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Puppy students show that they have reached a mature stage of emotional exposure. Don't stop it at this time, you have to tell them that love should go in the right direction, and that early sex can be harmful to the body and mind. But holding hands, kissing and the like, as long as it doesn't go too far, you can educate them in moderation.
But don't tell him about her parents in the first place. Every adolescent has a different degree of rebelliousness. What you have to do is to be a friend of her, not to criticize education as a teacher.
The best way to do this is to educate:
For students with good grades and self-motivated, you can say:"If you want to have a future with him, then you have to study hard. If you grow up to be incompetent on both sides,..Similar to telling them about the difficulties and burdens caused by poor grades and unable to find a good job, it will cause difficulties and burdens to their future lives and raising children.
If he is a filial child, you can also start with his parents and tell him that she must not grow up and let her parents suffer)."
However, if your student is a bad student who has no desire to learn, but she is still innocent at heart, you can teach her to take good care of herself and not to taste the forbidden fruit too early. Or explain to him the disadvantages and shortcomings of his object, tell him that she is not worthy of being emotionally invested in such a person.
If it's a little worse, your student is a no-and-a-bit"Hedgehog students"It is advisable to contact his parents as soon as possible. If his parents don't pay attention to him or his child is too rebellious, you might as well give up. The only person who can truly awaken is by himself.
No matter how much outsiders say, they will only find you annoying.
In short, educating students, as long as they find the right breakthrough, be kind and persuasive, as a friend, is definitely better and more effective than a teacher.
Hopefully, you can, and help your students turn back sooner.
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I don't think you can tell the student directly, you have to put down your body and make friends with him, and then tell him about your emotional experience to make him trust you. Then you have to support him more and not hurt his self-esteem. Then he will tell you what is on his mind, and then you will secretly help him.
Let him be brave and pursue! But instead of pursuing it now, you can wait until after graduation! You can take advantage of his liking for her now, let him study hard, and take the entrance examination to a school with that person in the future, if he still doesn't believe it, you can use the old concept, and the door is right!
That's it, you have to use it just right! My teacher used to be like this, so I still have that person in my heart, but I didn't read until I told him! Thank you so much to my teachers! Hehe.
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Dear: Are you a teacher?
Everyone makes mistakes when they are young and makes all sorts of mistakes. But most of the mistakes have not reached the point of being unforgivable.
I haven't made the mistake of having a puppy love, but I know that the problem of puppy love is mainly with girls.
If you ask why, I'll tell you.
If a girl pursues a boy, then this can easily succeed.
If a boy pursues a girl, as long as the girl doesn't want to.
She has a thousand ways to refuse.
Please don't use stereotypical persecution. The ending was tragic. Their rebellious mentality will be heavier.
In fact, at our age, our own thoughts are serious. I was too naïve, too young. It's easy to make mistakes when it comes to feelings.
Please reach out to their friends. How did it start?
Then prescribe the right medicine.
If that's not enough. You can split their seats.
Then you talk separately. Don't put on a show.
Illustrate the dangers of puppy love.
State what you expect from them.
Explain why you are persuading them.
Show that you are not specifically criticizing them.
Untie the knots in your heart.
Let them help each other in the class as good friends.
A freshman high school girl.
Black black. Hope it helps.
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Are you a teacher? I think the best way is to tell the students that I don't care if they are engaged or not, and that everything is OK to get their studies up, in fact, quite a few students are very sad when they fall in love, so they don't talk about it
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If you fall in love early, you will also be motivated to study.
Just don't focus most of your energy on it.
Also, don't learn badly.
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There are good and bad things about early love.
Actively guiding students to develop towards the good, not to say that early love will necessarily affect learning...
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These things are hard to educate. The more they talked, the more rebellious they became.
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As long as you don't delay your studies.
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1. Educating children to participate in group interactions and establishing more good partnerships will help children gain more friendship and attention among partners, so as to ignore or dilute one-on-one interactions between people of the opposite sex.
2. Educate children that early love belongs to the budding of adolescence, which is the concern for the opposite sex, so that they realize that early love is different from marriage and love, and that early love is just a form of interpersonal communication like playing at home, so as to avoid children falling into it too early.
3. Educating children about early love will affect future marriages, early love behavior at the age of fourteen or fifteen, marriage at the age of twenty-four or five, few people will continue to maintain a love relationship in the past ten years, sooner or later there will be conflicts, and even end early love, begin to associate with new partners, and too much early love behavior between the opposite sex will cause children's comparison and deviation, and produce various comparisons and dissatisfaction with future love and love or marriage objects, which will greatly affect the future love life and marriage life.
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Puppy love among middle school students is a common problem, and many parents and teachers will encounter such a situation. Here are some suggestions that I hope you will find helpful:
1.Understand your child's psychology: The first thing to do is understand why your child is in early love, whether it's because of curiosity, attention-seeking, or something else. Understanding the psychological needs of children is the only way to better educate them.
2.Establish a good parent-child relationship: Parents should pay more attention to their children's lives, understand their interests and hobbies, and establish good communication channels with their children. In this way, children can feel the warmth of the family and reduce the possibility of early love.
3.Raise children's awareness of self-protection: Educate children on how to identify bad behaviors, how to refuse inappropriate invitations, and how to protect their privacy. Let children understand the possible negative effects of early love and enhance their sense of self-protection.
4.Guide the right values: Guide children to establish a correct outlook on life, values and love. Let them understand that love is not everything in life, and that study, hobbies and personal growth are equally important.
5.Strengthen school education: Schools should strengthen mental health education for students, and regularly carry out knowledge lectures on the physiological and psychological changes of adolescence to help students correctly cope with the problems of adolescence.
6.Increase home-school cooperation: Parents and schools should strengthen cooperation and focus on the growth of students. Schools can regularly provide feedback to parents on students' performance at school, and parents can also learn about their children's performance at school through parent-teacher conferences and other channels.
7.Lead by example: Parents should lead by example and set a good example. Avoid excessive displays of intimacy in front of your child so as not to mislead your child.
8.Patient guidance: For children who have fallen into early love, parents should be patient enough and do not rush to solve the problem. Give your child love and support to help them get out of their predicament.
In short, the education of early love for middle school students requires the joint efforts of parents, schools and society to guide children to establish correct values and love concepts from various aspects, and help them grow up healthily.
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