Do you think that young mothers and children nowadays have to bring their own children completely? I

It's not that the mother-in-law doesn't give it, but the young mothers don't worry about the elderly. First of all, it is also the only way to perfect your life. Secondly, you will also get a lot of unspeakable happiness and feel the excitement of life from it.

In the child's life phenomenon, the mother has always played a very important role, it is not difficult to become a mother, but it is not very easy to become a good mother, some mothers are conscientious from beginning to end, conscientious, and love their children, but they can't raise a good child, this kind of mother also wants to cultivate a good child, in order to be able to have a child also pay more, but the way is wrong, pay more energy, live a very tired life, but may not be able to raise the child very well. Especially these mothers, who are very tired but can't raise good children.

1. Mothers who take excessive care of their children.

Taking care of children is the responsibility and obligation of every mother, it is the instinct of mothers, many mothers also take care of their children, which is a good thing in itself, children do have to be taken care of by their mothers when they are young, but with the development of children, mothers need to let go, but in the eyes of mothers, children will never grow up, and they will always take too much care of their children, so that children lose the most basic standard of living, and when appropriate, they can not even be independent, this kind of mother is very tired, but can not raise a good child.

2. Mothers who don't know anything about their children.

There are also a small number of mothers who are overly free-range to their children, and feel that as long as they give their children a little better material conditions, they don't care about the rest, they don't have the concept of accompanying their children, and they don't have the idea of correctly guiding and educating their children.

3. Excessive manipulation of the mother to the child.

Some mothers have a strong personality, domineering at home, not only manipulate their husbands, but also manipulate their children, and the children will do anything under the management of their mothers, without any arbitrariness, which will make the children cause rebellion against their mothers, and in the long run, they will even communicate with their mothers' parents, this kind of mothers are very tired, and they seem to be good for their children, but they can't raise good children.

The first is a very short-tempered mother, very tired but can't raise a good child, the second day on the child to do everything, but the child is disobedient, the third type of mother is very anxious, the mother raised the child is not very good, especially the first type, very terrible.

Self-righteous, disrespectful mothers who always say "for your good" There is also a kind of mother who is particularly concerned about the growth and learning of her children.

Take care of the child's big and small things, and blindly control the child.