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Oh, I think the reality of people's lives, feelings are very valuable, but today's social feelings are not all, and he is not annoying, it means that you can live together, most couples do not have too much love, but life reconciles the family affection, but you have to consider the economy, a person who is not perfect for you, then you have to know what kind of life you can live with him, be realistic, find someone who loves you like this, you will save a lot of worry, maybe you have been in love before, There are also people who have liked it very much, so there are no regrets in life, as for who to live with, it depends on whether you can complement each other, so I suggest that you don't give up, because in life, meet people who are good for you, and you don't hate them, there will not be many people who miss it, you might as well try to see it first.
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Do you like how you feel when you're with him? Feeling happy? Looking forward to it? Just relax? Solid? Are they all there?
I read what you said, and I think there shouldn't be. You're supposed to be a normal friend to him, and you don't feel happy in love, right?
It's been two years, and I haven't decided to be together, I think you feel reluctant to him, it should be because you are used to having someone take care of you and someone to take care of you, but this feeling, not because you like him, nor because of love, if you are really together with her and get married, the two of you can be in the same city. When we meet every day, the relationship can be cultivated, although there will be no vigorous love, but the family affection between husband and wife can be cultivated. However, if the two of you are not in the same city in the future and cannot see each other every day, then the relationship between the two of you will be very problematic.
The long-distance relationship itself will pass through time, so that the relationship between the two parties will fade, and there will even be opportunities for others to walk in and intervene. And your emotional foundation is not solid, which is more dangerous, marriage is not child's play, if you get married, if you want to leave again, it will hurt the two people even more.
You can ask him about his future plans to see if he has a plan for your future. If it's still two people who are on opposite sides of the world, I think it's better for you to be ordinary friends.
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Feelings are cultivated, and the so-called beautiful love is illusory.
Your combination should be more appropriate. Of course, before getting married, you should know more about whether he has some vices that you can't tolerate.
Have a good day!
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Perhaps, you should be able to give it a try.
Try to date, try to cultivate feelings, and then talk about marriage.
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An emotionless marriage can face a range of challenges and dilemmas. Here are some of the things that can happen:
Lack of emotional fulfillment: Marriage is based on intimacy, emotional connection, and mutual care. In an emotionless marriage, couples may feel emotionally empty and unsatisfied.
They may lack deep emotional connection, share each other's joys and sorrows, and lack emotional support and comfort.
Impaired intimacy: An emotionally unemotional marriage can lead to an impact on intimacy between couples. The lack of emotional connection can lead to coldness and lack of intimacy in sex. Emotional detachment between couples can lead to communication barriers and conflicts.
Decreased happiness: Couples may feel unhappy and unsatisfied in a marriage that has no emotional foundation. They may crave a deeper level of emotional connection and fulfillment that is lacking in an emotionless marriage.
Evolution of partnerships: In an emotionless marriage, couples may gradually transition to partnership. They can trust that they can focus more on everyday matters, family responsibilities and common interests than on emotional connection and intimacy.
Finding avenues for emotional fulfillment: In an emotionless marriage, couples may seek other avenues to achieve emotional fulfillment, such as finding an external partner for intimacy, pursuing personal interests and careers, or psychologically distancing themselves to escape the realities of the marriage.
However, the circumstances of each marriage are unique. Some couples may choose to continue such a marriage, seeking other ways to meet their needs and expectations. Some people may seek marriage counselling or professional help to try to rebuild a relationship.
And some may end up choosing to separate or divorce in pursuit of a more satisfying relationship.
It is important that everyone thinks hard about their own happiness and satisfaction, as well as their personal needs and values in marriage. Depending on the situation, appropriate actions are taken, which may include communication, marriage counseling, seeking support, or making major decisions.
It's the same ( but I'm already on the road to divorce, I hope you don't be like me.)
Feelings are not lost in a moment, but disappear little by little in the wrong way of doing business.
I'd rather choose to love yours than choose what you love. Hehe, you're lucky and you have to pick. The marriage that loves you can last, but the marriage you love may not be able to hold on.
Love is an important factor in marriage, but it is not the decisive factor, a marriage without love falters, without vitality, motivation and vitality, and only suffering is felt between husband and wife. A marriage without love is immoral, and only the husband and wife have the final say on how long it can last. A marriage without love is unfortunate, and the pain is only experienced by the husband and wife themselves, to see who can survive a little longer, and if they hold on, they will live for a lifetime, and if they can't stand it, they may go their separate ways tomorrow, but the premise is: >>>More
Are you a man or a woman? In this way, don't be together, if you don't have children, get a divorce as soon as possible. The province is more painful later