I feel like I can t do anything! I feel like I can t do anything, I can t do anything! What to do?

There is a saying that before the age of 35, people must find their own 3 hobbies. A real hobby, of course. It can be a very small thing, but it must be something you like.

You don't have to fight very much, it doesn't have to be very eye-catching, very prominent and dazzling. Of course, you can also start learning now, and you can learn seriously and steadily, rather than learning for others. With a small improvement every day, you can find a sense of accomplishment or satisfaction.

At the end of the day, it's a matter of mentality, and everyone has something they are good at waiting to discover. I recommend "Secret" and "How to Spend 24 Hours a Day Leisurely" to you, and I believe you will gain something.

Take a look at your strengths and improve them. You don't have to be able to play things.,You don't have to do sales to socialize.,I'm afraid I can't play with friends.,I think it's okay.,You can't learn it.,Don't worry.,I'm in a hurry.,I don't want to do anything when I'm annoyed.,I don't want to do anything when I'm annoyed.,I don't want to play billiards.,I didn't learn it from a good friend.,Haha,I can't sing.,But a few roars or will.,If you want to learn songs, start learning from low-bass songs.,Or songs with relatively flat sounds.,Sing with a loud voice.,Happy., Just practice with the voice that usually speaks loudly, at least basketball is a little more difficult, and it takes experience.

Did you get a stab at it? Someone must have made you unbearable, right? Why do you want to live for someone else?

If you don't know anything, you learn anything....When someone else sings, you find someone to drink, and you turn them all up...They're nothing, so you can smile smugly, you know what I mean...You have to learn everything...The most important thing is to be attentive.

The same is the end of the world, why should we have met each other. I'm the same, I'm not proficient in everything. What can you do when you play, you can't eat or wear clothes, you play to relax and make yourself happy, you should pay attention to the process, why care about the result?

No matter what, you have to have faith in yourself, believe in yourself that you are the best, and that you will always be able to do it.

Try it out and try to discover your strengths...Lejia often says, you don't see enough people, you don't experience enough...

Congratulations... It shows that you are very disciplined, very patient, and especially able to think, who would think so much?

As long as the people are good, everything else is floating clouds! Hehe!

Is it necessary to be so persistent?

The progress of human civilization starts with learning, and as long as you are willing to learn, there will be changes.

You haven't done anything, some things are hard to look at, but if you don't even do them, it's always so hard to watch. Is it also hard to eat?

If you feel that you can't do anything, it's better to start with some jobs that don't require academic qualifications, and slowly gain experience, or go to professional colleges and universities to learn some skills, such as pastry, Western food, cooking, etc., which is easy to learn, and it is a good way to get a job after learning.

If you don't know anything, you have to find a job that you can do. After all, you have to start working no matter what, and you don't need to learn a skill that will support your career for 30-40 years. Go to Zhaopin, Business and Management Home Job Recruitment to see the job requirements and job search skills, come on!

When you have enough funds, you can do the work you like. Sales is very challenging, you need to be able to withstand a certain amount of pressure, and the clerical category is relatively stable, but the salary is fixed.

A little unresponsive and don't know what to learn.

Maybe you haven't been exposed to what you're interested in, or what you're interested in. There is a saying that 'I am born to be useful', it is not that you are useless, but that you have not tried to do it, and buried your own talents, it is not that you can't do anything, you have to take the initiative in everything.

Because you think of yourself too much, God is not partial, you have to be good at discovering some of your strengths, even a little bit, you have to slowly try to communicate with people, just because you feel that you are worthless, so you don't even dare to talk to people, so some people think that you are a little narcissistic.

A lot of people are like you, and they are all the results of modern education.

That's because you don't have confidence in yourself! It should be treated with a normal heart! Multiple self-point encouragement!

Or is it recommended that you come out.

Bai go to work, this du

Kind will also touch one.

It's better to have some fresh people and new things than to stay at home and face the computer for a day, or, find a chance to go out on a trip by yourself, relax your mood, and then come back to face your own life. It's normal for you to suspect your husband, it's not a problem if you don't suspect it, you have time to talk to him, life, or let him give you some advice, what kind of work should you do, in fact, sometimes, love and life, and marriage, need a kind of equal bargaining chips, if you lag behind your husband too much, it's actually not a good thing, of course, it's just my own feelings, I don't know your specific situation. In addition, you can learn something by yourself and take the basic certificate, so that it will be easier to find a job, and there will be opportunities to improve in your work.

I want to say that as a woman, you must be mentally independent and can't let a man lead you by the nose!

I would like to say that as an individual, we must be mentally and financially independent, because only when we are financially independent, we do not need sustenance spiritually!

Also, if you can be "two" independent, divorce your husband. I don't think that a woman who doesn't have a job and can't keep up with her husband's ideas should take it for granted that she can't get his love. You're always learning how to follow his mindset, so why don't you think of a way to make him follow your thoughts?

A lot of things, you slowly savor it ... As a mother of a child, you have to be braver If you are not strong, who will show you that you are vulnerable?!

A man who doesn't care about his family is not a good man.

No one is born a genius. You can keep learning. For the sake of the children, for the sake of the family. It's better for you and your husband to communicate more, and here we emphasize that sex is not the only solution, and it is not better to communicate more in words.

