Grandparents are used to children, and children are not used to being presentable!

Updated on parenting 2024-05-09
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    That's it for intergenerational pros! It's normal, as long as you two don't follow suit!! Nothing big!!

    Just set the right values for him!! Let him know that some things are insurmountable!! For example, beating people, scolding people, taking people's things or something!!

    This situation requires strict education, and no one can stop it!! Some people think it's fun for children to beat this and scold that when they are young, and they laugh and coax!! In fact, the consequences are very serious!!

    Children and grandpa kiss, they like to mess with grandpa, this is normal!! The two of you are going to play a harsh role, and you are not allowed to mess with you unreasonably!! But children, especially their own children, who don't like it!!

    When you are sensible and obedient, you should still be petted!! Just don't spoil blindly!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can't get used to your child like this, not to mention that he is only three years old, and if he continues like this, he will develop bad habits.

    This grandfather's intentions are good, this is his grandson, and he will definitely love him, but this kind of love is actually doting, which is not good for the child and will make the child dependent.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Take the child as a family of three, don't live together, the child will fade after a long time, you are educating well.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The next generation hurts, and it is recommended not to let grandparents bring it, including grandparents and grandparents.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It is recommended to take the child out first, stay away from the grandparents first, and then educate slowly.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Education should start from a young age, and the elderly should not be allowed to take care of their children.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    That is, seeing their grandchildren through their own children, and their grandchildren like them very much.

    One. Especially when we are educating children, sometimes children are very angry with you and don't listen to what they say. Even adults have to feed them when eating, so when we shout loudly or are about to do it.

    Her grandmother sat next to the ear of potatoes and couldn't hold it. You see, you hit it and try it. Maybe when we were young, our parents might have kicked us well and sat there to eat.

    But his grandchildren were not willing to give up.

    Two. It is said that beating is kissing, and scolding is love. But in the eyes of parents, their children should be beaten and educated, but in their grandchildren, they are very distressed.

    Not willing to fight, not willing to scold. When children don't study well, we don't listen to what we say. How can you say it and not listen to it?

    We even want to get our hands on him. If you are louder than him, can't you remember it? didn't teach the child down, and called grandpa.

    Can't you just be gentle with him? You see it scared him, don't learn. It's just that there are a few grandparents who are used to it.

    The children are all dancing in front of us. Don't listen to us.

    Three. It is said that letting children participate in summer camps can make children truly become independent, let them know how to cherish the happy life now, and learn to endure some hardships in the living environment of participating in the body. will become stronger.

    So I didn't take anything with me when I left. Parents just want to exercise and exercise their children better. But the grandparents couldn't stand it, so they didn't bring anything, and let the children eat and drink what they would eat and drink there.

    What to do if you're hungry. Secretly put money in the child's pocket. It's okay, don't let us bring it, let's buy it and eat it ourselves.

    told the teacher that he was not allowed to bring his grandparents, but he put them in his pocket. You don't say who knows so many things. Our grandparents kept educating us, and we could only nod our heads and not dare to quarrel with them.

    In order to protect their grandchildren from being wronged, the grandparents tried their best to fight wits and courage with the child's parents. Same as I thought, so be it!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. What you should do is to communicate with your grandfather and grandmother and unify your views on education. For children, what you have to do is to communicate and communicate with children, give children more care, respect children's ideas, try to meet children's reasonable requirements, when children lose their temper because unreasonable requirements are not met, parents can neither unprincipled nor rude suppression, this is not good for the formation of children's character, you can use diversion or cold treatment to solve, you can ignore him first, and then reason with him when his emotions are completely calm.

    Encourage your child when he or she is doing well. In addition, try to enrich your child's life, and you can take him to do another thing when he has unreasonable demands. Communicate more with your baby and guide your baby to vent his emotions in the right way.

    When educating children at this time, you must not use the method of beating, which will only reinforce the child's bad behavior.

    Don't let the old man intervene in the problem of educating the child like a wild hand, even if the child cries hard, he can't compromise and shout, and he can't agree to let the grandmother come over. The mother should communicate with the elderly in advance, and find various excuses when the child is looking for the elderly, and the child will rarely meet with the grandmother in the near future, as long as the old man can communicate well, it is best not to meet for a period of time.

    What you should do is to communicate with your grandfather and grandmother and unify your views on education. For the child, what you have to do is to communicate and communicate with the child, give the child more care, respect the child's ideas, try to meet the child's reasonable requirements, when the child loses his temper because of unreasonable requirements are not met, parents can neither unprincipled nor rude suppression, this is not good for the child's character formation, you can use the way to divert attention or cold treatment to solve, you can ignore him first, and then reason with him when his emotions are completely calmed down. Encourage your child when he or she is doing well.

    In addition, try to enrich your child's life, and you can take him to do another thing when he has unreasonable demands. Usually communicate with the baby Naitong more, and guide the baby to vent his emotions in the right way. When educating children in this period, you must not use beating, which will only reinforce the child's bad behavior.

    When the child has any bad behavior or is in the habit of the royal group, it should be stopped in time and informed in time, which is not right. When children actively correct their bad habits or mistakes, they should be given appropriate rewards and encouragement. In this way, we can promote the formation and development of a good and healthy psychology in children.

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