How do you get along with your girlfriend?

Meng Ziyun: "If you are poor, you will be good to yourself, and if you are good, you will be good to the world." "I don't know what you said is because you are poor?

Or is it just afraid of provoking right and wrong, and can only take care of their own good, and do not care about other things outside the body and people outside the body? If it's just the latter, getting along with your girlfriend for a long time will naturally change a little, and you can also get the warmth that you didn't get before from the details she cares about you, and realize that sometimes getting along with people is not only troublesome and right and wrong, but also has a lot of warmth and joy.

If it's because of the former, just because family or personal conditions don't allow you to be alone, you don't have to worry, you can choose to confess your conditions to your girlfriend, a person who can be your girlfriend believes that she also knows your situation, and can understand the inconvenience caused by your financial predicament, maybe she will help you. If you feel embarrassed to talk about your family background directly, you can also use the form of storytelling to tell her the story of your childhood, or you can be open-minded and tell her your state of mind at that time. If your girlfriend understands you well enough, she can also help you find a lot of jobs that can increase your income.

Today's girls are sometimes exposed to a much wider range of the world than boys. So the most important thing is to use sincerity to her, sometimes it doesn't matter with you alone, you just need to use your sincerity to relate, share your feelings with her in a timely manner, sad or embarrassed, many things between lovers are caused by suspicion and stubbornness, not naturally there is any contradiction, sometimes everyone talks about emotional intelligence, but in fact, emotional intelligence is not emotional intelligence is not important, the important thing is communication, especially with girlfriends, girls can rarely guess what boys think, and it is even more difficult for boys to guess girls, But the best way to solve these difficulties is to communicate, tell her what you really think, even if you don't understand, tell her directly that you are a little stupid and don't understand what she means, at this time few people will care about you, but will feel really cool and cute.

After we have been accustomed to living and getting along with ourselves for a long time, we often feel lost or uncomfortable after finding a partner. I don't know how to deal with people's feelings, but I still like to get along with my own life and work. Therefore, they may not know how to love their girlfriend better than ordinary people, and their emotional intelligence is lower than others, and they don't know where to go.

Here are a few small opinions to illustrate this problem, first of all, for the special creature of women, we still need more patience and opinions from boys. Some girls need to be coaxed most of the time, not to be left to dry. Most of the time, girls will choose to face their boyfriends and people close to them with anger and nonsense, because for girls, this is the person they feel is the closest and most trusted, and they will not blindly face it with their own cold attitude, but will choose to face it with enthusiasm and coquettishness.

At this time, the boy should not feel irritable and powerless, you have to adapt to such a lifestyle so that you will deserve the capital of love and girlfriend. If you are used to living alone and don't know how to take care of people, then you choose to learn and progress, after all, everyone has the first time they fall in love, this is something that no one can stop casually. It is you who know how to mediate and forge ahead, otherwise the girlfriend you worked so hard to find will soon be snatched away by others.

When you want to do something, you should first think about the other person's feelings and thoughts, and take into account some of your boyfriend's real feelings so that you don't seem embarrassed and overwhelmed. So learning to care about other people is what you really have to do.

People who are good at themselves are more independent people, and they must know how to dedicate when they get along with their girlfriends.