Am I asking too much? Thank you for your advice

You think about it from your mother's side, you think about it from your wife's side, you know her best, you tell her that this is to make the old man happy, your mother wants to listen to her daughter-in-law talk, and then tell her what to say, your mother will be happier, and you don't need to say too much. You also understand your mother, and you also understand your wife, can't it be solved as soon as the middle is coordinated?

You're not wrong, she can't be perfunctory? En's will always be regarded as honoring the elderly, and this can't be done?

I don't think you're wrong, and a daughter-in-law should also know how to honor her in-laws. And there is a slight lack of care for the elderly. Maybe you don't like to hear it, I think she's very ignorant like that.

If she doesn't change her essence, it's going to be difficult to solve.

If you're nice to her mom, it's not right for her to do that.

After all, the mother-in-law is not the biological mother, and the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law depends on getting along, and if they don't live together, then their relationship depends on your attitude towards her and her mother.

I think it's your wife who is too childish, as a daughter-in-law, it's normal to talk to your mother-in-law more, even if you don't understand, you can slowly adapt to it, no more, the mobile phone will be turned on hands-free, and you translate it to your wife!

Now that she gets along with her mother-in-law like this, does she want to never get along with her mother-in-law for the rest of her life!

To be honest, if I were your wife, talking to an old lady I couldn't understand, and I didn't have any common language, I would feel uncomfortable, maybe a day or two, but every time I had to talk to her, I would be very annoyed, and even take such things as a burden, and after a long time, I may not want you to call me **.

Pampered people, can tell you not to overdo it....

Hmmm....I don't know what she has in mind, though....

Let's understand each other.

One of my relatives, Xiao Li, once made a rather "excessive" request. It was a weekend when our whole family had gathered for dinner, and in the midst of laughter, Xiao Li suddenly made a request that surprised us all.

It turns out that Xiao Li has recently been playing a very popular game, which has a virtual world in which players can carry out various adventures and challenges. In the world of the game, there is a very rare prop that can greatly improve the player's character abilities. However, this item is very difficult to obtain and requires a lot of effort from the player to find it.

Xiao Li has spent a lot of time and energy in the game, but he has never found this item. He wanted us to help him find it in real life, so that he could go one step further in the game. We were all very surprised when he made this request, because it was so "excessive".

We all know that real life and games are two completely different realms, and we don't have the ability to help him find that item in the game. However, as his relatives, we couldn't bear to refuse his request, so we set out on a search journey.

We consulted a lot of people, including game experts, item collectors, etc., but we couldn't find any clues about the item. We've also posted a search notice online for someone to help. However, as time passed, we still still hadn't found the prop.

Eventually, we had to confess to Li and tell him that we had done our best, but we still couldn't help him find the item. Although Xiao Li was a little disappointed, he still expressed understanding. He said:

I know you've done your best, thank you. I'll keep trying. ”

This experience made me deeply realize that some requests are indeed too "excessive", and we should learn to refuse these unreasonable demands, rather than blindly satisfy them. At the same time, we must also learn to understand and respect the feelings of others, and try to avoid causing distress and harm to others.