How to know yourself comprehensively, how to know yourself comprehensively?

1.To understand ourselves correctly, we must look at ourselves from a comprehensive and developmental perspective.

2.To fully understand oneself, one must not only know one's own external image (such as appearance, clothing, demeanor, conversation, manners, etc.) but also know one's own internal qualities (such as knowledge, psychology, morality, ability, etc.).

The harmony and unity of the inner beauty and the external beauty play a role in promoting.

3."No one is perfect." Everyone's external image and inner quality have their own advantages and disadvantages. To understand yourself comprehensively, you must see both your own strengths and your own shortcomings.

4.Everyone is changing and developing, and their own advantages and disadvantages are not immutable. We should look at ourselves from the perspective of development and improve ourselves by constantly correcting our shortcomings.

Positioning is the unity of self-positioning and social positioning, and only on the basis of understanding oneself and one's career can we accurately position oneself.

Review your personal attributes.

1) Desires

the ability to do things) at this stage of life.

What exactly do you want?

2) Ability

What are you good at? (General technology and special technology).

3) Personality traits (temperament, nature).

temperament)

Temperament, nature) What type of person are you? Under what circumstances is there the best performance?

4) Assets

Tangible vs. intangible) What do you have an advantage over others?

Each group of people needs to be positioned, and the purpose is to ensure that they continue to develop. But the focus of each group's positioning is different: the focus of positioning is to clarify what you have.

Overestimating or underestimating oneself, attaching too much importance to one's diploma or one's own achievements, and underestimating one's potential too much, so it is necessary to analyze oneself carefully and understand more about social needs in order to position accurately. In most cases, the right way to think is to do what you should do, not what you love.

True beauty comes from one's own inner beauty. The whole cause of this beauty comes from itself, and the outward beauty does not become the cause of its beauty. Nothing is made better by people's praise or worse by people's disparagement.

Marco Aurelius Source: Meditations.

2."There are two kinds of beauty in the world, external beauty can satisfy your face, but it may not be able to give you a lifetime of happiness. Although inner beauty can't give you enough face, it will definitely give you a lifetime of happiness. “

3.The greatness of the mind is not obvious, because it always hides itself, and a little insight is often the whole manifestation of it. The greatness of the mind is far more common than we think. —Stendhal.

4.Who of us doesn't stand on a certain boundary? Few people are completely present, and from the left they may be dead leaves, but on the right they are butterflies; It was a butterfly when it flew, but it was a dead leaf when it landed.

5.To know yourself comprehensively, you must see both your strengths and your weaknesses.

6.**The female protagonist who is not good-looking can meet the male protagonist wherever she goes, feed a stray dog, and the stray cat can also be seen by the male protagonist, and the reality is that when you discover a person's inner beauty, he may have been passed by you before you discover the inner beauty of life, and there are not so many opportunities for you to understand a person, so this tells us how important appearance is.

7.The dining room was crowded, and only there was a seat next to me, and he and I sat together, and we could have at least half an hour of face-to-face conversation, during which he noticed that I was a person with a lot of inner beauty, and noticed me. What a happy encounter! Provenance: The most beautiful time.

8.To fully understand oneself, we must not only know one's own external image, but also recognize one's own inner qualities.

1) Correct self-understanding.

Knowing oneself correctly is the foundation for cultivating a sound sense of self. People's self-knowledge can be divided into two aspects, on the one hand, self-characterization, that is, the influence of one's own character, strengths, interests, hobbies and family, personality weaknesses and so on. If a person is able to understand himself comprehensively and correctly, evaluate himself objectively and accurately, he will act with energy, know himself and himself in order to establish a suitable ideal, and will make unremitting efforts to realize the ideal self.

The other aspect is self-reflection, which is a lifelong process. Frequent self-reflection is the premise of progress, so as not to be self-righteous. As mentioned earlier, there are three main ways to know oneself – empirical, comparative, and reflective.

In addition, college students should also try their best to broaden the scope of life, increase life experience, expand the space for communication, actively participate in activities, and expand social practice, so as to find a variety of reference systems, and rely on these reference systems to understand themselves in many aspects and from multiple angles. It is also necessary to learn to analyze, synthesize, and compare the information about oneself obtained through various means, and to evaluate oneself comprehensively and realistically. We must learn to look at ourselves and others from a developmental perspective and a dialectical approach.

The broader the comparative horizon and the more scientific the method, the more appropriate the self-positioning, in order to give full play to their wisdom and realize their own life value.

2) Be objective to yourself.

1. Accept yourself positively.

To accept oneself is to accept oneself happily and satisfactorily, that is, to accept oneself. Self-acceptance is the core and key to developing a sound sense of self, and it is also a prerequisite for adapting to society. Self-acceptance is not determined by the amount of personal wealth, the level of status, or the quality of living conditions, but more depends on one's own psychological state.

A person who accepts himself can be accepted by others. Such people accept everything they have with a positive attitude, they are optimistic and open-minded about life, can look at their strengths and weaknesses rationally, calmly treat gains and losses, do not exaggerate or belittle themselves, can look at themselves from the perspective of development, do not avoid their current situation, and do not deny themselves with grievances, self-blame or even disgust. In this way, we can cultivate self-confidence, self-reliance, self-improvement, self-reliance, independent psychological qualities and good self-awareness, and become a strong person in life.

2. Hail controls itself well.

Self-control is the fundamental way to improve self-consciousness and self-improvement, the process of actively and directionally transforming oneself, and the process of individual's attitude towards oneself. Therefore, in the process of changing the real self to the ideal self, college students should face the reality, proceed from reality, eliminate all kinds of interference, and position themselves reasonably. And in the process of continuous self-monitoring, self-presentation, and self-correction of the self-adjustment system, we strive to cultivate our own good will quality, so as to achieve effective self-control, and finally realize the ideal self.