Is it appropriate to ask the other person in detail about the details of their past relationship?

Actually, the first floor is already very well said, but I still want to say a few points. I'm curious, and I like to ask these questions. I asked my boyfriend if he had an ex-girlfriend, and he said it, and I was unhappy and jealous.

Don't say it, I think he deliberately concealed it. People are like that. So I think it's better not to say hello, let it pass in the past, who doesn't have a story in their hearts?

The most important thing is your present and your future.

Do you love him? Do you love him now or in the past? Does his past have anything to do with you? Is he responsible for your past? Is it his fault?

So, since you choose to be together, don't be curious about the other party's past to ask, ask but make the other party feel that you are cautious and have no mind, although I want to know his past, but, once you figure it out, your love will have a lot of hurtful topics to say for the past, which is not good for your relationship, since you have met him now, then accept him now, leave his past alone, and plan for your future life, this is also the future of you? If there is, don't be curious about the other person's past.

Let's get mature!! We are all adults!!

It's very inappropriate、1、After all, it's already in the past、Why bother、

2. It's a pity to say it, it's a scar, why sprinkle salt on the wound, 3. If the other party wants to say it, he will naturally tell you, don't be like digging up privacy, imagine if you like to be tortured by others all day long or the past that you can't look back on?

4. Do you want to give each other great trust, and since you are together, do you have to trust each other?

It depends on whether you meet your favorite star, or do you want to live with that person for the rest of your life?

It depends on the other party's wishes, but it's not quite suitable, and if you want to say it, you will naturally say it.

No one likes to ask questions they don't like, they will have different opinions about you, no privacy, too much inquiry, etc., it's better not to ask.

First of all, the party in love does not need to take the initiative to confess his love history to the other party, and even the word confession is too humble, it should be said that there is no need to take the initiative to tell the other party his love history. You were strangers before you met your current partner, and your feelings had nothing to do with him or her.

Secondly, if you ask the other party about your past love history, you can tell the other party truthfully, and there is a key point here, that is, you can't lie.

For example, if the other person asks if they have a history of cohabitation.

If you really have this experience, tell the other person truthfully, yes, it's okay.

A person who truly loves you, she and he will tolerate your past and respect your past without having to dwell on this issue.

Written at the end of Zheng Hui....Don't take the initiative to confess, it's not necessary. This will only humble you and will have an impact on your relationship.

When we choose a love partner, we must be very concerned about their past. This is not to say that we are haunted by their past, but rather that we want to learn more about them through their past experiences. ......Specifically, through their past, they can understand their personality and temperament, understand their personal situation, and finally determine whether they are suitable for them.

1. By understanding their past experiences, they can understand their personality and temperament.

For both parties in love, in addition to the love agreement, the similarity of personality is also a very important factor. ......The temperament and temperament of two people are not much different, so that they can get along more harmoniously,......Therefore, through the understanding of his past experience, to understand his personality state and temperament, it is very important for two people to continue to fall in love.

2. By understanding their past, they can learn about their personal situation.

Different people, different experiences, different personal circumstances. ......For lovers, it is necessary to have a comprehensive understanding of each other's personal situation in order to determine whether they are suitable for each other and whether they can fall in love with each other. ......Therefore, if you want to fall in love with him, you must pay attention to his past and fully understand his personal situation.

3. Through the analysis of their past experiences, they can finally determine whether they are suitable for themselves.

A person's past experience not only represents his personal experience, but also analyzes the person's information in various aspects of life and behavior. This is very important for getting a complete picture of a person. ......When you have a comprehensive analysis of your past experiences, you can finally determine whether the other party is really suitable for you and whether the two people can fall in love, so that you can make the right choice.

The above is the fundamental reason why I must care about his past.

Asking the other person about their own doubts before deciding on a relationship is something that must be dismantled, and it may directly determine the survival of a relationship. Therefore, it is very necessary to understand each other before falling in love, if the object is not suitable, it is reported that falling in love is also a waste of time and feelings for each other, if it is appropriate, then the two parties will run into each other, and it is a matter of time before they enter marriage.

Here are 12 questions to consider before committing to a relationship:

I'm in love to get married, what do you think?

Are you on the accident table, or on the inside?

Can I keep my distance from the opposite sex?

Can you stand my shortcomings?

My family is not good, do you mind?

Will you be accountable to me? How can I be held accountable?

What is your financial level?

How many times have you been in a relationship before, why did you break up?

What kind of people do you like?

What do you do? How do you plan for the future?

Do you have a car? What car? Do you have a room? Has the loan been paid off?

Are you a blank sheet of paper or a newspaper? Burial.

Before falling in love, couples can ask each other these questions, which can help you get to know each other faster and help you determine if the other person is suitable for you. Of course, you can also ask others according to the actual situation, or ask more, it depends on you, if the other party trusts you enough, he will definitely give the whole picture, if the other party is just bragging in front of you to show off, those relationships are better to end early.

It is a good idea for two people to ask some questions before committing to a relationship. For example, you can ask the other party about their previous relationship history, their work, their age, education, family status, physical health, hobbies, etc. These questions are very important, directly related to the future love status of the two of you, although people say that love is based on feelings, but love in the end is also to enter marriage, if the answers to these questions are very different from what they imagined, then two people will definitely have scruples when considering marriage.

1. Do you have any plans for the future?

Since you want to confirm your relationship, you naturally hope to grow old together.

From this point of view, it is natural to know whether the other party has a plan for the future.

Of course, this question is not convenient to ask directly. But you have to be clear in your heart to figure it out in a clever way.

If the person you like is confused about your future, then this kind of relationship may not go long.

2. Whether the love for you is sincere or not.

Of course, it's not easy to ask this question directly. But the "asking" here can actually be understood through perception.

It's the same question as the one above, we need to look at it from a side perspective.

In fact, in love, through some details, you can figure out the other party's thoughts.

When you are in love, you must understand this truth in your heart. You can't be sloppy at this point.

If the other person is not sincere to you, then you will not be rewarded for your efforts. In this way, your relationship will also end without a problem.

3. Can you accept your shortcomings?

When we first fall in love, we may not think about it.

But when in love, as two people spend more and more time together, this question becomes very important.

I believe many people know that to love a person is to accept all that he has. Of course, this includes the shortcomings of the other party.

Accepting the other person's shortcomings, from a certain point of view, may prove that the other person is sincere to you.

For a person's shortcomings, the person who loves you will definitely accept it. Of course, you also have to know how to change.

However, from the other person's point of view, it should be accepted first, and then talk about other things. Therefore, when you are in love, you have to figure this question out.

4. What should I do if I have a quarrel in love?

If the two of you quarrel, then how should the man deal with it, will he spoil you, love you, and let you;

Although no one can say what will happen in the future;

If there is a real quarrel, then be sure to let him solve it with the method you told you.

5. Can you keep your distance from friends of the opposite sex?

As long as you are with him, then his former friends of the opposite sex and his future friends of the opposite sex must keep him at a certain distance from them.

Don't get too close, don't get too close, because if he gets close to the opposite sex, your heart will be very uncomfortable; And when the opposite sex gets closer, sooner or later there will be problems.

Therefore, block what may happen first, so that you will not suffer in the future.

Marriage is a lifelong event, love is the prelude to marriage, and it is necessary to ask these questions clearly before determining a relationship.