Why do you always feel like you won t take your chances?

The reason why you feel that you have not grasped the opportunity may be that you always miss this opportunity, and you will feel a pity, and it is recommended that you should work hard next time you encounter an opportunity.

There is a saying that opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared, so you may feel that the reason why you have not been able to grasp the opportunity is that you have not been able to go well. Effort, and then a lot of times you see that others can grasp the opportunity, but you don't actually see the effort behind the other people to grasp the opportunity.

Because you yourself may be too hesitant, uncertain about many decisions, always hovering left and right.

Opportunities are only given to those who are ready – you are ready to get rich, and you will surely get rich; You are ready for love, and you will surely have love; You are ready for wisdom, and you will surely have wisdom; You are ready to become a Buddha, and you will definitely become a Buddha ......A thousand words condensed into one sentence, and when you're ready, nothing is missing. The reason why you have a shortage is because you are not prepared in some way, so it does not come; Or it comes, and you can't have it either.

It's like a person who worries about money all day long, you don't always have money, you used to have money, but because you can't take care of it, so money comes and you lose it. It's not that you have never had a bosom friend, you used to have a bosom friend, but because you don't know how to be a person and don't know how to cherish friendship, the friends who came to you in front of you are slowly leaving you.

What is the interest of the individual compared to the interest of the collective? What is the interest of the collective compared to the interest of the state? The country is gone, will your business be there?

The enterprise is gone, what are your interests? If you safeguard the interests of the country, you will safeguard the interests of your enterprise; If you safeguard the interests of the enterprise, you will safeguard your personal interests.

Today is no longer an era of individual heroism and individual heroism, but an era of teamwork, the social division of labor is becoming more and more detailed, and any work is not something that can be completed by one person, it needs to be completed by a team, and everything depends on the strength of the team. Therefore, we must have the awareness of the team and the spirit of the team, regard the team as our home, give full play to our advantages in the team, grow in the team, and realize our wishes in the team.

You will only know if there is an opportunity when you grasp it, and the opportunity that you don't grasp does not belong to you, so you don't need to worry too much.

Because you are not ready, opportunities are reserved for those who are always ready.

It turns out that maybe too many opportunities slipped around you, right?

Why don't you always take advantage of opportunities? It's just because of the lack of "wisdom to relax".

1. The more you pay attention, the easier it is to think too much.

Second, self-conflict, resulting in the inability to relax.

First of all, it is to let the hidden motive be wrong beforehand.

Secondly, it is the conflict between the self and the self. Tanqing Hall.

3. Learn to relax and grasp the critical moment.

1. Abandon the motivation to avoid failure and imagine success scenarios.

2. Learn to self-observe and stop self-judgment.

3. Correctly cultivate self-efficacy.

Summary. I always feel that I can't grasp the opportunity, kiss hello, as the saying goes, the opportunity cannot be lost, and the loss will not come again, since I didn't grasp it, it is not an opportunity. Maybe it came too suddenly, without adequate preparation, and it was not expected at all, and the chance came so that you couldn't cope, messed up, and finally missed.

I always feel that I can't seize the opportunity, kiss hello, as the saying goes, the opportunity cannot be missed, and if you don't come to the banquet again, since you don't grasp it, it's not an opportunity. Maybe it came too suddenly, without adequate preparation, and it was not expected at all, and the accidental arrival made you unable to deal with it, and you were confused, and the most wanton and finally missed.

Hello dear kiss, because the opportunity is always left to the person who is prepared in the hands of the rental brother Hindsight, of course, the disadvantage can not grasp the opportunity, because you only know later, how can you be fully prepared His darling is just fully prepared Luck will not befall someone for no reason Only by going to have great strength can you control your own destiny and have more good luck.

Kiss hello, in the face of the actual situation in front of you, accept what you choose, what kind of road you take, and what kind of words you say. Opportunities are not immutable, the past is gone, and it is wisest to seize the present of He Xinfu. Cheer up and create more opportunities.

