What is the biggest grievance you have ever suffered in your life?

The biggest grievance you have ever suffered in life is that you have been wronged and not understood, and you seem to be very painful in your heart. As an adult, we experience a lot of things every day, and it is impossible to do everything according to our arrangement, but we can do nothing wrong, not wronged our hearts, and do it frankly, but many times we are wronged.

I don't understand, my biggest grievance was with my mother-in-law, I was only 20 years old when I married into my mother-in-law's family, and I saw everything very beautiful at that time. At that time, others said that my mother-in-law was stronger, but I didn't believe it. At that time, I was not in good health, so I was suspended from work and treated at home, and I had no money.

My wife is also out of town, so I can't get my monthly salary back in time. I borrowed money from my mother's family, and my mother-in-law overheard **, saying that I borrowed it from a man, and I had a personal affair with someone, and I went to my lover to sue me. I was really at a loss for words, first eavesdropping on me, and then framing me, and my heart was extremely aggrieved at that time.

Have you ever been misunderstood?

Classmates' misunderstanding, that's not what I said, I'm a post-70s generation, I live a simple life, and I never want to play with others, but it's this sex that is misunderstood by others. That year, my classmate got married and found a man who was 12 years older than her, and everyone talked about it, and I was the last one to know, and they were talking about the age of my classmate, so I interjected, and it turned out to be what I said my classmate was not. Alas, when this matter reached the ears of my classmates, it became what I said, so this misunderstanding could not be solved.

I really can't argue, such a misunderstanding, such a grievance, how do you explain it, the more you explain it, the darker it becomes, and there is no way to turn it into a truth in the end. So, since then, I've learned to keep my mouth shut when there are many people and my heart when there are few people. Do you remember?

In life, there are few people who are not wronged, so it is not easy to live, what can I do if I am wronged? Let it go, I'm not wronged, whoever is wronged, life is like this.

It was when I joined the work for the first time that the plan I had worked so hard to make was snatched away by another old colleague, which made me feel particularly wronged.

The biggest grievance I suffered was during confinement, because the child didn't sleep all night, so I could only sleep for a short time during the day, but just after I slept for long, the child's grandmother said that I slept for a day and was still sleeping, which made me feel very aggrieved.

The biggest grievance I have ever suffered was that the teacher mistakenly thought I was cheating on an exam, and physically punished me in front of me and slapped me in class.

The biggest grievance I have ever suffered is that I lost the money at the table, and then it rested on my head, and in the end everyone thought I stole it.

In life, I have suffered a lot of grievances, a lot of grievances, can only be contained in my own belly, there is no way to say it, especially between husband and wife, between children, everything can only find their own ferry, pour out and let go, no matter what, you have to laugh at the wind and rain of life.

I have suffered countless grievances in my life, but these grievances will gradually be digested by me. Because life is easy without one.

A lot of grievances. The misunderstanding of the leader, the exclusion of classmates, the incomprehension of friends, the betrayal of friends, the cold violence of lovers, etc., are very many grievances.

I have suffered a lot of grievances, because I feel that the adult world is not easy, and I have experienced these grievances, so that I will grow up a lot.

There are many grievances in life and work, such as when you first started working. Colleagues don't help you, and you are often scolded by your superiors. And as long as there is a problem in one link in the work process, it is usually the newcomer who takes the lead.

The most important thing is that there is less money, more work, and overtime. In everyday life, many people work hard every day to live a better life. However, with their own cognition, they can only do some hard work and encounter various difficulties in their work.

All in all, in the adult world, there is no such thing as easy.

Even if you are greatly wronged every day, you will be greeted with a smile when you come home, and you will not bring home the bad mood in the process of going to work. Next, I will explain to you the grievances encountered in the work. The grievance you encounter at work is that your colleagues don't help you when you first start working, and you are often scolded by your superiors.

Many newcomers are not familiar with the company's environment at all, and some colleagues are particularly arrogant and unreasonable. They don't help newcomers at all and then let themselves hit a wall. By the time you finally find a way, you've wasted a lot of time, so it's easy to get criticized by your superiors.

The biggest grievance of newcomers is that they often feel lonely, and they all come out step by step without anyone's help. Being wronged at work means making mistakes in any link, which may be blamed on you, plus working overtime with less money and more things. If you are not a management class of the company, just an ordinary coolie, if there is a problem with your assembly line, in many cases you will be directly blamed, sometimes resulting in a bad mood all day.

In addition, there is more work, and the boss gives you less money. You have to work overtime from time to time at night, so most people are wronged by their work. If you have any better ideas on this matter, please write at the bottom of the comment.

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1. Smear or instigate by others. 2. Others deliberately find fault with you in front of the leader. 3. Attacks on your character, personality or dignity by others.

4. Others attack your career prospect and overall professional ability assessment. These grievances are intolerable. But we have to learn to get used to it, because growing up is the way to go.

In life, if the other party insults his family or himself, he is resolutely unbearable, and it is unbearable to hurt his family, and it is unbearable to break through his bottom line.

It is probably that the grievances in front of family and lovers are unbearable, because they feel very uncomfortable in their hearts, they can't help but get angry or cry.

(1) Assault; Battery; so that the frustrated enthusiasm was hit, and the aggressor was severely attacked: (2) beaten; Impact: (3) Sanctions, suppression, and opportunistic activities, and (4) Tough measures to counter and crack down on unhealthy practices.

