I ve loved someone, and I think, in the future, I m not going to fall in love with anyone, is it pos

Updated on psychology 2024-05-05
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's impossible, because even if you can't forget your previous boyfriend (girlfriend), but you don't think about him (her) anymore, as long as you find your own suitable or new suitor, you will remember the present, and I am an example.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I used to think that she was the most important thing in my life, and that without her, nothing in the world would be able to move me, but after a few years, I finally understood that nothing is forever!

    When love comes, the waves are turbulent, and when the love passes, you will find that the sea is still the same sea, and there is nothing left.

    The eraser of time erases everything, good and bad.

    It's just a matter of length.

    It took me 3 years to understand this problem, I hope you don't do this, get out of the depression in your heart as soon as possible, so that your heart will have enough space to accommodate your happiness!

    Bless you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You'll forget about it. It's just a matter of time. I was like that once upon a time. Actually, it's just that you haven't met another person who makes your heart flutter. Of course, you think of him once in a while, and then reminisce about it in your heart. That impulse, that feeling.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's possible. But LZ still has to get out of the shadows as soon as possible Love is wonderful, but it's not all there is to life, right?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1.It is easy to lose oneself if you love someone too much. Because I love it too much, I tend to put each other in front of myself and the other person, and consider being wide and serving in front.

    Will give the other party everything he thinks is good, regardless of whether the other party needs it or not. often only revolves around each other, regards each other as the center of their lives, and does not quarrel with themselves carefully, because they love each other too much. But everyone is an independent individual, no matter how much love and how much love there is, it is impossible to completely integrate together.

    Only when you have yourself can you love others, and if you lose yourself and love, this kind of love will deteriorate. The other person or both parties will be bitter and troubled by the overflow of love.

    2.If you love too much, you will magnify the other person's behavior and language, and sometimes "filter". Because we like each other too much, some subtle behaviors, a few words that the other party may not have that meaning but mobilize our emotions.

    Before I met, I could go back by myself with an umbrella in the rain, and I could also carry the water on the fourth floor by myself, but after meeting the person I loved very much, I would feel aggrieved when I drank water and twisted the bottle cap, and if I didn't help me twist the bottle cap, did I not love me anymore. That's the difference.

    3.Ordinary things can have a sense of disparity, causing a sense of disappointment. Because I love each other too much, I will definitely crave each other's love, and I feel that the other party knows my true love best.

    In fact, love can bring both parties closer, but the estrangement caused by the different experiences caused by the growing environment and experience will not be completely eliminated because of love. It's normal to have estrangement, but once you give it the name of love, the gap caused will be a blow of disappointment. For example, I love **, but the other party is not very interested in **, I am excited to share what I like**, and I feel about ** to the other party, but the other party can't give me the response I want, the kind of response that resonates with me.

    It's a normal thing, but because I love each other, it's because I love each other very much, so I'm disappointed.

    4.There are several situations when you love too much, one is that both parties are in this state, and the other is that only one party has this state. In the second state, the other party's love is not so strong, which will make the party who loves too much feel that the balance of love is tilting, and will feel that he has given a lot and has not received the love he deserves, and he will be insecure, and he will always worry about losing the other person before.

    5.Everything has a limit, beyond the limit of the thing itself, what is reasonable becomes unreasonable.

    6.A final digression. Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance, and I hope everyone will love themselves first. Be a love brain for yourself. You have yourself before you can love others.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If it's because you put all your eyes on that person, and that person's words are like a holy decree to you, you don't have to do anything else to implement, and you have to achieve the satisfaction of the other party's code, without caring about whether you are working hard or not.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You love Li Hongsong, a person can love and tremble to the point of losing himself. It shows that you are a very humble Zheng person. You can go and love someone. But it must also have its own personality and dignity.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If there was no one in this world who loved you, would you still love yourself?

    I will. And I'm going to pour all my love into myself. Let the whole world be my free space.

    First, I will be free from the emotions of anyone else. If there is no one in this world who loves me, then I will be accompanied by my feelings. When the time comes, I will put my feelings into every corner, to feel the comfort of the breeze, to feel the company of the streams, to feel the cool air in the woods in the morning, to feel the flow of my own feelings.

    Second, I also have to record every experience I feel in a small notebook. Let the me in the small book be the past me, I can take him with me, feel the company of another me to myself, and even open the book, let the present self talk to the past self. In addition to the past book, I also want to bring a book of the future.

    Write my own expectations for the future in my future notebook, so that I have a new partner. To love yourself well, study, work and life must be carried out in a rhythmic and orderly manner, go out and dress yourself well, be in a beautiful mood, be the best yourself, confident, elegant, generous and decent, maybe the next moment you will meet true love, you will be glad that you are in a perfect state.

    Third, the past partners are used to keep their hearts quiet and maintain a warm and stable sense of belonging; The future partner is used to keep your heart yearning and maintain an infinite outlook on life and the world. In this way, even if no one in the world loves me, then I will get my own full love and companionship! Because loving ourselves is never controlled by the environment, and we become what we like, only protecting our feelings and loving our emotions.

