Why is it so difficult for a divorced man with children to find a daughter in law?

I can understand what you say, because I have three best friends around me who used to be in this situation, one was divorced in 2005, the child was 8 years old at the time, and I had contact with many women during this period without success, and it was not until last year that I met a woman who was also divorced and formed a family, and the other divorced in 2002, the child was 7 years old, and I only met a suitable marriage the year before last, and the other was divorced for a year, and I have not yet started a family. As for the reasons for the difficulty, I think there are many reasons, with a child, and the economic situation is not very ideal, the woman will naturally feel pressure, and the current stepmother is not easy to be. On the other hand, the man also has a psychological disorder

Psychological disorders come from two main sources; First, the marriage is frustrated, people will become very cautious, and it is inevitable that there will be extreme psychology towards women, a little bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of the feeling of the well rope, so that they can not devote themselves to new feelings, women can not feel his sincerity, who is willing to entrust for life! Second, because I have children, I always feel that my stepmother can't be good to my children, and I have an overkill mentality, so I am also contradictory and can't devote myself wholeheartedly. As for the woman's reasons or the reasons for the divorce with children themselves, I personally think it is not the most important, the most important thing is their own psychological barriers, the front two of my friends are under my persuasion, after overcoming the psychological barriers, sincere devotion to female friends, and finally got the reward, I often say to them a sentence is:

Only when you treat others sincerely, can you get a sincere response from others, not to mention that we are men, they are women, and women need a sense of security!

Maybe you don't have money or status, there is a divorced man with a child near us, and he hasn't found a yellow flower girl, the reality is like this.

As long as you are sincere to people, it shouldn't be difficult.

Fate There are women who will accept you.

Looking for divorced women. Because divorced women usually know how to get along with their husbands and know how to educate their children.

They all want to find someone who doesn't dislike their second marriage and can accept his children, but there are few such situations in real life.

Very virtuous or also a second marriage, a wife with no children. Because this kind of wife has no children, she will concentrate on his children.

After all, having a child after a divorce will be an extra burden, and I don't think many women are willing to be stepmothers, after all, stepmothers are not easy to be. Of course, there is another situation, if the condition of this man is particularly good, there will naturally be many women who are willing to marry him. Therefore, those that are not easy to find are often because their own conditions are not very good, and they will make the female ** feel stressed, so they can't find it.

The main reason is that such a man's child will become a burden, and many women may not be willing to raise other people's children.

Because this will really put a lot of pressure on each other, and it will be difficult to meet a particularly suitable person, and it is impossible for everyone to be good to their children.

Because men with a child have a lot of pressure in their lives, and with children in the middle, men will not treat women wholeheartedly.

Because children are stumbling blocks, no one wants to be a stepmother as soon as they enter the door, and there is a child in the middle, and the two are prone to conflicts.