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That's a very good question, and it's actually something I'd like to ask as well. It's a pity that no one has paid attention to it yet, and I really want to know everyone's answers. At present, I think the biggest bug in life is that women can't have children at any time when they think they should have children, I understand that if a woman has not seen much of the world before the age of 30, but she is already past the best age to have children, when she is in her 50s and feels that her love life can tend to calm down and she is mature enough to be ready to raise a child, due to biological reasons, having children has become more difficult than before.
Why is life not the best way to grow up for every child or for everyone?
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Because there is no support, you can only rely on yourself, any attempt and failure is too costly, if it fails, my father will be the first person to laugh at me, he said not long ago, if you can't do it, don't blame me for looking down on you, you deserve it. Therefore, every exam, every choice, every step is taken carefully, and I care very much about the result, because there is no way back. In addition to facing fierce competition alone, I also have to take into account the feelings of my parents, think about whether I can improve their lives, take them out for travel every year, and fulfill their dreams.
Because no matter what, I can't choose, I still love them. The children of the so-called poor are in charge of the house at an early age. Fortunately, I'm not too bad, and it's okay to read.
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Although I'm tired of talking about it, I still have to talk about my broken character. Not good at communication, not good at performance, forbearance and evasion in case of trouble. When I was looking for a job, I was still with my first officer.
At that time, the six gods had no owner, and asked the family how the SF was, but the family didn't know, so it was good to ask. And since I went to report to the unit, I have a strange feeling, but I escaped from the psychology and integrated into this environment. I was out of place, pretending to be harmonious.
Forbearance and evasion, this is really a real shortcoming. In order not to talk to others, I even prefer to guess on my own with some technical problems. That's it.
The work treatment is very poor, and my own expenses are not large, so I can endure it. I've been working for almost 10 years, and I still don't feel like I'm okay here. I feel like I'm getting sick about to behave like this.
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When it comes to work, elderly and unsuccessful employees are not competitive, and even if they go out from the gate of state-owned enterprises, they have to start a stormy life, and they have to drag their families with them. Of course, you can't just quit your job. This world is a world where entropy is always increasing, milk mixed into coffee, will never separate itself, and going with the flow is basically going backwards, and when you get old, you will be old, and you still have to move.
Although it was tiring and troublesome.
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Choose to let go when you should forgive, and choose to be alone at the age when you should be married. A person who is not very good at expressing emotions, but chooses a profession that expresses emotions. But I'm also glad that the choices I made in the past and the road I traveled made me who I am today.
I express in my profession feelings that I am not good at expressing in life; When I found that the world was getting bigger and bigger, and I was qualified to explore; let go of the enterprising spirit, but changed to more comfortable time; But no matter what, in the future, we must learn to believe and believe in the power of believing; Learn to be braver, even if it's brave enough to let go.
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After I left the public institution, I went to work for a private company, and at first I did very basic writing work. Later, there was a new project that no one in the company had ever done, and the leader asked me if I would like to try it, and I agreed. After a few months of success, the project is still making money for the company.
Of course, I've also messed up projects, such as Mini Programs, but since it's a challenging project, no one will really blame you if you mess up.
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Everything is fate, and nothing is up to anyone.
Yes, from the moment we were born, we were already involuntarily. Our origins, our times, have determined how many bugs we have to fix in this lifetime. Have you ever thought that many times it's not that you don't work hard enough, it's not that you're not smart enough, it's just that you're not lucky enough.
Different times and different families may create a different you. It's a pity that we are often just sentient beings, drowning in the long river of history to talk about judgments. It is often easier to create heroes with changes than it is for heroes to create situations.
Successful people are successful only because they have fewer bugs, or because their bugs are easy to deal with. For ordinary people, the beginning of one bug often leads to more bugs.
Throughout our lives, we are in the process of constantly fixing bugs.
Sadly, there are some bugs that you can never fix.
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People live their lives and hope to improve themselves in all aspects. That's because we firmly believe that human beings are imperfect. The soul always wants all kinds of new experiences to learn from itself, so it forces life to move forward, and whenever we encounter obstacles, we learn a new lesson.
What is the purpose of spiritual practice? It is not to distance oneself from the laity, nor to comfort oneself in the face of suffering, but to be able to experience everything without moving in various circumstances.
The outer world is the manifestation of the inner world, and when you feel that your heart is not perfect, the outer homework will follow, and what we have to deal with is not the ups and downs of the heart, but how to grow from each homework, and then cultivate a higher version of the mind.
The transformation of consciousness is the root cause behind it, and if one learns how to talk to consciousness, all possibilities can be created.
Every step of life is fraught with danger, but maintaining the highest level of joy is relatively the right thing to do, and if you can grieve for things that don't make sense, why can't you just rejoice without reason?
Life is a program that keeps escalating in bugs. Don't be afraid of challenges, don't resist change, just follow your highest excitement, and life will gradually return to the best of its best.
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