    Eventually, if we live in a comfortable way, we will surely become a person who we can't help but fall in love with. Loving yourself never needs to be deliberate, you just need to let yourself be sincere with your heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course you will love yourself, because everyone is an independent individual, it does not mean that you have to have someone to love you in this world, everyone is selfish, you should learn to love yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course it is, loving yourself is the most important thing, and everyone in this world needs to love themselves in order to be able to become very courageous.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I will still love myself, whether anyone loves me or not, I have to learn to love myself, because no one can really empathize, so taking care of yourself is the most important thing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If no one likes themselves, if they can do this, it's really powerful, of course it's a narcissistic person.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I still believe in love, but I don't expect it to happen to me. We always expect love to come to us, but when love brings a serious trauma to a person, when a person's whole sky is gray, whether love can still take root on the road of this person's life, perhaps only time can give the answer.

    The sweetness of love is intoxicating, and the sadness of love is desperate. I once experienced a love that was both intoxicating and desperate, how sweet the love phase of two people is, and how sad it is when the breakup comes. This love life has brought too many changes to my life, which can't give me a new perspective on love, and it also makes me make a cross about love in my heart.

    For a long time, I felt that I could no longer love, because of the heart-to-heart and lungs that I had been, and in such a state, how could I fall in love with someone?

    This may be the mental state of many lovelorn people for a long time, but this kind of sadness and despair, this hesitation and helplessness about love, it is difficult to dispel a person's longing for love, and it is difficult for a person to disbelieve in love at all.

    I still believe in love, but I don't believe it can happen to me. No matter what time it is, I am very willing to believe in the existence of love, because this is a pure land in my heart, and it is also the white moonlight in my memory. It is precisely because of the beautiful longing and yearning for love.

    But although I still believe in the existence of love, it has become extremely difficult to convince me that love will happen to me. Maybe it's because I'm not confident enough, maybe it's because I've been hurt, maybe it's because I've really lost interest in love, I'm willing to watch other people's love beautiful and sweet, but I don't want to believe that love will happen to me again.

    Love is different at every stage of life, and whether you feel like you can still fall in love with someone or not, we can't be sure of the future emotional path. Perhaps only if one person always believes in the existence of love, love may come one day in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course, I still believe in the existence of love, although I can't fall in love with someone, it doesn't mean that there is no love, so don't look at the problem too subjectively.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes. Because other people are still very happy, and there is love between them, I will still refer to them.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    will believe that because there are many people around you who are in love, it is very sweet, so love will always exist, but it is not suitable for you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I still believe in the existence of love, because my inability to love someone is a personal reason, and it has nothing to do with love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When I can't fall in love with someone anymore, I believe in the existence of love, because I think that even if I think that there is no love, then others will have love.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When you feel that you can no longer fall in love with someone, I feel that if you say this, you will not think of the bits and pieces of that person, let alone desperately forget, even if you think about it occasionally, you will smile indifferently. Even though the two of us have parted ways and the story between us has come to an end, I am still willing to let go of the past and look forward to a new love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I believe, after all, love is beautiful and sweet, there will always be the right person, and wait, there will always be someone who is also waiting for love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Of course not, when you feel this way, you won't believe in the existence of love anymore.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I believe it. I believe in love at all times, and I look forward to it. Even if I have been disappointed in a relationship, I still will not give up on love.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I also believe in the existence of love, because everyone has love, and everyone will experience it in their lifetime, so they believe it very much.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Believe. There is still love in the world, but I am not so lucky to meet it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I won't believe it, love is dispensable in my eyes, it's no longer a necessity, I won't put it in an important position.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes, but I will feel that love will not happen to me, and I will only believe that love will happen to others.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I still believe in the existence of love, even if I can't fall in love with someone anymore, other people around me have love, I haven't eaten pork, and I've seen pigs run.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I'm going to believe it, I don't think the person I really like has yet to appear, so I'm not going to lose hope, I'll keep waiting.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    That's right. According to statistics, a person will meet about 5,000-30,000 people on average in his life, and the probability is that this is a kind of scientific counting on a computer, which means multiplying by 10 - to the power of 7). The probability is extremely small.

    After that, the next two numbers are even closer to infinitesimal when calculated, and there is no practical significance in calculating them. The chance of people being able to meet each other after meeting is about 1-3 people.

    A population social scientist once said: the ratio of communication between people is very small, two strangers can meet is one in the hundreds, if they can say a sentence will be one in hundreds of thousands, if they can become friends the probability will be one in a million, if they become a confidant the probability will be one in ten million, if they become a partner finally the probability of one will be one in a million.

    Calculation of the probability of people meeting each other.

    The world's population is more than 6 billion, and a person has 80 * 365 = 29,200 days in his life, and he can meet about 1,000 people on average every day. The total number of people met in a lifetime is 29200 * 1000 = 29200000 people, the probability of meeting is 29200000 6000000000 =, and you will know about 3000 people when you live to 80 years old, and the probability of acquaintance is 3000 6000000000 = 5 in 10 million).

    Half of the 3,000 people you have known in your life are of the opposite sex. Here only the love relationship that conforms to the popular trend is calculated, that is to say, the average person chooses the love target among 1500 people, so the probability of falling in love with a person within the range of choice is: 10 1500 = 7 per 1,000), the so-called love requires you to love him, and he loves you to be called love.

    The probability that two people will fall in love within the selectable range is: 49 in 1 million).

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