Now on a blind date, do you mind if the other party brings friends to meet together?

Nowadays, there are more and more older unmarried men and women, and blind dates are an effective way to find a suitable partner. If I go on a blind date and bring my friends to meet each other for the first time, I mind. Because a blind date is a bit embarrassing, if several people come together, it will increase the embarrassment of the meeting, and it is not conducive to understanding the blind date.

First of all, the blind date may bring friends together because they are too shy or have no opinions; Secondly, there are too many people to meet and gag, which is not conducive to learning more about the blind date; Finally, if you have a good impression after meeting the blind date, you can meet his or her friends later to understand the other person's life circle.

1. The blind date may bring friends together because of personality flaws

Blind date is originally a thing carried out with a purpose, and it is very unlikely that you will just make new friends through blind dates, so there is no such thing as taking friends to go on a blind date to meet more friends. If the blind date person proposes to bring a friend to meet together, it is very likely that the other person is extremely shy and will not get along with strangers, or has no opinion and wants to listen to the opinion of the friend, and both of these personalities are unpleasant.

2. Too many characters on a blind date will interfere with your judgment of the blind date

Blind date is the first meeting between two people with the purpose of marriage and dating with each other, and the first meeting is very important, and you can roughly judge what kind of person the other party is from the other party's dress, words and deeds. If you meet too many people, it will interfere with your observation and judgment of the blind date, and the other party's friends will definitely only show you the good side of the other person, which may cover up some problems.

3. After you have a good impression of the blind date, you can go to meet each other's friends later

It is actually necessary to meet the friends of the blind date, and you can get a general understanding of the other person's life circle through his friends, but it is not necessary to meet for the first time. The first meeting is mainly to get to know the blind date itself and see if there is an eye relationship.

It is more appropriate to wait until you are familiar with him and then meet up with his or her friends.

Do you mind if the other person brings a friend to meet you on a blind date?

Mind, blind date is a matter of two people, and it is not suitable to bring friends with you, it will be embarrassing.

Mind, the blind date is a matter of two people, and the two people who don't know each other are also added to the third person they don't know will show a very embarrassing atmosphere, which affects the impression of both parties.

Don't mind! If the other party brings a friend, you can also bring a friend yourself, so it won't be embarrassing.

I don't mind, there are a lot of people, and by the way, you can consult some relevant information from your friends, and you can also see your nature from the state of your friends.

You can go and meet, just know one more friend, and the introduction of a friend is always more reliable than the introduction of seven aunts and eight aunts, because he knows what the type you like is like, and what the age of the personality of the object you like is, so you might as well go and meet it, in case it is true love

I think it's time to see it, after all, it's also a kind of respect for friends, and it's also a respect for others, after all, this matter doesn't have much impact on me, maybe it's more suitable.

You can go and see it, since it is a friend who introduced the character should be reliable, in case of a call, it is also a good thing.

Analyze the question of with and without it:

1. Bring a stranger, the first meeting will be a little embarrassing or don't know what to say, bring a person of your own can ease the atmosphere, not to have nothing to say, but also to seem: I have a companion others dare not do (in fact, it is courageous). You can also be a staff officer in the future.

2. Don't bring. If you go there yourself, you will be able to see or judge clearly whether the person is acceptable and will not rely on the opinions of others in the future. Think from the other party's point of view, the other party's original intention is to get along with you alone, and there are outsiders on the side, who will consider what your intentions are (is it perfunctory?). Watch out for?

Don't have a personal opinion? etc.). And one more important point:

I didn't take a fancy to you, but I took a fancy to the people you brought, which is miserable.

It is recommended to go to a crowded place to eat, which is more suitable for the first meeting and to avoid embarrassment.

A principle of psychology can help you solve this problem.

Many people are nervous when they meet for the first time, and in order to relieve their nervousness, they want to bring their friends with them.

It's okay to bring friends, but it's very particular.

Let me give you an example.

Professor Xi, a Chinese-American economist, published an ice cream experiment in 1998. There are two cups of Häagen-Dazs ice cream, and one cup of ice cream A has 7 ounces, and it is packed in a 5-ounce cup, which is super full; The other cup of ice cream B is 8 ounces, but it comes in a 10-ounce cup, so it doesn't look full.

