What would you do if you met a stranger asking for help on the road?

Updated on society 2024-05-29
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There are, and there are people who really need help. If you're still willing to risk being scammed to help someone, you can do so. 1.

    Think before you help, whether you want to "give" or "borrow". If you don't mind whether you want to reciprocate, you won't be disappointed if you don't get follow-up thanks in the end. If you want to borrow and think that the money will come back, then keep the other party's ID number, contact information and any information that may help you contact the other party.

    After the other party fails to contact him as promised, he can also use this information to actively find the other party or even use it to call the police. However, the best way is to spend money for the other person, rather than giving money directly. I can help you pay for gas, accommodation, tickets, meals and the police, but avoid giving money directly.

    2.Roughly judge whether the other party is deceiving people. Learn to observe each other's micro-expressions.

    When he talks about his predicament, does he really give you the feeling of "embarrassed to speak". Did he try to call the police and ask for help? 3.

    Don't dwell on it afterwards. Helping others is done out of kindness. If you forget about it, choose again, and you will probably still choose to help the other person.

    You did what you thought was right, and that's enough. On the other hand, after being deceived, we will learn to help others more intelligently, and in the future, those who really need to be helped will receive more and more help.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I'd like to talk about the situation I encountered. Yes, I'm a very warm-hearted person. Usually when someone asks for directions, I always point it clearly, and I can't wait to send them over.

    If I'm not in a hurry, I'll take them for a while. I have really been cheated out of money a few times on the road. This time, a young and decent woman stopped me, and I thought to myself, I asked for directions, and I turned back and thought how to help her.

    After chatting, I found out that it was a young couple with a two-year-old baby, saying that they came to Guangzhou from Zhejiang to travel, and lost their wallets. Although I thought to myself, the mobile phone doesn't have the function of Alipay and WeChat payment, and he has already contacted friends? But I relented and agreed.

    The weird thing is that they wanted to guide me to a place not far away to buy bread, and I didn't think much about it at the time, but I just happened to see a convenience store next to it, so I took them in to buy food, and I asked her if this was okay? She refused, just said that she wanted to buy something for the child to drink, and then watched her open the refrigerator to get water, obviously saw that she hesitated, did not want mineral water and chose two more expensive bottles of drinks, and then when she paid the bill, her husband came, took another bottle of mineral water and said okay? With a confused face, I drunkenly agreed, okay, okay, just one more bottle of mineral water!

    After paying the bill, I went straight away, they didn't give up calling me, and wanted to take me to the direction she pointed out to buy bread, I heard it unreasonable, I wanted to refute why he had a mobile phone and friends, why did he need to let a complete stranger help again and again? And it's as it should be. I turned around and left, I was wronged.

    I haven't been out for more than a month, and I encountered this kind of thing when I went out. I want to cry. Later, my friends told me that they wanted to take me to the so-called remote place in front of me, and no one knew what would happen.

    Maybe I just casually bought something at the nearest convenience store and got away with it? Now I feel that when you encounter such a person who needs help, you can directly help someone call the police!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    As a person who has been deceived several times, I did this again today, but I don't know if I was deceived, I hate these people who take advantage of other people's compassion instead of obtaining money through legitimate careers, society is so difficult, everyone has to embarrass each other, but when there is such a situation, I often help others stupidly, that is, I think how good it would be if I encountered such a predicament and have someone who could help me, I will be full of gratitude, and I will have more positive energy for others. It was also the first time I went to school in a big city a few years ago when I was cheated of a lot of money at that time, and I experienced the chill for the first time. Of course, in the middle of the night here to see this problem, is to feel a little less considered during the day, met two women with a child said to Hangzhou travel things lost, not yet eat want to at least get some food for the child first, helpless I today to carry the mobile phone broken in a hurry to repair, did not have a detailed understanding of the situation, paid more than 100 to them, they left my ** of course can not get through me, said how to return, at that time I don't know how to say that there is no need to pay back, you go to eat first, I thought about it afterwards, Should ask them if they don't use Alipay, even if the wallet is lost, but young people will generally put money in it, so that it will not affect their consumption, of course, it is possible that they happen to be those people who do not use, if they are really in difficulty, I hope to help them.

    A long time ago, I actually imagined that if I came to a strange city one day, I lost all my belongings, and I didn't have a mobile phone, money, or ID card, would anyone help me? Hopefully, as mentioned above, we can learn to help others more intelligently, but I hope that one day when we help others, we won't have such considerations, and then one of my favorite sayings is that you would do to others what you want others to do to you! The only thing I'm not happy about is that the phone hasn't been repaired and it's scrapped, maybe it's really a little bit back today!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I was deceived the day before yesterday, similar to the above experience, two men, one old and one young, said that the luggage fell on the taxi, no money to buy a ticket, the young man kept saying that he was embarrassed to open his mouth, and finally I was dizzy and didn't hear the problem in their words, so I took 300 to them, in fact, they only needed 277, but they didn't go to change, they kept saying that they would call the money tomorrow, and they had time to invite dinner or something, in short, I didn't hear it, and I recalled it on the way home afterwards, I realized that there were a lot of things wrong in what they said, but I didn't notice it at the time......Later, I played ** as a housekeeper or something, but it didn't work anyway. It's a good heart, but in the end I was sad, and I was quite speechless, as a student who hasn't graduated yet, 300 yuan is also very painful, and I feel that the society is too dark.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Helping people who are in difficulty on the road and being deceived is not that I am simple, but that I am willing to believe that people's hearts are good, the world is still beautiful, and that they have not lost their conscience in money.