I remember when I was a child, I went to the kitchen for my father to cook, and when I came back from cooking, I accidentally broke the bowl and was beaten, and I think this is the biggest grievance I have ever suffered.

Before I went back to my grandmother's house, I put the car keys on the cabinet, and when I left, I found that I couldn't find it, and all the people in the family were accusing me of losing the key, but later I found out that someone else accidentally took the wrong key, which is the most aggrieved thing I have ever experienced, because others didn't listen to my explanation at all.

When I was a child, my family was poorer, so my parents didn't want me to quarrel with the wealthier girls in the same village, once after school, the wealthier girls in the same village bullied my sister, when she beat my sister, and after playing, I caught up after I saw it and hit back, and finally the girl ran back home, I haven't entered the village before my dad was waiting for me at the entrance of the village, and took me to the girl's house and beat me in front of her, and I felt really wronged.

When a friend lost one of her bracelets, she wronged me for taking it, and I tried my best to explain to her, but she didn't believe it, which made me sad.

When I was in high school, when others asked me questions, I was mistaken for talking by the teacher, and I was punished for standing for a day, which made me feel very depressed, the key is that the teacher only cares about what he sees, and does not care about the process, which makes me very aggrieved.

At that time, I was still very young when I went out with my friends, and then my parents called me home at night, maybe I was tired of playing, and I wanted to go back very much, but my friend didn't know, and then he dragged me to play with her all the time, and I was very unhappy, and he fought with him, but he was too strong, so basically I was beaten all the time, and his glasses were broken, and he took it to my parents and asked my family to pay for it, and I felt wronged by the thief at the time, and now I feel that I am quite stupid.

I remember when I was a child, my mother bought me a toy dog, and this toy dog can bark and move, and I like it very much. One day, a little friend of mine came to my house to play and found my toy dog, and he also liked it and played with it for a long time. After a while she came home, and when I turned the switch on again, the dog didn't move.

I asked my mom at the time, and she thought I had broken it and gave me a beating. At that time, I was particularly aggrieved

After school, he was beaten up by his classmates.

This is when I was in elementary school, I was a kind child, and I was very tired from watching the teacher's work, so I wanted to help him share it.

So I used a diary to write down the names of the classmates who spoke in self-study, and secretly handed them to the teacher after class.

Later I understood what it means to be in trouble.

When I was just confinement after giving birth, my husband misunderstood me because of a trivial matter, and then he had a big fight with me, and I stayed alone at my parents' house, and I cried all the time.

I think many people have been wronged in the workplace, especially the newcomers and some low-level employees of the company. After being wronged, most of the time I will endure it silently, and I have to swallow the pain in my stomach. Sometimes this is the case in the workplace, some grievances are not able to be expressed, because there are many factors.

When I first joined the company, I suffered a great grievance. When our company first joined, we will take the old and bring the new way, and the company will find an old employee to be the master of the new employee, the purpose is also to let the new employee adapt to the company's business faster. Unfortunately, I didn't have a good master, he didn't give me anything, and he often instructed me to help him do that.

I remember that once the company held an employee program design competition, and the first, second and third prizes would be selected, with bonuses and certificates. Later, my master told me that he wanted to see my plan, and said that he would refer to it. At that time, I felt that I had to follow him for a while after all, so I didn't refuse, so I sent him the plan.

Later, at the program presentation, he directly used my PPT, and changed his name. When it was my turn, I thought to myself that I couldn't tell him the same thing, and I could only say that I didn't finish it and gave up. Later, this scheme design also won the first prize of the company, nearly 2,000 yuan.

But I was deducted 200 yuan because I didn't report the plan.

I lost a lot of money when I came and went, but I also dared to be angry and didn't dare to speak, and I cried when I was wronged, and I was uncomfortable for several days. He's an old man in the company, and if I denounce him, I won't be able to stay any longer. In order to keep this job, the grievances can only be borne by yourself, and you can only swallow it in your stomach if your teeth are broken.

Later, after I took the project alone, I never paid attention to him again. During that time, I hated him very much, and sometimes I dreamed and beat him several times in my dreams. Feng Shui took turns, and later my performance was much better than his, and my position was higher than his.

God is still fair, it has made you suffer a grievance, and it will definitely compensate you on the other hand.

The biggest grievance is that the boss said that my idea was plagiarized, but in fact, the idea was plagiarized by someone else, but there is no evidence.

I think it was in a company performance that it was obvious that I was the one who got the main force, well, but the supervisor gave credit to another colleague. At that time, I really felt very aggrieved.

My work is given to me by my superiors, and because my superiors have not given me tasks, I usually seem to have nothing to do when I go to work. After my superiors were criticized, they turned to criticize me for not being able to find things to do on my own, which made me feel very aggrieved, and I will never forget it.

I was kind enough to help others, but I didn't expect it to be self-defeating, and I was misunderstood by the other party, and I felt really helpless.

When you encounter unfair treatment at work, sometimes it is clear that everything is done by you, and the credit is someone else's, and the wrong thing must be because of you.

The biggest grievance I received at work was that the other party didn't understand, and it made me very sad, and my friends didn't understand either.

The biggest grievance I have ever suffered is that when someone else did something wrong and threw the pot at me, and when I tried to explain, the leader didn't listen at all.

The biggest grievance I encountered in life was that it was not my job, but I was asked by my boss to complete it, and the colleague who was in charge of this work went home on vacation