Because although the actual amount of ice cream in the large cup is large, because the cup is large, the amount is very small. The ice cream in the small cup, although the actual portion is small, is very large due to the small cup.

This is called joint assessment.

In the same way, your blind date is also very applicable to this principle.

The purpose of your blind date is to make a better impression on the other person. If your best friend has a better figure than you, a taller appearance than you, and is super good at chatting, you must not take her on a blind date, otherwise you can leave an impression of 8 points on the other party, but because of the comparison, there are only 6 points left.

If you must bring a friend, please bring a friend who is not as good as you, who is not as good as you, who is not as good as you, and who is not as good as you. In this way, if you only leave a 6-point impression on the other person, you will also leave a good impression on the other person with 8 points due to the psychological effect of the joint assessment

I wish you a successful blind date

I'm not very in favor of going on a blind date and taking friends with you for the first time.

Because a blind date is originally a matter of two people, bringing a third person or more people will hinder the conversation between two people, make the conversation between two people stop, and make the topic of two people less and less, and even awkward conversation. Personally, I think that if you really meet for the first time on a blind date, you still don't want to take a friend with you, you first slowly consider him yourself, let people contact him further first, you think it's about the same, and if you can, the second time you meet, you take his friend to introduce his girlfriend, see how the object you choose, he can stand on your point of view for you, because after all, you are looking for the object to say, the first time you take an old friend to go, Your friend's opinion must also be more respectful, so his opinion does not mean that she likes it, you like it, it is not necessarily that he likes it, so if you go on a blind date for the first time, it is better to see it yourself.

But if you go alone, if you don't know the character of the other party, you must pay attention to safety and try to make an appointment in public during the day.

The first time I met on a blind date, I thought I had to bring a friend, whether it was a male friend or a female friend. Note that no matter how many friends you go, don't sit directly at the same table with the blind date, you can watch from a distance, keep in touch with the blind date at any time, and come to the rescue when necessary. This is very necessary.

Since it was the first time to meet on a blind date, both parties at least had a more or less understanding of the blind date from various channels. It doesn't matter if it's the matchmaker's mouth or a TV show. But I still want to see each other in person.

Let me make two assumptions:

1. If you get information from someone else at the beginning and have a better impression of them, you think it's your own food. Then you usually want to go to the appointment with joy and anticipation. to get a glimpse of each other.

If you find that there is a difference between what you imagined when you meet, and even sometimes when the other party opens your mouth, you regret coming to the appointment. If it happens that the other party is his own dish, at this time, he is full of expectations for the final consummation, and his heart must be excited. At this time, it is necessary to be in the objective advice of an outsider's friend.

2 If you don't want to go to the appointment at the beginning, but you have made an appointment and have to go, you need to be accompanied by friends at this time, even if you look at it from a distance, and then you must find a time to save the scene, otherwise you will waste your own time and the time of others. At this time, the appearance of friends is all respect for each other.

Therefore, the first time you meet on a blind date, you have to bring friends.

You take his friend to introduce his girlfriend, see how the object you choose, he can stand on your point of view for you, because after all, you are looking for the object to say, if you take an old friend for the first time, your friend's opinion must be more respectful, then his opinion does not mean that she is what you like, you like it, it is not necessarily that he likes, so if you go on a blind date for the first time, it is better to see it yourself.

I'll bring a friend, otherwise it will be very embarrassing for two strangers to eat and chat together

First, it is your own blind date that is not your friend's blind date, and your own understanding of the blind date's feelings is the most important thing, and your friend's judgment will sometimes mislead you.

Second, if you bring friends with you, it will give them the impression that you don't trust them enough and are not sincere. This makes a bad first impression

Third, sometimes bring friends, it is inevitable that there will be a noisy situation in the process of handing over this change, in order to avoid such a appearance, it is better not to bring it.

Fourth, if you bring friends of the same sex, it will distract the other party, and it will be even more terrible to bring friends of the opposite sex. But I believe most people are not stupid enough to bring friends of the opposite sex

Personal opinion, don't spray if you don't like it.