How do you convince yourself to forgive your friend for some minor faults?

There are a lot of tedious things in life, I feel that no matter what things have to be seen a little bit, but everyone's mentality is different, different, I feel that my mentality is very good, no matter what kind of things I encounter, I will treat them rationally, think calmly, and then calmly solve these problems. Everyone has different friends, and everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, and the opposite is the same, but some friends have too many small problems, and it may be a little rude for you to tell others directly, and you feel particularly uncomfortable, so you can forgive them for their small problems. When I was in college, I made a few close friends, each with different characteristics.

Let's talk about one of them, he is a very real person, but when we play together in life, this person is very untruthful, and he gets angry at every turn, but he usually has nothing to do, the college time is relatively happy, there is more spare time, occasionally playing cards in the dormitory, he loses the game, we start to coax him, so it annoys him, in fact, what is the need for this, the size of a sesame seed, but I didn't say anything, just let it be, people are annoyed, We can't be so careful, continue to do it with him, after all, under the same roof, usually play very well, and there is no need, and then come to a joke, it's okay, my other friends, sometimes I can't stand him like this, but we can have a magic way, different personalities, and different tempers, we don't take it seriously, after all, we are a big person all day long, there is no need to make contradictions. Find the little faults that others have, look for them in yourself, and try to make yourself perfect. Maybe it's because of our youth, we were young and vigorous at the time, who could not have an impulsive time.

In the eyes of others, you may have too many small faults, and if you want to overcome them, you must first forgive others for their small faults. <>

When I was young, I also liked to make friends, and I always felt that people who could talk to anyone were very powerful, and when I grew up, this mentality was actually slowly changing, not because I became indifferent, but because many people with different views really couldn't be friends, and the people I recognized that I could accept would slowly approach, and the relationship became better little by little.

But people will always stumble when they get along with each other, life is not always static, even your best friend will have problems, what should you do if you don't have this time? You can't break up because of a little problem with the other party, I think especially in dealing with interpersonal relationships, it is very reflective of a person's emotional intelligence.

I don't like that my friends always belittle what I like, such as I like a certain European and American actress, and my friends may speak ill of her next to her. Although I'm very annoying, I can't always scold him, usually at this time I explain patiently, of course, because the relationship is too good, so I don't speak politely, and it's useless to explain patiently under normal circumstances, so at this time I will comfort myself on the one hand, my friend is my own choice, endure it, and at the same time try my best to change the topic.

It's also a skill to change the subject, say something that the other person is interested in, talk about interesting facts about the game, and what moths happened in the game, so that everyone is happy.

If there are other problems, such as I can't stand my friends always taking me or using my things without permission, I usually persuade myself not to be too stingy first, anyway, there is nothing valuable, the tone must be paid attention to, and then talk about it in a negotiated tone, or ask with a question, where did my xx go, did you see it? If he says I'm going to run out and put it anywhere, I'll say don't put it in the future, I'm easy to find it.

In short, it also takes skill to get along with friends.

Forgive or not? Gotta do whatever you want!

If you are still willing to be friends in your heart, you can consider it.

I don't want to be a friend anymore, so why bother to negotiate to strengthen myself....Some sadness can be put down....

Some hurt stupid scum....

Why do you have to forgive, you can not forgive.

Don't have any psychological pressure, and there is no need to pay attention to the moral kidnapping of others.

Sincerity is nirvana.

1.Apology must be sincere, whether the other party is your best friend, your relatives or your colleagues and friends, as long as you find that you have done wrong, you must have the courage to admit your mistakes, only with a sincere attitude, in order to resolve the other party's knots, two people can release their previous suspicions, get back together. The first thing to do is to be bold and say sorry.

2. Have the courage to admit your mistakes. The reason why you apologize must be that you realize that you have done something wrong, then you need to be brave enough to admit your mistakes in front of the other party, and try not to give yourself reasons, so that your good friend will have the feeling that you are always shirking your mistakes. Therefore, it is also important to face your own mistakes, clearly understand them, and explain to the other party the fact that you have done wrong.

In addition to this, it is important to say that you will pay attention to it in the future. You must know that a relationship, whether it is friendship or love, needs to be managed, whether your apology is sincere, in fact, it will ultimately fall on your behavior, that is, in the future when you get along and interact, whether you will have such similar mistakes, hurt the other party again and again, this may be the other party is very concerned. Therefore, you should explain to the other party the fact that you will correct your mistakes through your actions, for good friends, this is not a shame at all, and this is a good way to manage relationships.