Hello! For you, you should really improve your ability, don't blindly rely on your husband, (you must not pin everything on your husband,) should be because your husband is getting better and better, and his attraction to other women is getting bigger and bigger, which will inevitably make him want to move, so you should also think about what you should do, you have to have your ideas and what you should do, so that your personal ability and charm will improve, and it will also make your husband feel very special. As a woman, first of all, you must be independent, and work hard for yourself and your family!

You will succeed.

You have to go out and walk more and don't get bored at home, go to the park often, go out shopping, don't always stay at home alone and surf the Internet, drink tea and chat with friends more, so that you will be cheerful! It is impossible for people to only rely on others, to cling to others to grow, you must also have your own thoughts, your own opinions, now housewives can also be independent, not that they can't work, women can still do a good job! You have to learn to laugh, face the world with a smile, try to greet others with a smile, and you will be happier!

First of all, pay attention to your own image, and if you can, ask someone to design your personal image to make yourself look younger and more beautiful. Then think about what you can do, in fact, even if a person doesn't know anything, but at a certain time, he has gone through a lot of things, and he can do a lot of things. For example, open a small shop, such as a flower shop, clothing store, shoe store, or jewelry store, etc., or some franchise stores, because the franchise store will generally have someone to train you, so it is easier to do, in the case of your own funds can afford, to try it, generally speaking, business is not profitable, it is nothing more than a effort, and it will not lose anywhere.

If you don't want to do such a thing at once, then you can also try to work, Now the job is often recruiting, the average clerk can definitely do it, as long as their requirements are not too high, after doing it for a while, enrich themselves, and then go to a high place.

A man is different from a woman, he generally doesn't want to talk to a woman about work, because he feels that he can handle his own affairs, as long as he usually cares more about him, you are very important in his heart.

Take action and impress him, and he will be happy for you.

Through their own efforts, they can improve their strength and give full play to their skills.

No one can give any good answer, otherwise there would be no one: every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. This is what I said. Make your own decisions.

Make yourself strong and independent, women can't always rely on their husbands, because they don't belong to them forever, how can there be a cat that doesn't steal fish, make yourself better, and men will come back, come on, we women don't live for men, for ourselves, for our children, let's struggle.

It's good to know your situation.

First: If you don't want to continue to be decadent, quickly change your mentality, a positive attitude. You have wasted 2 years of time, looking at your life state is definitely not good, it is better to take a clean bath, cut a decent hair, change your face, change your mood, and cope with the changes that are coming.

Second, give yourself a belief in your heart, it's good not to be looked down upon by your parents, the problem is to find a belief that can support you to not be defeated when you encounter difficulties.

Third: Initial Chinese can only start from the bottom at present, you have to suffer, you yourself should know that people have inertia, if you want to change, you have to change your mentality, you don't study well in school, you can only suffer now.

It should be easy for you to hit a wall when looking for a job, but you go and try it, go around the streets near your home and see if there is any recruitment, ordinary restaurant waiters, salesmen, porters, even if you distribute flyers, although many places have high requirements for academic qualifications, but you try it, and say that you can endure hardships, maybe you will be chosen.

Many places require you to learn things as an intern, and you can weigh yourself yourself, or you can try to communicate with your parents to let them support you, and then pay it back when you earn money in the future. Beware of being deceived, and it's better not to be deceived for the sake of leisure.

You've also talked about the shortcomings of the high hand and the low hand.

If you don't want to be talked about by your parents, make up your mind quickly.

First bitter and then sweet.

Again, like when I was in school.

You won't have a way out either.

A final reminder to you.

Read more books to enrich your horizons.

Enrich your own spiritual world.

Don't be knocked down easily.

You should believe in yourself.

Only believe in yourself first.

Work for it. to wait for the opportunity to come.

Grab and grasp calmly without hesitation!

Everyone has their own strengths, and the key lies in how you discover and play them. I don't know your age, I think if you are under 30 years old, you can go to a subject, now the college entrance threshold is very low, only 1 to 2 years, you can also use your spare time to complete your studies. It doesn't really matter what you learn, the key is that you find your interest in knowledge and your ability to understand things in the process of learning.

As long as you have sound limbs and a normal IQ, you are a capable person, and it has nothing to do with what you are doing, what status you have in society, or how much wealth you have. But since you can make this post, it means that you have a new start and a yearning and motivation for a better life. You have to have confidence in yourself, now the job is not difficult to find, you can start from the grassroots, don't be afraid of hardships at the beginning, don't care how much money you make, it's important to learn experience.

And you have to stick to whatever you do. No matter what difficulties you encounter, as long as you persevere, you will be successful, and you will enjoy your own work more and more in the process of perseverance! Believe in yourself!

There is a friend, business loss, millions of family property overnight in vain, he said that he was very confused at the time, do not know where to go, the comeback is easier said than done, he locked himself at home for a year, do nothing, is to read books (normal, non-low-level fun), in this year his thinking has changed a lot, the whole person's mentality is different, now his career has a certain improvement, and he is also like a changed person, it is recommended that you can also read more books, if there is a condition, Give it a try. Good luck. Doing one thing every day is also a good way to overcome the bad habit of having a low eye.

No accumulation of steps, no thousands of miles; If you don't accumulate small streams, you can't become rivers and seas.

Are you going to be a gnawing old man? If not, then you think about your dreams, and if they are out of reach, then set yourself a simple small goal first, and then take it one step at a time, and one day you will succeed.

I also feel like this, I feel as if I can't do anything, I feel like I can't do it, in fact, I just don't want to do it, I say I did it and then I said goodbye, and if I do it, I will find that I am actually okay.