Opportunity is like the wind, it comes and goes without a trace, but it passes by everyone, it depends on whether you feel it. Opportunities are equal in front of everyone, and some people always think that when the opportunity comes, they have to say hello first, so they don't know how many opportunities they missed, so they don't wait for the opportunity to come. But opportunities are waiting for everyone, so opportunities need to be actively found, and we need to be the first to wait for them.

If a person can be decisive and resolute in his life, he may taste the joy of success; If you are indecisive and look ahead, you may miss out on many opportunities and even leave you with eternal regrets, so when we see an opportunity, we must act immediately.

Newton was resting under the apple tree, an apple fell and hit him, Newton was a good thinker, after his hard exploration, research, finally discovered the law of gravitation. This shows that Newton seized this opportunity, and this opportunity produced this admired scientist. If it wasn't Newton who rested that year, then that person might have been dismissive or even cursed loudly.

Only the fool waits for the opportunity, and the wise make the opportunity. Bacon's words also inspire us, and we still need to create opportunities. As a simple example, when we do geometry problems, we always add a few auxiliary lines, and the graphics of the auxiliary lines look clear at a glance, which makes people suddenly open.

This method of supporting the line can be seen as creating opportunities for ourselves.

From this point of view, if you want to grasp opportunities, you first need to look for opportunities, and when you can't find them, you need to create opportunities yourself. When encountering an opportunity, you must "strike first" in order to seize the opportunity; If you have to think carefully and think carefully before making a decision, then you can't complain about the lost opportunity.

We must have confidence in the judgment of opportunities, and we must also have the courage to bear the consequences of failure, after all, there are successes and failures. But if you can't even seize the opportunity, you are not qualified to talk about success.

The earth gives the grass a chance to thrive.

The sky gives the birds the opportunity to fly freely.

The school gave us the opportunity to let our dreams fly.

Ancient Greek philosopherSocrates once said, "Whoever wants to control the world must first control himself." "The same is true for seizing opportunities.

When we are faced with opportunities, we should not look at the giving of others, but look at our own grasp.

Einstein's teacher did not give him the opportunity to go to school, but he seized the opportunity to learn on his own, and finally embarked on the road of exploring science and became a well-known scientist. Beethoven's ears did not give him the opportunity to continue his work in his later years, but he refused to give up and used his mind to wander often. Those few notes created some beautiful music; Gold didn't give Hilton a chance to discover it, but Hilton didn't stop from it and opened a hotel, which laid the foundation for his future success in the hotel industry. Looking at these successful people at home and abroad, they all rely on their own grasp and seize the opportunity to achieve success.

Li Ka-shing, China's richest man, must be known to everyone. His success lies in his timing. In the early days of reform and opening up, the society was still relatively backward, and there was no such thing as "every inch of land must be contested" as it is now.

But it was in this environment that Li Ka-shing seized the business opportunity and borrowed a huge amount of land to buy a large amount of land when he was not wealthy. What courage and wisdom it takes to do so. It was this investment that ordinary people would never think of that made him a fortune and became an Asian real estate tycoon.

Toh Fuller once said: A wise man always seizes an opportunity and turns it into a good future. Yes, in the face of opportunities, we can't choose, we can't predict, we can only grasp it carefully and create a better future!

One of the most memorable opportunities I lost was when I was in junior high school.

In order to encourage us to study hard, our parents and elders took us to Beijing, the Forbidden City, Peking University, and some other places.

Over the years, we have sighed countless times that if we had the foresight at that time, we would have gritted our teeth and bought a suite in Beijing now we would have been able to struggle for 20 years less!

And what's even more touching is that this idea is not a joke.

In those years, there was a policy that as long as you bought a house in Beijing, you would automatically get a Beijing hukou.

At that time, there was a boy in our class who did not have good grades, but his family had money, and after buying a house, he transferred to Beijing to study.