    I met two men in their forties and fifties on the road, saying that they were from Shandong to deliver apples to Shanghai, and they had a car accident, and they were still lying in the hospital. I also left my ** number and said that I would definitely return it. In hindsight, I was indeed deceived.

    It's so unpleasant to be deceived, and you can't think that the world is beautiful and that all people are good people. If you lose your conscience in money, I will not curse you with the misfortune of unfilial piety in your later years, and I believe that such parents will not be able to educate their children very well.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    At about 10 o'clock in the evening, in front of an industrial and commercial bank in a not busy road, a thin middle-aged man said to me: "Young man, young man". I walked so fast that I didn't pay attention before I turned back, and at first I thought I was asking for directions and stopped.

    Young man, can you borrow a few rice money," the man continued. Then next door a woman with a child in her arms came up and helped talk. At that time, the street lights on the street were not very bright, and I was a little scared myself, so I said

    No, no," and walked away. Now I regret it a little when I return home, I feel that the man's attitude is quite sincere, and he is not the kind of cold-blooded person. At that time, I just thought that it didn't matter if I was deceived, I just gave a few dollars, but there were few people on the road at that time, and I was afraid of my personal safety.

    Now I feel that my conscience can't get over it, so entangled.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hmm, I encountered something similar tonight, I don't know if it's true, but, give me another choice, I guess it will still help. The price to be paid is a month's salary for a working dog, a first-tier city.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You will feel that there are still many good people in the world, and you will give back to the society in the future, and maybe help other strangers when they need help. At that time, I was a student studying in a different place, and after working outside the school, I was ready to take the last bus back to school.

    At this time, there was a young lady on the side of the road who was also waiting for the bus with me. The two waited for half a night, but they still didn't see the bus. I looked at the bus stop sign and realized that the time for the last bus had passed, and there would definitely be no buses on that line.

    So, I asked the young lady if she was also waiting for a bus on a certain line, and she said yes. Then I told her that the last bus had left and that it was long gone. Unexpectedly, the young lady was very calm, took out her mobile phone and called her boyfriend ** and asked him to pick her up.

    I thought about whether I should take a taxi, but I was still a little reluctant to give up, hoping that there would be some miracles. A miracle happened, and the young lady kindly asked if she would like to take their car back to the Qingting Hall when the time came. At that time, my heart was really hot and I was very grateful.

    On the way, we talked a lot and learned that I was a student and worked outside. The young lady was very caring, obviously she could get off the bus first, but took care of me and sent me to school first.

    After many years, when I was already an adult, on the side of the road, when I saw a primary school student who had not been picked up by an adult, I went up to ask if there was no one at home to take the original high difference stove. I asked her if she remembered her family's number, and she nodded.

    **After getting through, I learned that the family had made a fuss, thinking that Qi pretended to have someone else to take the child, but who knew that no one came to take the child.

    The experience of being helped by strangers will always be cherished in your heart, so that you will feel the friendship from other relatives and friends around you, and continue to pass on this kindness. The relationship between people will become more harmonious, and you will feel that the world is still very beautiful.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I remember when I was in school, I also received help from strangers, and my first reaction at that time was to be very nervous, and when I received help from strangers, my first reaction was to be a little nervous, because I didn't know each other and didn't know why the other party wanted to help me.

    I remember that the sky was cloudy at that time, and I always had a kind of luck mentality, thinking that I might be faster when I rode a bicycle, so I didn't drive my child to class, because I had to send my child to school at that time, and I remember that it was almost two o'clock, so I thought that at my own speed, I would definitely be able to get to school in time, and if I got to school like that, I would avoid the rain and get soaked, so we set off like this at that time. However, it is possible that a lot of time was spent on the various traffic lights, so when we reached the school gate, the sky was already pouring rain.

    When an old man he didn't know before, when he saw us in such a state, he hurriedly gave us the umbrella in his hand, and he hurriedly said, you send the child to school first, and then give it back to me later. He was nervous and stupid to know, so I was very moved, because I didn't know them, and they were worried that the child would catch a cold when it rained, so I was very nervous, and at the same time saw that I was drenched all over, and I was also very concerned, at that time I felt that there was kindness between strangers, and I saw this sudden touch, and the inner world still felt full of admiration for the old man.

    In fact, I don't know, there are also kindness among people, and these unkind people are always hidden in the crowd, so we can't generalize and ignore all the people above who are hidden around us, so we also have to be a kind person and become one of them, maybe people are constantly learning and comprehending.

    And so on, bit by bit, constitute every moment of the warmth of my life. When I was at a low point, when I was depressed, these warm moments were like a ray of light, illuminating my way forward! It gives me the strength and courage to believe that the world is beautiful.

    All difficulties can be overcome! There are so many strangers who have never known each other to move you, help you move forward, and make you always believe that life is beautiful and the world is worth it!

    Have you ever been so moved?

    Therefore, I sometimes try to help others as much as I can, and this has become my credo in life! And tell my children to help others when they can help others, you are just a small gesture, and it is a great warmth to him. Therefore, life will also be more exciting because of giving roses to others, and there is a lingering fragrance in your hands!

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