Am I being stingy, or are they asking too much?

Updated on society 2024-05-26
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You should have asked your girlfriend to take care of the shop later. After mixing it up, I'll make it clear to your girlfriend alone.

    It's all turned out like this, just wait. If their family is more optimistic about you, their daughter will take the initiative to find you. If your girlfriend doesn't take the initiative to find you, forget it.

    If you were introduced, if you were talking about yourself, you wouldn't fail to tell her that"Secret", their family will not be so powerful.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's all wrong, but in that case, you're still wrong.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Your mindset is a little worse.

    But there aren't many parents who ask you to introduce your business at the first meeting.

    Be careful yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's a bit unacceptable that you weren't right at the time, but it's not your problem, and I wouldn't be like that if I did, I wouldn't be able to accept his family's attitude. If they're just blaming you, you can consider a new girlfriend. If not, you can continue to associate with him, and tell them the secret of this when the time comes!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This is normal, I can't blame you, but you can tactfully refuse, the current situation is that you don't have to worry, the future will be decided, you still do your own way to make a fortune, take your own way to make a fortune, and if you have money, are you afraid to look at their faces?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Objectively speaking, his father is a bit of a power eye, and it is not appropriate for her family to ask about the purchase channels of your business, but I think they are also from the perspective of caring for their daughter, and your obviously not smart enough, it is easy to give people the impression of being a small family, not very good, you can say tactfully, since I like your daughter, then mine is all hers, not only that, I will do my best to let your daughter live a happy life, I believe that through our joint efforts, we will be able to develop and grow our small business now. If you want to emphasize that we are not you, then his parents will think that you are one, sharing honor and disgrace!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Dizzy... Stingy, of course!! My girlfriend... Sell it, sell it!! What's there?。。 You're not doing well. It's true!!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, before two people get married, it is not natural for a man to spend money on a woman, and you can do it to spend money on her, send her red envelopes, and buy her gifts. I think you've done a pretty good job.

    As for him, he has never given you a gift, and even went to your house to visit your parents with a box of 30 yuan a box of bread, I think it is not you who slammed the door, it was him.

    What's more, he doesn't usually care much about you, so I think he probably doesn't love you at all, he just loves the feeling that you spend money on her, just the feeling that you spoil her and love him, and listen to him for everything.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Sisters, meeting different people, are individualized, according to local conditions.

    You can't be used to judge your boyfriend good or bad in the first place.

    There are a lot of guys who like simple, frank, straightforward girls, girls who don't like it, beating around the bush.

    Emotions you like, tell him directly, don't let him guess.

    Like new, you tell him directly, don't let him ponder.

    A lot of boys are pigs, busy with work pressure, and their brains are not on top of it.

    To be honest, if he is such a boy, I think it is much better than a boy with a belly and intestines.

    I have a friend whose boyfriend is, like you say, dumb and doesn't understand anything. My friend thought he was selfish, but ended up marrying him anyway. Married, the boy gave her my wife, my friend a big diamond ring, tens of thousands of dollars, my friend was surprised and asked him why he was so stingy, why is he so generous now?

    You never took the initiative to say anything to me before the young man said, if you want me to believe you.

    So, I see that you have so many answers that are unsatisfactory, and it is estimated that you don't want your boyfriend to be selfish with the certainty of ease. I suggest you change or change your ways, be blunt, say whatever you want to say and see if he is stingy. Or you don't want to give your best talk to him to see if he has any difficulties or unspeakable secrets.

    Overall, I wish you happiness!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    She's just there to spend your money. For you to satisfy her financially. To love someone is to know what to do for her.

    No attempt to reciprocate. But you are also not financially generous. She should think about you too.

    Can't spend your money all the time. Women should be self-reliant. Make money by yourself and spend it yourself.

    You can't always rely on men. That's not going to work. Dedicated to her efforts.

    She should also pay for you. You can't be selfish. Think more about others.

    True love is no longer based on material foundations. She's not married now. Then she will marry you in the future.

    Then you can afford it.

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