The problem is this, my boyfriend and I have met and been in love online for more than a year

Hey, I sympathize with you. First, you have come to live in his house without going through the door, and you are not independent in terms of income now. Nor was it recognized.

Plus, your boyfriend doesn't fully understand you. If you're the only one in your family, I think it's better for you not to be with people. It's good for everyone.

There are some aspects where you have to be independentYou're completely giving yourself over now, the problem is that you're not married yet. Already, he's a little bit less of cherishing you now.

It's still necessary to communicate more. I think about the position of the problem is different. You'd better think about yourself now.

Actually, I'm also annoyed, because of my girlfriend, everyone is the same.

Too stupid, he's yours, first love, right? You'll regret it.

Why should you choose online dating? What was the original intention? Accidental, lonely, or something else.

In my opinion, maybe online dating will have true love, but what I have seen and experienced tells me that love does not mean that two people can be together if they love each other, and there is no shortcut to love, only management.

It's not that online dating is doomed to fail, but the difficulties that online dating two people have to overcome, and the hardships they have to go through are more and more difficult. So most online dating is gone. I've had online dating experience before.

It's been three years, and it's sad when I break up, because it's hard to be together knowing that it's too far away from each other, but after a long time, I suddenly feel that my former self is very stupid after spending so many days with my boyfriend around me. Since you can't overcome the problem of distance, what's there to be sad about.

So, if you love him a lot, he loves you a lot, and you really want to be together, then run it well. First of all, meeting, that is, making the relationship happen to reality is the first task, otherwise we really can't be together. Secondly, you must know how to be calm after meeting and not behave irrationally, I don't think you can understand it.

After that, you need to get to know each other more deeply to see if it is really suitable. There will be a lot of difficulties in this process. If you insist, then work hard, if you can't persevere, don't be too sad, after all, there will be a person who will grow old with you and love each other in the end.

If it's not him, it's someone else.

It's better to live in reality.

Don't believe in online dating, let's get back to reality!

After two years of online dating, I broke up, and I went to Beijing to see her and didn't pick me up directly**...

Speechless.

If you don't love him, that's the end of the story! If you still love him very much, it is recommended that you have an observant attitude, respond to all changes without change, don't take the initiative and don't complain, wait for the development of the situation like waiting for the next episode of the TV series, because this incident happened before you got married, and God gave you the best opportunity to observe the quality of this man, in a sense, it is a good thing, it depends on how you understand it, and being able to understand it correctly will help you deal with this matter correctly! So try not to use your emotions to influence his inner choices, and calmly wait for his next move

1) If he chooses her, then leave him decisively, and resolutely cannot beg for nostalgia.

2) If he is just ambiguous on the Internet, does not meet her, and still chooses you in reality, it means that he still has a certain degree of self-control and can continue to be observed.

3) If he meets her and comes back to you because of a difference in his imagination, the same as 1)

4) If he meets her frequently but tells you that he is just an ordinary friend, in reality he still chooses you, the same as 1).

All in all, once there is a meeting with an online dating woman, you can't stay by your side anymore. Because his heart is no longer in you, what's the point of keeping a shell? If it happens after marriage, with or without children, the way to deal with it will be different, during the relationship, the woman has full initiative to make trade-offs, no worries, I hope you can think calmly, smoothly through this small hurdle, I wish you happiness!

By the way, my own personal love guidelines, I only find a single-minded man to fall in love with me, any wavering hesitation I have filtered out, how good it feels to be pampered, when it comes to most of the stealing of men after marriage, if you choose well before marriage, after marriage to manage the relationship well, the nature of men can be controlled within the appropriate range, marriage is not the end of the drama but the prologue has just begun, in short, your current problem is still very easy to deal with, I believe you can grasp it yourself).

Normal, men, only a small part of them don't steal.

Are you born in the 80s or 90s? The nature of men is like this, and I personally decided that since it has happened, it will still be like this in the future, and you finally think clearly, and you can't just think about his previous good, facing the present.

It may be because not copying can be together for a long time, you against you.

Bai himself is suspicious, and don't want others to say what they think is, the most important thing is your own thoughts, think about whether you will miss the other party if he is not around, think about what he is doing and who he is with, or you still don't know enough about him, in fact, what others say is just someone else's opinion, others can't replace you, the main thing is your own idea.

The question is actually quite simple; The two have not been together for a long time; Suddenly met; It is inevitable that there will be physiological needs; After all, we are all young people; If it is only for physiological needs; There must be something wrong with that; The key is to look at the usual; Whether he cares about you enough; Every day, I still want to ask you if you have eaten like before; coaxing you to sleep; If it's still like this; It shows that she still loves you.

If you are in a long-distance relationship, try to ask yourself, do you want to live together for a long time in the future? If he refuses to leave where he is, will you leave everything behind and go to his place? No, just watch it early, you can just love it very much.

Actually, that's it.

kind. Bai likes it.

Du together, I feel that there are many problems, and I scatter

Liking does not mean losing one's mind and tolerating everything about the other person. The values of right and wrong should not change too much. People who keep their individuality are cute, and they are both men and women!

This, to ask yourself, only you know whether you love or not...

A cooling-off period for emotional recovery.

When the opposite sex knows the tense.

Waiting, like a chemical reaction, will heat up and heat up. The higher level will be like glue.

But this heating up requires a height. When it reaches a certain altitude, it cools down temporarily.

This cooling period is not as impulsive as when we first met. Rather, it will be calm to think later.

The cool-down period isn't terrible, you just have to do it the way you used to. No need to change, no need to beg, and no questioning.

Such a phenomenon will occur even after marriage, which is commonly known as the seven-year itch.

How long this cooling-off period is depends on your relationship with your boyfriend. Although some relationships are in the cooling-off period and have no results, please believe that the relationships that can survive the cooling-off period will be more stable than before.

Missing someone doesn't necessarily have to hear his voice. Everything in imagination is often slightly better than reality. The person I miss is also a little warmer than reality. Missing seems to be a very distant thing, but sometimes it is a little closer than reality.

Girls don't deliberately change for anyone, if he loves you, he won't care if you're fat or thin, as long as he's sincere, if he cares about your body and face, then take advantage of the time. If you are really kind to him, related to his knowledge, people are mutual, and I am also a man.

You have been in a relationship for five years, and you know this better than anyone else, and if you don't believe in him, then you can take a good look.