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Anonymous users2024-02-091. Growth in the pursuit, growth as the result of the pursuit is a reasonable and unexpected harvest, but it is not the goal of the pursuit. The pursuit has its special purpose, and there are two kinds of purposes to pursue: one is for the self, the pursuit of the self; One is for others, pursuing the recognition and permission of others; Both are good or bad, each with its own advantages.
2. Pursue and pursue for self. In the entire history of human evolution, such people are very rare, and all the people who have this kind of thinking are everyone. Confucius and Mencius sages who are constantly running around for the desire of the country to be rich and the people strong and the society to be stable; Kong Ming, who did his best to die in order to repay the kindness of the three times; Mr. Goyanagi, who does not bend his waist for five buckets of rice for the sake of order in his heart.
The pursuit of self is a difficult, thorny cliff, and those who step on the cliff enjoy the beautiful scenery; Those who can't step on it chase to no avail and die on the cliff.
3. Only a very small number of people will pursue themselves, and most people will pursue the recognition of others, because this permeates all aspects of our lives.
4. We are actually pursuing the approval of others every day, but we don't find it ourselves. Study hard for the happiness of your parents; study hard for a compliment from the teacher; For the sake of a friend's encouragement, we stumbled to death; Isn't it? Why do we do this?
Because we are human beings, we are people in society, and as an ordinary person we have our own selfishness; have their own little happiness; Has its own little temper.
5. It is in the process of this pursuit that we find that we can be so good; I found that what I had feared was nothing; I found that as long as I took a step forward, it was a new world. The recognition of others can make us clearly feel our own worth; It allows us to see our present selves clearly so as not to fall into the quagmire; It can increase our self-confidence and make us grow further. The support of others has given me courage, motivation and self-confidence, and the pursuit of the approval of others makes us pursue the purpose.
6. Pursuing the approval of others is different from vanity. The pursuit of the recognition of others focuses on the satisfaction and balance of the inner world, which is different from the material world that pursues vanity; The pursuit of the approval of others is a common people's mentality that craves empathy and understanding, and is different from the arrogant and self-contemptuous attitude of pursuing vanity. It is irrational not to equate the pursuit of the approval of others with vanity.
7. Grow in the pursuit, the pursuit is the process, it doesn't matter what the result is, the important thing is everything that has been had, the most beautiful is the experience, the process is the experience, and it is our most priceless wealth. Enjoy the process, look down on the ending, pursue for the sake of pursuit, don't pursue for my purpose, so that there will be no loss, no expectation for the result, and you can better enjoy the process and enjoy the fun of pursuit.
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