Secondly, you can also express your expectation of understanding and tolerance towards hope, believing that as long as the attitude is sincere, your good friends will understand and tolerate you.

I feel that it can be forgiven, as long as you make a mistake, change it, start over, give others a chance, forgive others is a kind of open-mindedness, forgive yourself is a relief, learn to forgive you will find that you are relaxed, happy, confident, mature.

Sometimes, some words and practices of friends may hurt you, family members, colleagues misunderstanding and return to make you distressed, there are many things in life that make you not as you wish, or even painful, why not change the way of thinking and learn to forgive? Forgiving others is an open-mindedness, and forgiving oneself is a relief.

If you don't forgive, the hatred or resentment buried in your heart because you don't forgive is often due to our own narrow-mindedness, low self-esteem, vanity, inability to let go, and lack of objectivity. Just like we often don't forgive someone for unintentional hurt, don't forgive others for the inconvenience they accidentally cause to themselves, don't forgive the blows of competitors, all of these will make us miserable and unhappy, we often have a knot of depression in our hearts, we carry the burden of the past and can't let go, and it affects the happiness and happiness of the present and the future. You step on the blooming flowers, and the flowers leave you with the fragrance of flowers; You pushed open a door and window, and a fresh fragrance blew outside the window; You have climbed over a mountain, and the scenery on the other side of the mountain is even more charming; You wade through a small river, and when you see the ocean, you will feel so wide ......

Think about it quietly, is it necessary? Everyone's life passes in a hurry, just a few decades, it's too late to enjoy it, it's hard to be a day, and it's a day of happiness, why let these trivial things always exist in your future life? Why let those unpleasantness disturb our vision?

Why should those who have abandoned you and will not appreciate your blindness still exist in your mind? Learn to forgive.

I will find that those who are confident, fulfilling, open-minded, generous, and happy in life are more likely to forgive others.

When you apologize to a friend who has hurt and hurt you, I don't think you should be easily forgiven. Because people respect and love themselves, they can get the respect of others for us. For those who have hurt and harmed us, even if we want to forgive him, we must make your tolerance and generosity weighty and valuable.

In this way, others will learn a lesson, change themselves, and take you seriously. If I choose to forgive him, it means that I am relieved of this incident, and it can no longer affect my mood or aspect. When he apologized to me, it may not be clear that he is really awake, and my choice to forgive him can just show that I don't care about this matter anymore.

In life, there are always a lot of unsatisfactory, if you want to hold a grudge against each of you, then in fact, life is quite bad and unhappy, so treat some things if yes, people want to be happy, be happy and strive to look forward. In fact, everyone will encounter those things that they feel are particularly unforgivable in the process of growing up, but people may feel that these things are particularly indifferent. Everyone has their own things to worry about, and some people like to joke about you about things that you care about, and then if you get angry, they will think that you are so stingy.

I'm really annoying this kind of person, you don't know what other people's suffering is, so don't talk nonsense there. In fact, we all know that forgiving someone is actually a way to yourself, because you let yourself go, and at the same time, you let others live in their hearts, and they no longer feel guilty. Of course, in real life, there will always be a lot of injuries, harms, there are deep and shallow, if these injuries, the harm is not particularly deep, and can not bring you a huge loss, or cause a huge impact on you, then for such injuries, harm, we can choose to forgive the other party, there is no need to hold on.

There is a good saying, what others do to you is what you do to others. For those who know gratitude, he can also perceive your tolerance and generosity, and for those who have no heart and lungs, he will only think that you are easy to talk and bully, and even laugh at you in his heart and cowardly. For your kindness and your generosity, such people will not care, and will hurt you with greater hurts, hurts, and harms you.

In fact, if you want to forgive and hurt your friends, then this situation is to let go of yourself, to really let go, and don't care about it in your heart. The past is so natural that it can be forgiven.

It's normal to have a grudge, as long as you face these things, I believe you will get better slowly.

I absolutely disagree with the statement of the first floor, if you want to have a tolerant heart, you must first have great tolerance for the people around you, including family, friends, and relatives. Don't worry about the little things... Quality is cultivated... Positive psychology is recommended...

Say to yourself that this is the way things are