Later, although his results in the college entrance examination were still not very good, he still entered a university in Beijing. Later, it was said that after leaving the country, those of us who stayed there never heard his story again.

In a sense, he disappeared from our world and entered a new world.

However, I also know that even if we can go back to the past, with our family background at that time, even if the housing price in Beijing at that time was only a few hundred yuan a square meter, it was not something we could afford, after all, my parents were ordinary workers and had no sense of financial management.

But this assumption is so beautiful that we can't help but look back again and again.

Later, at work, I also lost several opportunities one after another, all of them wanted to go to a better place, and then I came out on top in the written exam every time, and Sun Shan fell in the interview.

I always console myself with a few reasons or excuses:

1. I'm just a person who can work but is not good at talking, and I can't compare to those who can talk about it.

2. There are times in life that you must have, and there are times in life when you don't force it.

3. I actually don't like this industry, even if I change places, it's just from one besieged city to another besieged city that is more difficult to leave, it is better to maintain the status quo, at least there are advantages of the right time, place and people.

If you think about it, these thoughts actually keep popping up in my mind before every interview.

On the one hand, because I have been frustrated many times in the interview, I automatically set up a back path for myself to avoid being sad when I get it;

On the other hand, I do feel that if I don't choose the right industry, no matter how hard I try, I can't achieve the goals I want.

So, come now, why can't I always take a chance?

1. Without foresight, even if the opportunity is in front of you, you can't realize that it is an opportunity.

2. Without accumulation, even if you know that it is an opportunity, you do not have the ability to seize it.

3. There is no clear goal for your own growth. I don't know how I should go.

For the opportunity that appears in front of you, even if you have the ability to grasp it, you lack a sense of identity with it, and you don't have the motivation to seize the opportunity.

First of all, you have to make the most of every minute. Because you don't know when the opportunity will start and when it will end.

When your efforts have paid off, you have to persevere, continue to work hard, and not be proud.

Opportunity is actually the result of their own efforts, and the opportunity is not for people to wait, but to create, work hard, and strive for it.

Pay attention to what you're doing, what's happening around you, and what's going to happen, and the opportunity is already around you.

Opportunities must be seized well, can not give up, cherish everything you have now, opportunities will not be sent to the door by yourself, tomorrow will be a lot, don't wait for tomorrow, it is now. You have to get rid of the negative factors in your mind, and when you encounter setbacks, you have to stop and ask yourself why you stopped. To live in reality, the past has passed, no one knows the future, only the present is the most real.

Stop degrading yourself, what kind of person you are, what kind of person you accept, what kind of self, establish positive and effective goals, dare to face setbacks, don't let setbacks hit you, the future is not the most important, the most important life, life is not easy - it is not easy to live decently, because you yourself are opportunities, I believe that you are no worse than anyone else, how can you meet the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain.

Opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared.

Opportunity! It is very important for everyone, opportunities can change a person's life, this sentence is really the true truth summed up by thousands of predecessors!

In the face of opportunities, we need to prepare in advance to grasp it, and opportunities are prepared for those who are prepared - this sentence is very true, but it is also very vague, I am lucky people, there are mentors and friends around us to consult, but most people are not capable of having such opportunities 、、、

I was also very confused before, I believe that there will be a good opportunity to wait for me in the future I spoke a speech, I felt a lot、、、 he gave a small example, if there is a piece of land now, the future appreciation space is very large, these are currently optimistic, you don't need to judge anymore, this is definitely a machine ability, funds can go to the loan ah (I said the loan, hehe, at present, I personally do not have the ability to loan such a large amount of money), ability, I also have relatively little social experience, so I am not prepared for such 、、、an opportunity

He said that there are more people who are not prepared in front of the big opportunity, do you think your current predecessor "spoke again, the big opportunity is quite tempting, maybe you can't grasp it now?" Was it due to the rush of time to ignore it? I don't have confidence?。。