know it, you will find that your desire to talk will be strong.

Modern society requires us to be able to speak, to be able to speak, if you don't say or embarrassed to say it will be a barrier to your development, work hard! Try to change yourself! Believe in yourself! I'm sure you'll make it!!

I'm also a person who doesn't like to talk much, but I know that not talking can affect relationships, really, and it will have a big impact, if you want to change it is not so easy, you can try to make some people who like to communicate as your friends, so that you can be affected to a certain extent. Is it red that is close to Zhu, and black who is close to ink.

The key is to enrich one's own connotation, read more books, etc., people with connotation and thought will not have such problems.

Listening is actually an art, usually when talking to others, listen attentively, after a long time, you will find that in fact, there are still common topics with others, language is a science, not can be clearly said in a few words.

It's okay, it's more important to know how to listen than to know how to speak.

Don't take not being able to chat as a trivial matter. Not being able to speak is a big problem for professionals, not only affecting promotions, but also affecting getting along with colleagues, so how can you learn to speak?

1. Slow down your speech. When you speak, it's better to speak slower than to be unproductive, try to let the other person understand what you are going to say, don't rush to say it all at once, speak slowly.

2. Don't try to express too much at once. The communication between people is one sentence from you and one sentence from me, and if you say too much at once, the other party can't accept it.

3. Talk to prudent people. When you can't speak, then communicate with others more, when you go grocery shopping, you can talk to the aunt who sells vegetables, when you go to dinner, talk to the boss, try to give yourself the opportunity to speak, and you can talk to anyone, and you will find that it is not so difficult to talk too much.

4. Listen to others. There must be that kind of person among your friends who can speak very well, you can pay more attention to how he talks to others, you don't have to learn all of them, only learn what is useful to you, some people may be more humorous, that one is more difficult to learn, you can learn how he talks to others with bad words, this kind of person is generally more active, can mobilize the atmosphere, and is easy to get along with people.

5. Don't be afraid. I can't speak, there is a very important reason, that is, I am worried that the other party does not like to listen to what I say, or I will be ridiculed if I say that I am wrong, this is a manifestation of no self-confidence, it is not terrible to make mistakes, but it is terrible to make mistakes and not know how to change, and life is a process of continuous progress and growth.

6. Have a good mentality. Speaking is a small thing in life, don't take it too seriously, don't be too entangled, relax, change normally, just learn, the more tangled you are, the more bad it is, it's better to relax. It may be that you are in a hurry to communicate with friends, it may be that you do bad things with good intentions, or it may be that you are not very expressive and you can't really make small talk with others.

Small talk is also a great way to communicate with others. It doesn't matter, learn some chat skills, as long as you really respect others and communicate with others with a good attitude, learning to chat is also very simple.

First of all, please believe me, I am also an introverted and cheerful person. Here are some suggestions that I hope will help you.

1. Establish self-confidence and tell yourself that no one is born to speak in public, there is nothing to be afraid of losing face, those who laugh at you are stupid, and wise people will not laugh at others.

2. When preparing to talk to others, first think about what you want to express, whether to express your emotions or concern for others, what kind of way to express it, whether it is an exaggerated expression, a humorous expression, or a simple expression.

3. When expressing, be careful not to be nervous, you must know that everyone else is listening to you, so you are the protagonist, don't be nervous. Of course, it doesn't matter if you're nervous, because no one starts out speaking without being nervous.

Please believe in yourself, don't lose face, tell yourself that you are unique in the world, so you are great, so you should talk more to express your feelings and thoughts and concern for others. Hopefully, my advice will help you a little bit in your future life. Thank you ha!

Go to a place full of strangers by yourself. Communicate with others automatically. I used to be like that, and it's good to practice slowly.

One is a lack of self-confidence, fearing that what you say will not be recognized by the people around you, or that you will not get the expected reaction and effect, and you will not talk much over time. This kind of person is a kind of personality deficiency that has been cultivated for a long time, and after receiving care and encouragement, he can still become a very cheerful person. The other is that they are not interested.

Generally this kind of person is very good at observing and analyzing the psychology of others, and when you don't know it, he is likely to have analyzed your personality and habits through your behavior and daily words. So it's easy for them to guess a series of scenarios such as your reply and reaction after hearing what you said, and then directly get the final result. Knowing the result, the process is dispensable.

So this kind of person belongs to the lazy to say. It's scary, isn't it...

It is true that many people have such a problem, they don't pay attention when they speak, and they say everything that shouldn't be said. As the saying goes, trouble comes from the mouth, and such strange habits are really bad. But it's really hard to solve this problem, and the best way to do it is to talk less, and no matter what you say, turn it around in your head and think about it later.

If you develop a habit, you can improve it slowly.

If you don't pay attention to what you say, then talk less and watch more.

Your situation is very similar to my college classmates, she is an introverted girl, she looks dark and small, and she has low self-esteem, we have four dormitories, 3 of us are very cheerful girls, she always can't keep up with our rhythm alone, she doesn't understand our jokes, she often thinks we're laughing at her (in fact, we don't), and often cries at every turn. Later, she became my follower, I didn't find a boyfriend for four years in college, I spent it with her, I often enlightened her, and used my optimism to lead her, and then she gradually became bolder, and her smile became more, ** also made her whiter, and her personality was much more cheerful.

You must make friends with cheerful people, they can drive you, they understand what you don't understand, you have to take the initiative to ask them, don't not participate in the discussion, often participate in the discussion can make your brain turn faster, although it can't be immediate, but over time you can see the effect. As for eloquence, reading more can increase your knowledge and provide you with more topics, but eloquence still depends on talking more to practice, often do not speak mouth muscles will stiffen, resulting in unspeakable cords, so you must talk to others more, otherwise you can talk to yourself.

Teacher is an awesome profession, I have been afraid of teachers since I was a child, some people can get along with teachers, I will never be good, but in fact, teachers are also ordinary people, there is nothing to be afraid of, as long as you don't make mistakes, you don't need to always think about being afraid of him, this is a psychological problem, you have to give yourself more psychological hints, over time you will not be afraid.

Then talk often, will God change you? Thinking too much.

After a long time of interacting with people, you will like to talk.

Read more books on interpersonal communication.

Oh, in this way, maybe you can communicate more with friends, gradually change yourself, go out and walk more, especially at the beach, hehe, just relax your heart and let go of your heart] Don't think too much, easily communicate with people. You'll be happy

It's not introverted, it's just that I don't feel like I have much in common and I'm afraid of the embarrassment of being silent when talking. This only proves that his knowledge is not broad enough and his attitude is not optimistic enough. Participate in more outdoor activities and make various friends to increase your knowledge and social circle.

A friend is like a mirror, if you smile at it, it will smile at you, if you cry at it, it will cry at you. Give others a bright smile, let your smile be infectious, and give others a good impression, because everyone likes to make some optimistic friends. If you care about and help the people around you, you will find that you will have many more true friends.

It's good to play with some cheerful, outgoing people.

Everyone is like this, there are very few people who are familiar with themselves, if you want to change, you want to have the courage to be ashamed, not afraid of other people's jokes, and you must force yourself to do it if you have the opportunity to express yourself!

Start with the little things around you. Neighbors in the same building have met and rarely say hello, starting with a smile when they meet, when colleagues and friends around them eat together, others start with a sentence when chatting, slowly integrate into it, and increase their knowledge at the same time, sometimes they don't like to talk in front of strangers, they don't know what to say, they know more, and the content of the conversation is naturally more, maybe others will be more willing to approach you and get along with you because of your erudition. Come on.