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Boys and girls are in the period of puberty, and due to sexual maturity, they are prone to sexual impulses, and if early love occurs, it will cause great harm to both parents. With the gradual heating up, sexual impulses occur naturally, and even lead to sexual relations and make the woman pregnant, and mentally depressed, which will bring many problems to the society.
In addition, even if the two parties do not have sex, then adolescence is also a time to be energetic and devote themselves to studying, and you should take advantage of this good time to devote yourself to learning. If there is a marathon "love" at this time, it will affect the energy investment of both parties in learning and affect the academic performance. There are many lessons to be learned in this regard.
For example, boys and girls were originally the top students in their classes in their studies, but later they had a romantic relationship too early, and the so-called "falling in love" affected their studies, and their academic performance declined, and they became backward students in the class.
Also, in this period, early love is harmful and unhelpful. Because in the student age, it is the stage of growing knowledge and body, the self-determination of social roles is far from clear, the social status is far from unstable, and the future is uncertain, for example, they should further their studies in the future, and there are only a few people who graduate and find employment. The change in learning path is likely to diverge as a result, which hurts both parties emotionally.
Whether it is a boy or a girl, during this period, due to a wide range of interests, psychological immaturity, understanding is still very naïve, love is just beginning, and it is very unstable; Boys, in particular, tend to shift their goals, and few of them maintain a good relationship from beginning to end, and this relationship promotes learning. Therefore, teachers and parents should patiently cool them down, divert their excitement, guide them from "love" to friendship, let them compare their ideals and careers, often talk and communicate with teachers and parents, reduce the opportunities for boys and girls to meet alone, expand the circle of friends, do not always limit themselves to a small circle, and have more boys and more girls together, which not only cultivates a collective consciousness, but also avoids the solitary relationship between boys and girls.
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Nothing. It's just puppy love. My parents didn't care about these things. They feel normal.
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It should be that there is a generation gap between myself and my parents, I feel very lonely, and I want to find someone to talk to, to communicate, to happily say what is on my mind!
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It still depends.
Both. 1. Teachers and parents look at it very much, and they don't want to see things happen, and they will always have regrets when they are separated.
2. It is very smooth to be together and read together, which will promote learning.
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What do you see? Daughter: "I saw a tree.
Do you like that? "I like it. "Why?
Because the tree is green, it gives us shade. "And what do you see in the distance?" "Big mountain.
Daughter. "Can you see what's inside? Do you like it?
Dad asked. "Why like it if you can't see anything, why like it? Daughter.
Child, let me tell you, there are countless treasures in the mountains, and there are towering thousand-year-old trees. What you see and like now is nothing more than the most ordinary one. It's right to like something, it's beautiful to be able to like something, but it's not right to delay your youth and stop moving forward because of this.
My personal experience tells me that high school love is fruitless and delays studying. There are many things you can do in high school, and it is not wise to be in love. If you really like it, you might as well put this feeling in your heart, that is your most precious treasure.
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1. Physiological reasons.
2. Life impact. Students' learning life is too boring and too lacking in color! Those who can endure loneliness are either geniuses or stupid talents!
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