Can you tell us about the characteristics of mental cleanliness?

People who are spiritually clean are prone to go to extremes when looking at things, and it is difficult for them to justify themselves and convince themselves, and because they have too many ideas, the spiritual environment is prone to fluctuations.

People who are mentally clean are particularly painful, but they are very sober, sober enough to know why they are in this state, of course, this kind of sobriety itself is one of the painful **, because it can't be changed, and the reason why it can't be changed is very simple, because I don't want to change.

There is no doubt about the strong sense of principle. For people with spiritual purity, the principles, attitudes, and perspectives they have to look at the outside world are their unique self-barriers, and they are the pillars of their thinking that they rely on for a long time to survive.

People who are spiritually clean often have strange temperaments, and there are few people who are willing to make friends with them, and they are emotionally demanding of others, sensitive and suspicious, and they are willing to stay by their side, and there are even fewer of them who do not dislike them.

There are trivial things that will be explained clearly, it is his fault, he will explain that you are annoying, not his fault, and will explain that you really believe it.

Psychological cleanliness is a kind of obsessive personality held by a person in his own psychological world, forcing his psychological world to be absolutely clean and absolutely clean, and he must be ready to clean up his psychological world at any time, so that the psychological world is basically in a state of vacuum.

There are more people who are mentally clean than the outside world and always have a very wary attitude, because he himself forms this different thinking in essence to protect himself.

People who are psychologically clean often adhere to principles that are different from many principles and concepts in the current society, and they not only look at themselves with such principles, but also easily use this principle to look at others.

Since childhood, I have longed for the concept of being a "perfect" person, lacking innate self-confidence, and always feeling that I am not perfect enough, not good enough, and unable to do it.

The reason why a person with psychological cleanliness has reached the level of "cleanliness" is because his personal principles are far from the personal principles of ordinary people.

I don't have one unless I'm particularly fond of someone.

What are the manifestations of mental cleanliness in life? Mental cleanliness is a specific type of obsessive-compulsive disorder. But in daily life, we do have such an expression, in fact, I understand the spiritual cleanliness, it mainly refers to morality, ability, these aspects he is very pursuing a relatively high level of morality, so for some people have some violations of rules and discipline or have some ** behavior, he is particularly unaccustomed, and seeing this situation, he may show some strong emotional reactions, or completely escape, avoid interacting with these people.

Characteristics of mental cleanliness: the habit of formulating a lot of principles, always being different from others in various things, and being stubborn and insistent that is not understood. Principles may be based on one's own life experiences, personality, etc.

It's always black and white, love and hate, and it's extreme. Perfectionism.

He is very demanding of others and himself. It is not permissible to act even the slightest bit against one's own principles. Once the principles of the heart are violated, they will despise and dislike this person, no matter how much they liked him before.

Possessive, demanding absolute reciprocity, always like to figure out their own status in the hearts of others, as a criterion for judging the status of others in their hearts. Don't like physical contact, except for people who like it very much. But if the person you like holds someone else's hand and hugs someone else, you will be very unhappy and will deliberately avoid him holding someone else's hand to hold yourself.

If there is someone who does not agree with you, your ** will feel numb and nauseous in your limbs. I like to divide the people around me into grades, and the judging criteria are my own unique principles. Strangers, classmates, friends, and good friends are clearly distinguished, and it is impossible to make a move that oversteps.

In my heart, I also secretly ask others to do this. Accustomed to observing others, sensitive, very sensitive to the malicious feelings of human nature. I hate socializing.,Very withdrawn and inferior.,But deep down it's very arrogant and narcissistic.。

For life, I do not accept any rules imposed on me by the outside world. I am only willing to follow my heart, I am only willing to do what I like, and I am only willing to associate with the people I like. They are extremely disgusted with people they don't like or don't want to see, and they don't want to get close to anything they have anything to do with them.

Strong sense of autonomy and strong personal subjective thoughts.

In life, the manifestations of spiritual cleanliness are as follows:1Accustomed to being clean and clean in life, there may also be a need to insist on changing the sheets every day; 2.

Excessive demands for perfection and a tendency to extremes, anything that does not meet one's own requirements, there will be hysteria; 3.Requires that he must think about things comprehensively, and he is unwilling to share things with others, and he has a strong sense of autonomy.

1. Forcing one's heart to be clean and absolutely clean 2. Be more persistent in feelings, and will pay too much attention to the people you like, and will also ask for emotional loyalty 3. Be morally very perfect, and feel very guilty that what you have done is not noble enough.

I am afraid of dirt, bacteria, and viruses, and I wash my hands repeatedly when I wash my hands, and I spend a lot of time washing every day.

The main features are as follows:

1. Most of them are perfectionists and will have more extreme tendencies. For anything that does not meet their own requirements, they will show hysterical reactions.

2. When you usually do things, you will have a strong sense of planning, and make sure that everything you do is clearly organized, otherwise you will be very irritable.

3. Usually requires that you think about things very comprehensively, and you will be extremely disgusted with people you don't like or don't want to see, and you don't want to get close to things that have anything to do with them.

4. I am not willing to share anything with others, and I will not use other people's things.

5. Strong sense of autonomy and strong personal subjective thoughts.

Spiritual cleanliness is not the same as extreme cleanliness, it is in the mind, moral character is higher than ordinary people, some people say it is a disease, I don't think it's a disease, there may be people who think that things that are taken for granted and realistic, nothing to make a fuss about, but the same thing happens to you, you will feel angry or cold.

After reading it, the answer was a little confused, as one of the world's standard spiritual cleaners, the biggest characteristic is also the most deadly, not accepting reality, humiliating people's moral character, moral degradation, this is simply torture for us, maintaining human morality, morality is the only meaning of living! Often very often because of the reality that happens around them but can not do anything about it, no one will understand, but there is nothing to do, there is no way to save it, maybe people think that as long as they do not violate the law, human nature, morality and morality can be trampled on wantonly, are we who are really sick, or those who have lost their human nature?

A kind of compulsive personality that people hold in their own spiritual world, forcing their spiritual world to be absolutely clean and absolutely clean, and they must also be ready to clean up their spiritual world at any time, so that the spiritual world is basically in a state of vacuum. The more obvious manifestation is in the social aspect, people who have a mental cleanliness or have such tendencies will be extremely concerned about their social circle, will be very strict to examine the people they associate with, once they find that the person they are dating with anything is so-called "dirty", they will immediately be directly excluded from their social scope, even if they know each other, they will be strangers. I don't know if you can understand this, thank you!

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I don't allow myself to betray my lover, and I can't tolerate my lover's betrayal of myself, not only in action, but also in my heart.

I also have this situation and it is very serious, and I am more sensitive to people and things.

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This is the answer written by Casivara, the respondent of Zhihu, on February 5, 2016.

Seriously appreciate the incisive summary upstairs. It's just that I often can't get along with myself.

Listening to the wind is rain, and you have to criticize anything at every turn.

It mainly refers to spiritual cleanliness, for example, if you have cleanliness in your life, you love cleanliness.

High standards for dating: People who can't stand many minor problems have particularly strict requirements for friendship and love, and the assessment standards for people who are dating are particularly high. Contradictory personality:

You will be proud of your character, you will feel inferior because you have offended others, you will be excited because you have chosen the right one, and you will be sad because you have made the wrong choice. Sensitive and suspicious: unable to fully trust the people around you, especially concerned about the words and deeds of others, and will be particularly concerned about a small thing.

Don't rely on: Don't rely on everyone around you, do everything you can, try to do it. Very stubborn :

As long as you think it is right, you will continue to stick to it until the end, never give up until you reach your goal, and never look back if you don't hit the south wall. Strong principled: The requirements for themselves and the people around them are very high, and they are completely unable to tolerate the shortcomings of others, and people who are mentally clean are particularly principled.

I think it's normal to have a mental and mental cleanliness.

Spiritual cleanliness, in terms of feelings, relatives, lovers, and friends will have certain requirements. Probably no one wants to be betrayed. A lot of times people tend to ignore the problem, and there's nothing wrong with focusing on it. Paranoia doesn't count.

Psychological cleanliness, seeing dirty things will unconsciously disgust, and even will be reflected in behavior, retching and the like. Take the initiative to wear a mask and clean up with disinfectant water. As long as you don't overdo it, you're a normal person.

It's a normal person, maybe the details will be revealed, maybe you can't see it at all, and of course there are people who are too paranoid and should be counseled by a psychiatrist.

People with spiritual cleanliness have very little inner happiness and it is very difficult to obtain.

Because there are almost no soul confidants and perfect people in this world, it is difficult for them to sincerely fall in love with a real-life person.

Most people with spiritual cleanliness are delicate and sensitive, and have their own set of perfect world laws in their hearts.

On the surface, they look kind and smiling, but in their hearts they may have scratched their hearts and livers, because many details and flaws that others can't see are clear in their eyes, and they are fresh for a long time.

He may have known you soon and keenly discovered the shortcomings in your personality or behavior, and will no longer be able to face you as if he did not know.

However, most of them won't say all this, because they are embarrassed or not understood, etc., and those people in this world don't know that you are in the diaphragm, which only affects their mood and happiness, and has nothing to do with other people's lives.

Therefore, for people who have a spiritual cleanliness habit, having a mentality of embracing all rivers may be able to **, using philosophy and even chicken soup to accept the freedom of all kinds of frost and heaven, even if it is to paralyze themselves, after all, people need self-deception and comfort.

I can still see the flaws, but I don't let them fill my mind, try to divert my attention, put away the things that are uncomfortable with you, and when I look at you, bring your good points to my main thoughts. In this way, I am happier and easier to open my heart.

Finally, I sincerely remind you that the most important thing in love is a sense of security, and a person of the opposite sex who makes you feel secure will make your love stronger and more reliable.

Respect them, I think that whenever the word cleanliness is used, it means that the person is still a bit extreme, so we can't change their words, just respect them.

This part of the population is generally more sensitive, low self-esteem and insecure. They hope that the other party can love only themselves from the beginning, and at the same time, this part of the people will be hurt more emotionally.

Naturally, respecting everyone's psychological state and outlook on life, we have no reason to stand on a high point to judge others, and we are born to be kind, which is the case.

Fortunately, he won't be annoying, but if his mental cleanliness is very serious, it may lead to a difference in the way we behave in the world, because he will be extremely concerned about the issue of principle.

will understand people who have a spiritual cleanliness fetish, this kind of person is very dedicated to feelings, and at the same time requires the other party to be spiritually dedicated to herself, which is the loyalty to love she wants.

Society is made up of people, with very different personalities, it is impossible to be the same, and you can't measure everyone with a ruler, and I appreciate people who have a spiritual cleanliness.

In fact, I think people with spiritual cleanliness will be very principled, but sometimes they feel very picky, be more tolerant, people are different.

Spiritual purity, this may be the person's own choice. I think everyone has the right to make their own choices, so there's nothing wrong with that.